Can men and women be just friends?

[Buddy_Christ]

His initial thought was to bang you, but after he got you home you probably began speaking, which ruined it for him.

couldn't of said it better myself.

 

[Werd]

couldn't of said it better myself.

Or perhaps they were men that valued a woman irrespective of her "bangability factor".... now there's a novel idea.


(not for all men though. )

 

[Buddy_Christ]

Or perhaps they were men that valued a woman irrespective of her "bangability factor".... now there's a novel idea.


(not for all men though. )

while i think that could be possible, the fact is, most guys want to think with their dicks. i've seen and talked to plenty of women that upon first meeting them i thought "damn, she'd be great to fuck." after talking to them for a while, i realized she was a complete head case and would be nothing but a problem if sex did happen.

i'm sure i'm not the only one this has happened to.

i rest my case.

 

[Werd]

And of course, you would NEVER meet a chick, think, DAMN I'd like to fuck her but it would definitely hurt her at this point in her life. So maybe I should keep my dick in my pants and be her friend because she is really a decent human being, but because a "relationship" is impossilbe (for whatever reason) I won't fuck with her by even TRYING TO BANG HER.

Not all men are shallow assholes.

There are some men that realize that a woman's value does not begin OR end with her sex.

Here's a thought.... If you were injured some way and your dick could no longer get hard - would that mean that your value as a human being would decrease?

I rest MY case.

 

[bluepeter]

And of course, you would NEVER meet a chick, think, DAMN I'd like to fuck her but it would definitely hurt her at this point in her life. So maybe I should keep my dick in my pants and be her friend because she is really a decent human being, but because a "relationship" is impossilbe (for whatever reason) I won't fuck with her by even TRYING TO BANG HER.

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Whoa, hold on. That's exactly what I do but that's not addressing the point. In your scenario, I meet you and am hot for you but realize it isn't workable at that time. I slide into 'friend' role but I'm not just a friend because if the opportunity presented itself, I'd be in your pants in a second.

In other words, if I find you attractive, I can never be 'just a friend' to you.

I rest MY case.

 

[Buddy_Christ]

oh no, i understand what you're saying, and yes, i'm sure i've been there once or twice.

but back to my origonal point - i've seen plenty of women open their mouth and my dick went straight to the ground because they were psycho nut cases, even if they were hot.

and if my dick couldn't get hard, i wouldn't have a pulse anymore, so my value as a human would be worm food. end of story.

 

[Dial_tone]

only if the woman is incredibly ugly

this is always a stupid answer because if he thought she was incredibly ugly they wouldn't be friends in the first place. How many female friends have you had that you found repulsive? I guess zero.

 

[Werd]

Sorry, I don't agree. There are many men that I would fuck in a heartbeat if all the planets are in alignment, but that doesn't mean that I do. Hell, a lot of these guys I only look a split second, find them hot, then lose interest after that second is over... So what is your point?

You are assuming that because there is sexual attraction this negates friendship status. WHY?

I find a guy attractive but don't want to be his friend, nor do I care to talk to him. I find a guy NOT attractive but would like to be his friend. I find a guy UGLY and dont want to be in the same state, let alone room with him. I find a guy gorgeous but for whatever reason don't want him to be my boyfriend but am very happy to call him my friend.

What does any of this have to do with validating your initial arguement that men and women can never be friends?

 

[bluepeter]

Sorry, I don't agree. There are many men that I would fuck in a heartbeat if all the planets are in alignment, but that doesn't mean that I do. Hell, a lot of these guys I only look a split second, find them hot, then lose interest after that second is over... So what is your point?

You are assuming that because there is sexual attraction this negates friendship status. WHY?

I find a guy attractive but don't want to be his friend, nor do I care to talk to him. I find a guy NOT attractive but would like to be his friend. I find a guy UGLY and dont want to be in the same state, let alone room with him. I find a guy gorgeous but for whatever reason don't want him to be my boyfriend but am very happy to call him my friend.

What does any of this have to do with validating your initial arguement that men and women can never be friends?

Your offering a woman's point of view and that's fine. I'm telling you that for a man, it doesn't exist. That's why we're men

 

[Werd]

OK... I'll buy THAT for a dollar.

*NARF*


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