I understood what you were saying and I don't think you're a bad person or anything. All I'm saying is that for me personally, if my training partner took off his shirt in the gym, I'd walk away and pretend like I didn't know him. Then, I'd call him later that night and tell him I gave up on the whole bodybuilding thing and am going to be a painter instead. Then, I'd get a membership at a new gym, make new friends, and get a new training partner and make a point of clarifying with him right from the get-go that if he ever takes off his shirt in the gym, I'll run away like a frightened little girl and take a big fucking steamer in his gym bag on my way out.