Being cheated on

[bambam]

I found out that my gf of almost two years has cheated on me. Who else has been cheated on and did you stay with them?

 

[Mighty P]

DON'T STAY!!! You may love her, but if she loved you she would'nt have done it. You can try to rationalize it in tons of ways. You may even think she had a reason, but when it comes down to it she does not love you. SO FIND SOMEONE WHO DOES! btw... I'm sorry to hear that man, I know it hurts and leaving is gonna hurt worse for a while. You gotta do it though.

 

[Frackal]

Do not stay my friend, there is honestly rarely any chance of things working out after this and you will be resigning yourself to much misery and future events similiar to this if you stay. I suspect you are in a lot of pain at this time and are very vulnerable and it is easy to let people sway you but do not allow it, be brave and leave the bitch behind. Please feel free to Email me if you need to talk, I have been through a similiar situation. Peace.

 

[HighIntensity]

Yea Fracks been through this shit and helped me...i went through it 4 months ago. Three years, and without warning cheated on. No matter how tuff it is, it can never be the same my friend. Try and swallow the bitter pill and walk away.

In all likely hood she does not deserve you...but just think...can you ever look her in the eyes again, could it ever be as it was before...Cheaters are gutless people imop, and she was just showing her true colors.

pm me or email me, if its ever eating you up

goodluck

 

[bambam]

yeah it has been eating me up, I have been missing alot of gym days, and eating like shit. Fucking up my cycle that I am on right. I am taking some time off from school to get focused again. I just feel lost and clueless.

 

[saint808]

fidelity is a lost artform... i am truly sorry to hear that... but if she cheated on oyu then she will likely do so again... no need to point blame here... maybe it's just not meant to be... but man if you love her unconditionally i know it is gonna hurt you man... but maybe it wasn't meant to be

 

[bunnymt]

You are wrong

I have to personally attest that the old adage "once a cheater, always a cheater" is FALSE. It IS possible to go through something like that and remain together, trust me, I know. It takes a big man to forgive a woman for cheating on him because the easy thing to do is to end things and move on. Deciding to stick together is an uphill battle, though. It is not easy.
If you love this girl, you can at least try and work things out. Who knows, you may see that you cannot move past it and work things out...THEN you part ways. At least try.
Cheating is an awful, terrible thing. It is hard on both people. But you two CAN move past it, if it is a mutual desire.

Is she sorry and repentful for what she did? You have to look at how she is acting and reacting.

Honestly, take care.

bunny

 

[bunnymt]

Bam Bam, you can also pm me or anything if you have any questions....I am going through this terrible shit right now.

bunny

 

[Frackal]

BULLSHIT!!!!!!!


PS - The above comment was only directed at you bunnymt if you were the one who cheated, if it was the vice/versa, than I apologize and wish you luck but my sentiments remain the same regarding your philosophy...only in extremely rare circumstances is cheating forgivable.

 

[bunnymt]

Bullshit to ME? I am talking from a personal experience. It is a terrible situation and really painful, but it is possible to move past it IF the two people really want to.