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are you from a dysfunctional family?
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I may just be the queen of dysfunction... sadly, not my choice and am doing everything I can to fix it. Sorta hard though when the government fucks your kids.
As for the family I grew up in... Yea, it was pretty bad, but still I knew others who were far worse off than me. All in all, I would have to say that my younger sister has turned out best in life as she was ignored for the most part by both my parents and as screwed up as I was, I think I did a pretty OK job mothering her myself.
I forgave my parents for all the fucked up things they did to us as kids because no parents have a guide book. But I am having a very hard time letting go of the things they did to us as adults... by that point, they should have gotten a clue.
As for the family I grew up in... Yea, it was pretty bad, but still I knew others who were far worse off than me. All in all, I would have to say that my younger sister has turned out best in life as she was ignored for the most part by both my parents and as screwed up as I was, I think I did a pretty OK job mothering her myself.
I forgave my parents for all the fucked up things they did to us as kids because no parents have a guide book. But I am having a very hard time letting go of the things they did to us as adults... by that point, they should have gotten a clue.
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my family hhhmmmmm and bunch of monkeys that escaped from the zoo
kano said:
Sounds normal to me
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Anyone here ever beaten near death by their brother while their mother watched and did nothing?
Happened to me twice. Second time mom was forced to call the paramedics because I actually lost consciousness and she got scared that she might have more 'splainin to do than just how it was that I was beaten beyond recognition to my father. She might have to explain how it was that she allowed her teenage son to beat her teenage daughter to death. I suppose the prospect of jail time wasn't so appealing to her.
Anyone ever choked out by their father because he heard from people in your community that you (age 14) sat on a boy's lap in public at a party? Wasn't me and no there was no kissing or petting involved. It was another girl but I still got choked unconscious because my father wanted to *make sure* that even if it wasn't me, I wouldn't go gettting any crazy ideas that such behavior was publicly acceptable for a female child that bore his last name....
NYICE eh?
Happened to me twice. Second time mom was forced to call the paramedics because I actually lost consciousness and she got scared that she might have more 'splainin to do than just how it was that I was beaten beyond recognition to my father. She might have to explain how it was that she allowed her teenage son to beat her teenage daughter to death. I suppose the prospect of jail time wasn't so appealing to her.
Anyone ever choked out by their father because he heard from people in your community that you (age 14) sat on a boy's lap in public at a party? Wasn't me and no there was no kissing or petting involved. It was another girl but I still got choked unconscious because my father wanted to *make sure* that even if it wasn't me, I wouldn't go gettting any crazy ideas that such behavior was publicly acceptable for a female child that bore his last name....
NYICE eh?
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blueta2 said:
Pretty much.
An excellent shrink once told me that the goal of good parenting is to raise your child with and *acceptable level of fucked-up-ness*. I kid ya'll not. The dude was an incredibly smart guy...
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