Do you think that this girl who you are ridiculing wants to have this condition? It is something that is unfortunately out of her control, just like you and many others come to this forum to educate yourselves on AAS, training, nutrition, etc...why don't you have some compassion and educate yourself on bipolar condition, and see what she is having to deal with for the rest of her life instead of calling her a bitch and making fun...pretty fucked up.
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Yeah thats what is seems like,its a rollercoaster ride from hell,And MAdd I have educated myself and I have delt with tons of shit I don't have to,point is I don't have to,just wanted some outside views,hers is to a level where she's supposed to be taking lithium but she refuses to bc she doesn't like the way she feels on it,or as she says "wasting money on it",waste my ass!
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BTW,I also found out she's got a rap sheet that would make most of you feel like saints,including 3 DV charges
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BTW,I also found out she's got a rap sheet that would make most of you feel like saints,including 3 DV charges
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Lol, you must be joking. Am I being trolled? Lol j/k.Did she lie about it or did she tell you about it?
Yeah thats what is seems like,its a rollercoaster ride from hell,And MAdd I have educated myself and I have delt with tons of shit I don't have to,point is I don't have to,just wanted some outside views,hers is to a level where she's supposed to be taking lithium but she refuses to bc she doesn't like the way she feels on it,or as she says "wasting money on it",waste my ass!
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Yeah thats what is seems like,its a rollercoaster ride from hell,And MAdd I have educated myself and I have delt with tons of shit I don't have to,point is I don't have to,just wanted some outside views,hers is to a level where she's supposed to be taking lithium but she refuses to bc she doesn't like the way she feels on it,or as she says "wasting money on it",waste my ass!
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Just asking...not attacking, if she refuses to take her medication that will help with the condition and has anger and aggression issues then yes that is something you have to weigh out, there are other medications for bipolar that she can explore, I do know first hand about this condition, and it needs medical attention...if she is.refusing it then that shows she doesn't care about herself, and so then you have to ask yourself how can she care about you then? In that case it may be better to walk away and let her know when she is ready to help herself to give you a call.
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honestly lithium is horrible shit...there are alternatives however...
and out of curiosity has her shrink done real honest to god labs? including looking around for thyroid probs, pmdd, and a handful of other horrible things that mimic bipolar disorder?
I had a family member that was labeled bipolar...turns out she had jacked up hormones the entire time that took an incredibly intelligent endo to sort out...lithium destroyed her health in the meantime tho
anyway, if you can't handle it...cut bait and run because you'll only make it worse and add a new shitty dimension to her strife
I agree...medication is really essential for a disorder like that. It's very tough to be rational with someone who isn't and you may have to make the hard decision because unfortunately, it's not going to get any better unless she helps herself. It's a very tough place to be. I feel for you!
My experience is they take the meds, decided they feel cured and figure they don't need them; they stop and blow up and there NOTHING......NOTHING you can do or say to fix it short of shoving a pill down their throat. Like Cali said - you can't be reasonable with someone who can't be reasoned with. They usually fuck great but unless you can keep them drugged up it's just not worth the hassle, IMO.
Run far, far away. You cannot help this woman. She will only destroy you. The relationship will end badly eventually, better to get out now.Yeah thats what is seems like,its a rollercoaster ride from hell,And MAdd I have educated myself and I have delt with tons of shit I don't have to,point is I don't have to,just wanted some outside views,hers is to a level where she's supposed to be taking lithium but she refuses to bc she doesn't like the way she feels on it,or as she says "wasting money on it",waste my ass!
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Lithium carbonate has a molecular weight of only 78. That'd work great for a transdermal.
Do some math to calculate dosage assuming 10% absorption. Dissolve it in an equal amount of benzyl alcohol, and add it to her body lotion.
As long as she uses it daily, she'll be fine and she won't even know she's medicated.
P.S. This is surely illegal and only posted for discussion purposes.
Been there, done that. My first love developed bipolar disorder after a horribly stressful life experience (it happens that way sometimes, it's latent and then something triggers it). He was the sweetest guy when we first dated, kind, thoughtful, considerate, classy. When he got sick, it was like Jekyll and Hyde. In the course of a few months he caused serious damage to his parents house, crashed two cars, got arrested and nearly hurt me several times. His parents ended up having him committed then hospitalized to get him stable.You nailed it,its horrible,its like another world ,she would literally argue to the death when there is no logic behind her argument and you can lay the facts out in front of her and it doesn't matter at all,there is no reasoning with this woman,Nothing I mean Nothing helps,and she lies constantly and you can prove and point out anything and it just makes it WORSE!
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Been there, done that. My first love developed bipolar disorder after a horribly stressful life experience (it happens that way sometimes, it's latent and then something triggers it). He was the sweetest guy when we first dated, kind, thoughtful, considerate, classy. When he got sick, it was like Jekyll and Hyde. In the course of a few months he caused serious damage to his parents house, crashed two cars, got arrested and nearly hurt me several times. His parents ended up having him committed then hospitalized to get him stable.
I have a very, very good friend who is a psychotic bipolar and she's what I would consider "brittle" in that she has huge problems when her meds get changed, frequently has to be hospitalized. Unfortunately she also has miserable side effects with a lot of meds but she doesn't want to be sick and does what has to be done.
Like I said, it can ruin the person's life and the lives of everyone around them and if your GF is in denial that makes things 1000x worse. All the other health problems you listed are only compounding things.
Man, I don't care if she's the most beautiful creature on the planet and a completely uninhibited hellcat in bed, NOTHING is worth all the shit you're dealing with. Not your wife, haven't got kids with her, don't own real estate with her, GTFO and feel no guilt doing it.Yeah she's had her vehicle issues just like your ex she destroyed 3 cars I bough her,all three resulted in DUIs,hit a telephone pole with one and knocked out power for two counties,and got a $14000 bill from the phone company,wonderful I KNOW
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Yeah she's had her vehicle issues just like your ex she destroyed 3 cars I bough her,all three resulted in DUIs,hit a telephone pole with one and knocked out power for two counties,and got a $14000 bill from the phone company,wonderful I KNOW
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jesus titty fucking christ, run for the hills.She doesn't see a shrink anymore she doesn't do shit about it and yes she's had the labs done,and yes she has a lot of other issues as well,hormone problems,severe indimeitriosis,thyroid imbalances,x alcoholic,something to do with estrogen pills,and it almost seems to be getting worse
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Do you think that this girl who you are ridiculing wants to have this condition? It is something that is unfortunately out of her control, just like you and many others come to this forum to educate yourselves on AAS, training, nutrition, etc...why don't you have some compassion and educate yourself on bipolar condition, and see what she is having to deal with for the rest of her life instead of calling her a bitch and making fun...pretty fucked up.
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No dear I'm 100% legit,the symptoms are the high and severe low moods,extreme anger and violence,compulsive lying,denial of logic and common sense,etc.And no she came clean w me,over a year ago when we first met she kept having her spells and I told her she was fucking nuts and I was leaving,thats when she told me and I stayed.
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I need to add, the 3 bi polars I know, two do not take meds. Two are totally ok and one is not and it has some hard moments.
I`m going to get "lip" on this, but when I was apprenticing out of the clinic, part of my job was to transcribe all the notes for the ND from the conferences she went to. She did one on "Psychiatric Naturotherapy; Adjunct therapies to allopathic medicines" and there were many studies done that showed people with bi polar do not absorb Zinc well. There was also an issue with 5HTP and theanine not crossing the blood brain barrier in bi polars"
Now all to say, there are DEFINITE chemical causes for mental illness. Doesn't make it easier, but there are good therapist that work.
FUCK, I love you! You are one of the coolest guys on EF, seriously!
I was going to say almost this, but you said it way better than moi
And she was dx with bi polar? This sounds way more like a personality issue than depression!
Wow, if someone did that to me, I would freak. My BF has ADHD and can sometimes say stupid shit, but to do this is pretty bad
Example- And btw this is the third time some shit like this has happened this week ,a few hours ago I got home from work ,brought her food from panera($17) one fucking meal.She ate,I fucked her,we watched a movie,I got up to take a shower,while in the bath room I yelled Honey will you please go feed Brixxx (my Brazilian fila) ,no response ,I walk out a ask her the same thing,she's on the corner of the bed with a blank stare,I say thank you,5 min later she walks in the bathroom smacks the razor which is on my face out of my hand and says its your fucking dog you feed him(keep in mind this woman hasn't worked in 2 years I support her and her son,in my house) I said is that really the fucking way you wanna talk to me! She says fuck you I just remembered I have a date have a nice fucking life and left with a bag of clothes,45 min later she called me and said I'm sorry can I please come home,ill do anything! MY FUCKING LIFE SUCKS! WTF
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How often does she get that "blank stare"
Did you let her come back?
Yes I did,its been four years I love this woman,and Cindy it happens every couple hours,and MAdd I know,trust me she's stabbed me,run over me and multiple stitches from being hit with shit
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Example- And btw this is the third time some shit like this has happened this week ,a few hours ago I got home from work ,brought her food from panera($17) one fucking meal.She ate,I fucked her,we watched a movie,I got up to take a shower,while in the bath room I yelled Honey will you please go feed Brixxx (my Brazilian fila) ,no response ,I walk out a ask her the same thing,she's on the corner of the bed with a blank stare,I say thank you,5 min later she walks in the bathroom smacks the razor which is on my face out of my hand and says its your fucking dog you feed him(keep in mind this woman hasn't worked in 2 years I support her and her son,in my house) I said is that really the fucking way you wanna talk to me! She says fuck you I just remembered I have a date have a nice fucking life and left with a bag of clothes,45 min later she called me and said I'm sorry can I please come home,ill do anything! MY FUCKING LIFE SUCKS! WTF
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Yes I did,its been four years I love this woman,and Cindy it happens every couple hours,and MAdd I know,trust me she's stabbed me,run over me and multiple stitches from being hit with shit
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Wow! You need to get some help. It's like anyone who is with an addict (and I was) where they say "you become as sick or sicker than the person you're with"
Obvious issue here is you didn't lay the pipe correctly.
Had you screwed her properly, she would have been asleep in the bed and never heard you ask her to feed the dog.
HTH!
Obvious issue here is you didn't lay the pipe correctly.
Had you screwed her properly, she would have been asleep in the bed and never heard you ask her to feed the dog.
HTH!
Screwing isn't the prob bro,u the time I had my 9 bye 9 in your mouth you fell in love too,btw stop calling me
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This is going to sound harsh, but I think you're a fool and deserve every bit of shit that's heaped on you. I have zero sympathy for self-inflicted wounds, and you are clearly doing this to yourself by chosing to stay with someone who will NEVER be 'right'.
I love how all the resident board certified psychiatrist come out of the woodwork when people start talking about mental health conditions. Its enlightening!
Yea, but , Hitman, you have to understand that he is sick too.
When you are in a situation like that you really don't have an understanding of how serious it is. It's like being brainwashed. There is not logic, it's completely irrational. You actually think it's YOU causing their behavior at times.
When I think about how I was in my abusive relationship....I actually hated myself so much I thought I deserved that kind of treatment. I don't think it's any different than someone who cuts themselves. It's sick to even think that way.
Thank you,you fuckin nailed it,I FEEL RETARDED,I honestly have began to think life is supposed to be this way
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Exactly,I wish I could afford a phone counsler ,it would help so much,and thank you all this has helped SOOOOO much u don't even know ,thank you
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I love how all the resident board certified psychiatrist come out of the woodwork when people start talking about mental health conditions. Its enlightening!
Dude, you do NOT want to be in an intimate relationship with someone who has active mental health condition(s). You have been and will continue to be traumatized by their actions. Believe me, I have been there. You cannot fix them so stop feeling sorry for them and do yourself a favor and get the fuck out. Thank your lucky stars there are no kids involved.
I may have missed it but in no way will she get dedicated to therapy and take meds, even if you start packing her shit and give her a months rent for a hotel and tell her you are Done? Thats basically what I did.
Im on the elliptical so i'll chime in more but I hooked back up with my best friend from HS 15 yrs later and have. been dating long distance for over 2yrs and I came to grips that she had major mental health problems at about the 7 to 8 month mark. Maybe its the long dist that has preserved it but anyways...her family sided wiith her ex during divorce b/c he appears flawless which i tbought was when she snapped but what icve found out is that he is super messed up like diabolical and has mentally fucked her up since they got married. He called when i was on a long wkend there and said he needed their sons backpack. Fyi hes already gotten her in trouble for going to their house when hes not home. So i tell her he called and she says shell drp it off on the way to the store. It was a set up and he took pictures accusing her of breaking in. This happens all the time as she is very trusting mixed with some gullibility. I could go on forever with the bs he did and he's also close to the police had tons of money and so on.
So we have been all over the board tryin to diagnose her from bipolar to borderline but the latest is md. And tried a diff set of meds every few months. She's taking a new ADD med and celexa now which I swear has made her better. Its been slow but good progress. No way would i ever think she could work in the real world 2 yrs ago but now shes working 2 damn jobs. We now fight once every two weeks instead of 2-3 times a week and now she always explains how her point was baseless and just didn't want seem weak for losing. Anyways i'll give you more info when I get home. I stuck it out when most of her friends and family turned their backs on her and thats her in my avi so it was hard to leave from that perspective too. I had a long stressful time deciding whether to ditch her and move on OR help. Seeing her now I'm happy as hell even tho there are still struggles but back when it was bad I HATED dealing with her. Very tricky decision but if u don't think shell get serious years and years of help then get her outta there. Sheezus got carried away, gotta finish work out.... GL bro!
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flex, get on a good forum for now. i don't know if you go to church but they have people there too that will talk to you about this regardless of your beliefs. i'll see if i can find the link to the forum i was on and pm it to you. it made me feel so much better.
the problem you have that i struggled with is if you find the strength to stop supporting her she'll be literally screwed. i kept telling myself that if i don't stick in there she'll be in a shelter and i could've stopped it.
wow. You dated her long distance for two years and discovered she was mentally ill at the 7 month mark and was able to still make that work? That's incredible.

wow. You dated her long distance for two years and discovered she was mentally ill at the 7 month mark and was able to still make that work? That's incredible.
...and Thanks.
She's always working and working out now with an occassional rough patch here and there but pretty much has her life back.
I love how all the resident board certified psychiatrist come out of the woodwork when people start talking about mental health conditions. Its enlightening!
Dude, you do NOT want to be in an intimate relationship with someone who has active mental health condition(s). You have been and will continue to be traumatized by their actions. Believe me, I have been there. You cannot fix them so stop feeling sorry for them and do yourself a favor and get the fuck out. Thank your lucky stars there are no kids involved.
That, my friend, is what I would consider a "wake up call" moment. She did something so completely out of left field and violent that could have potentially harmed you (safety razor or not, shit can happen. I had a friend who stepped on a safety razor getting into the shower and ended up needing stitches).Example- And btw this is the third time some shit like this has happened this week ,a few hours ago I got home from work ,brought her food from panera($17) one fucking meal.She ate,I fucked her,we watched a movie,I got up to take a shower,while in the bath room I yelled Honey will you please go feed Brixxx (my Brazilian fila) ,no response ,I walk out a ask her the same thing,she's on the corner of the bed with a blank stare,I say thank you,5 min later she walks in the bathroom smacks the razor which is on my face out of my hand and says its your fucking dog you feed him(keep in mind this woman hasn't worked in 2 years I support her and her son,in my house) I said is that really the fucking way you wanna talk to me! She says fuck you I just remembered I have a date have a nice fucking life and left with a bag of clothes,45 min later she called me and said I'm sorry can I please come home,ill do anything! MY FUCKING LIFE SUCKS! WTF
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That, my friend, is what I would consider a "wake up call" moment. She did something so completely out of left field and violent that could have potentially harmed you (safety razor or not, shit can happen. I had a friend who stepped on a safety razor getting into the shower and ended up needing stitches).
Okay, I told you I had a bipolar boyfriend, right? I clearly remember my wake up call moment. I lived in an apartment and the main entrance doors to the complex had eye level windows about one foot square. Boyfriend and I get into an argument over something stupid and he tears out of the apartment. Dumbass me follows him. He slammed the main door to the complex so hard the glass shattered and the shards flew several feet into the hallway. If I had been just a foot or so closer to him I would have ended up with a face full of glass shards. He knew I was behind him but he never stopped, never looked back. I knew, at that moment, he just didn't care.
I was only 17 but I began to realize that anybody that could do something that dangerously thoughtless I didn't need in my life.
I'm going to assume you're older than 17.
I've heard of people who are bipolar and function without medication but they usually are very sharp and have really good personal insight to what's going on in their minds. People with no insight, who represent a danger to themselves and others can't pull it off. They need psychiatric and/or medical management. More importantly, they need to WANT to not be irrational assholes. She's just being a selfish c-word and you need to stop letting her shit on you.
Fuck that. No piece of ass is worth continuing this cycle of insanity and disrespect.But she said she'd do "anything" to come home.
Since she's hot, those are powerful words.
Fuck that. No piece of ass is worth continuing this cycle of insanity and disrespect.
This shit is driving me nutz,it seems to be lose lose,no matter what!
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