Anybody have experience dating a bipolar bitch?

[just...v]

How often does she get that "blank stare"

Yea...
That's a little on the creepy side.


I want to know why he stays.

 

[FLEX4USML]

Did you let her come back?

Yes I did,its been four years I love this woman,and Cindy it happens every couple hours,and MAdd I know,trust me she's stabbed me,run over me and multiple stitches from being hit with shit

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[blueta2]

Maybe you can get some support. There are groups like Al Anon for the loved ones of those with mental illness. These groups help you focus, and give you the strength to do what you have to do

 

[blueta2]

Yes I did,its been four years I love this woman,and Cindy it happens every couple hours,and MAdd I know,trust me she's stabbed me,run over me and multiple stitches from being hit with shit

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Wow! You need to get some help. It's like anyone who is with an addict (and I was) where they say "you become as sick or sicker than the person you're with"

 

[mrplunkey]

Example- And btw this is the third time some shit like this has happened this week ,a few hours ago I got home from work ,brought her food from panera($17) one fucking meal.She ate,I fucked her,we watched a movie,I got up to take a shower,while in the bath room I yelled Honey will you please go feed Brixxx (my Brazilian fila) ,no response ,I walk out a ask her the same thing,she's on the corner of the bed with a blank stare,I say thank you,5 min later she walks in the bathroom smacks the razor which is on my face out of my hand and says its your fucking dog you feed him(keep in mind this woman hasn't worked in 2 years I support her and her son,in my house) I said is that really the fucking way you wanna talk to me! She says fuck you I just remembered I have a date have a nice fucking life and left with a bag of clothes,45 min later she called me and said I'm sorry can I please come home,ill do anything! MY FUCKING LIFE SUCKS! WTF

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Obvious issue here is you didn't lay the pipe correctly.

Had you screwed her properly, she would have been asleep in the bed and never heard you ask her to feed the dog.

HTH!

 

[just...v]

Yes I did,its been four years I love this woman,and Cindy it happens every couple hours,and MAdd I know,trust me she's stabbed me,run over me and multiple stitches from being hit with shit

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I'm about a year and a half out of an abusive relationship. (Which I don't have to tell you that you are in.) I remember making excuses for what he did, it's not that bad, he didn't really mean it, I love him, blah, blah blah. I know that for me one of the hardest things was to admit I was really being abused. I thought that there was no way I was one of "those people".

Your situation is very serious. A woman is capable of killing a man, bud.

What are the things about her that you love so much?

And that isn't sarcasm or anything. I would really like to know.

 

[oxymoron]

I may have missed it but in no way will she get dedicated to therapy and take meds, even if you start packing her shit and give her a months rent for a hotel and tell her you are Done? Thats basically what I did.
Im on the elliptical so i'll chime in more but I hooked back up with my best friend from HS 15 yrs later and have. been dating long distance for over 2yrs and I came to grips that she had major mental health problems at about the 7 to 8 month mark. Maybe its the long dist that has preserved it but anyways...her family sided wiith her ex during divorce b/c he appears flawless which i tbought was when she snapped but what icve found out is that he is super messed up like diabolical and has mentally fucked her up since they got married. He called when i was on a long wkend there and said he needed their sons backpack. Fyi hes already gotten her in trouble for going to their house when hes not home. So i tell her he called and she says shell drp it off on the way to the store. It was a set up and he took pictures accusing her of breaking in. This happens all the time as she is very trusting mixed with some gullibility. I could go on forever with the bs he did and he's also close to the police had tons of money and so on.
So we have been all over the board tryin to diagnose her from bipolar to borderline but the latest is md. And tried a diff set of meds every few months. She's taking a new ADD med and celexa now which I swear has made her better. Its been slow but good progress. No way would i ever think she could work in the real world 2 yrs ago but now shes working 2 damn jobs. We now fight once every two weeks instead of 2-3 times a week and now she always explains how her point was baseless and just didn't want seem weak for losing. Anyways i'll give you more info when I get home. I stuck it out when most of her friends and family turned their backs on her and thats her in my avi so it was hard to leave from that perspective too. I had a long stressful time deciding whether to ditch her and move on OR help. Seeing her now I'm happy as hell even tho there are still struggles but back when it was bad I HATED dealing with her. Very tricky decision but if u don't think shell get serious years and years of help then get her outta there. Sheezus got carried away, gotta finish work out.... GL bro!


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[just...v]

Wow! You need to get some help. It's like anyone who is with an addict (and I was) where they say "you become as sick or sicker than the person you're with"

This is exactly how it is. Awesome point.

 

[canadianhitman]

This is going to sound harsh, but I think you're a fool and deserve every bit of shit that's heaped on you. I have zero sympathy for self-inflicted wounds, and you are clearly doing this to yourself by chosing to stay with someone who will NEVER be 'right'.

 

[oxymoron]

Wow just read ur 751 post. We never touched each other shed just tell me she's cheating but be sitting at a coffee shop reading.
Another thing I did was I would write down the shit she did verbatim and leave a copy out. She kept these and read them and it made her face it quicker than arguing. OK back to it.

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