An update on my life

[Lestat]

Oh shit man... we can't come to a concensus here!!!

 

[velvett]

Imbeciles

She saids she is ill. He can't just say sorry, call me when you get better. He can, but he would be stupid to do it.

Why exactly?

She made it pretty clear that she would not be available for him until she tells him that she is ready.

I apologize for being so out of touch. I was studying really hard all weekend through yesterday and had a really restless night tuesday night. Well, it progressively got worse after the final and I finally spent all last night in the urgent care with a kidney infection, yay. My back was just killing me that I could barely move, so I'm pretty much down for the count for awhile. My godparents are staying for a week starting friday night so I won't be able to make it on saturday with you. I'm sorry it's been so tough to get together, life is just crazy. Here I thought summer was supposed to be relaxing and boring! Well, I gotta run to the pharamacy to get some anti-biotics (told you I was accident-prone) talk to you soon!

 

[jerseyart]

It has nothing to do with being a girl, I'm just not that sypathetic.

You also never had to work hard to get some loving

Your response reads like a note to a gf who was rude and didnt call you when she was supposed to do so Also reads like " I won't let you know I like you until I know that you like me" Girls can do that, harder for guys

She played the sympathy card, so now he has to respond in kind. He doesn't have to, unless he actually likes her

It is what us guys must do wiuth you girls. Cuz your soft and talk pretty

 

[velvett]

You also never had to work hard to get some loving

Your response reads like a note to a gf who was rude and didnt call you when she was supposed to do so Also reads like " I won't let you know I like you until I know that you like me" Girls can do that, harder for guys

She played the sympathy card, so now he has to respond in kind. He doesn't have to, unless he actually likes her

It is what us guys must do wiuth you girls. Cuz your soft and talk pretty

We may just have to agree to disagree.
Please answer my other response - I really want to know, I;m not being a wise ass.

 

[gonelifting]

First of all, Do what you have to do to get her ON THE PHONE. There is no sincerity in Efuckingmails! TALK to her and SHOW her that you feel badly about the situation she`s in. THEN go from there.

On the phone is very acceptable to ask to visit her. Tell you the truth, we are SOOOO over analysing this that any of the mentioned replies would be OK. Are we the reply perfectionists or what? lol

Call her again bro and ask how she`s doing. I know it`s tough, but she`s sick goddamit, where the hell can she be but home?

 

[jerseyart]

Why exactly?

She made it pretty clear that she would not be available for him until she tells him that she is ready.

That's true. But what women say and what they actually think are two different things

No one likes to be blown off when they are sick. 99% chance she will not wish to see him, but at least he was a nice guy about it, and can't but have helped to leave a favorable impression with her.

If the illness is a lie to justify her lack of interest and consideration, doesn't make a difference what he does anyway.

 

[velvett]

First of all, Do what you have to do to get her ON THE PHONE. There is no sincerity in Efuckingmails! TALK to her and SHOW her that you feel badly about the situation she`s in. THEN go from there.

On the phone is very acceptable to ask to visit her. Tell you the truth, we are SOOOO over analysing this that any of the mentioned replies would be OK. Are we the reply perfectionists or what? lol

Call her again bro and ask how she`s doing. I know it`s tough, but she`s sick goddamit, where the hell can she be but home?

SURVEY SAYS!

GL has the best answer.

 

[Lestat]

I've called her twice now.. Saturday and last night... left messages.. both messages said give me a call.... I'm not suppose to call a THIRD time just cuz she was sick? Isn't that a little desperate?

 

[velvett]

That's true. But what women say and what they actually think are two different things

No one likes to be blown off when they are sick. 99% chance she will not wish to see him, but at least he was a nice guy about it, and can't but have helped to leave a favorable impression with her.

If the illness is a lie to justify her lack of interest and consideration, doesn't make a difference what he does anyway.

It must be me then.
If I'm sick I'm looking to be left the hell alone not sticky sweet sympathy.

 

[jerseyart]

Velvett

Serious response.

There is no way to gage what kind of person she is since none of us know her. An offer of help is not too pushy in my opinion. It also covers things if she is really ill and something of the sensitive type. He at least demonstrated concern and consideration, even if she does not wish to see him. I can't see how that would hurt him. To the contrary, it demonstrates a regard beyong " I only wish to see you when I have a chance to get laid."

Conversely the only down side is coming across as liking her given the possibility that she doesn't reciprocate. So what. He won't die for having let some girl know he's interested only to find out she isn't That's a non issue in my opinion.