Ahhhhhh. The retired life is great!

[TC2]

Actually, no I don't know it.

Women have ALWAYS worked, they just didn't always get paid for their 24/7 service to the family.

... so you were saying?

Your initial comment made it sound like women have been getting over by staying home and taking care of the family while men were out somewhere busting their asses. Last I heard (and LIVED) taking care of a household was 24/7 job with no sick days, vacation days, no raises just constant work that was never done fast or good enough.

Truth is that very few people in American society value their families - ie children and old people and taking care of those relationships along with the household. They have put a paramount on money and youth... everything else is just an after thought.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narcissistic_personality_disorder


Like always you WILL turn this and every thread into something about YOU.

 

[jack sparrow]

You still talking Jack? Shouldn't you be working by now? You must have a lot of fuckoff time.

You must have a lot of fuck off time too, due to the fact that some poor sucker is paying your bills. I feel sorry for losers too, but some people take it to the extreme.

 

[stilleto]

He doesnt do nothing all day. According to him, he takes care of the household chores and caters to his lady when she comes home from work. Lots of women function this way in regards to their SO and households so why shouldn't it be acceptable for the man to function in this capacity?

i'd be ashamed of a woman who slept until 2pm and then did nothing too.
what self worth would she have?
she'd basically be a concubine.

 

[stilleto]

I'll drop you a postcard while we're traveling this summer. I'm sure you'll be glad to hear from us and thanks for the green!

instead of upgrading that shithole you live in, you're going to travel?
awesome!

 

[jack sparrow]

 

[jack sparrow]

You could prolly put wheels on that fucker...

 

[Bikini Mod]

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narcissistic_personality_disorder


Like always you WILL turn this and every thread into something about YOU.

LOL Too late, YOU already beat me to it!

 

[wootoom]

lol

 

[timtim]

So when will she get on in this clandestine scheme to pack her shit and get out? I mean, he doesn't go anywhere except to the gym. Wouldn't she need some time to get her shit out without him recognizing what is going on?

He is an able bodied male with no other obligations so how hard would it be for him to find another job? It would be a bit tougher for her to find a place to live for her and her daughter (I think I read that she has a daughter, she may be living on her own though so I am not sure) then it would be for Biteme to find some bullshit job to pay his bills until he can find something better. I mean, he doesn't even have to pay childsupport and he can work as many hours as he needs, so what is the issue? How hard could it be?

It seems that their relationship is set up in such a way that they are fairly dependent on one another. So whoever backs out will effectively fuck them BOTH... no?

Or how bout this.... they actually communicate and compromise and MAYBE they do things so that it will either work for them BOTH or they decide to call it a day and separate so that it will be equally easy on them BOTH.

No, that could NEVER happen....

if shes making enough money to support 3 people and decided to leave, then she could afford to support 2 people when she finds a new place.

if he is above the age of 40, finding a good job that pays wont be easy as most companies wont want to pay the insurance for an older man as well as start him at a higher salary because of his past experience.

so if she decided to leave, hes the one fucked.

 

[Bikini Mod]

if shes making enough money to support 3 people and decided to leave, then she could afford to support 2 people when she finds a new place.

if he is above the age of 40, finding a good job that pays wont be easy as most companies wont want to pay the insurance for an older man as well as start him at a higher salary because of his past experience.

so if she decided to leave, hes the one fucked.

We can agree to disagree. He did just fine supporting himself BEFORE he met her. (They have only been together for a few months). So he will have ZERO TROUBLE finding a job to support himself if she were to leave. It isn't like he was the CEO of a fortune 500 company before and as the wife of a man who is closer t0 60 then he is 50 I see that it ain't easy, but it also ain't all the impossible to find money when you get the rug pulled out from underneath ya unexpectedly.

Men have such a skewed perception of life.

If the woman stays home and takes care of the household (regardless of the number of children) then she is a freeloading whore and waste of human life. I love the one dood who called that station in life *shit* then tried to backpeddle saying he meant nothing negative. Still waiting to hear an intelligent retort but considering the source I know damned well I won't get one.

If the man stays home and takes care of the household (sans children) then he is a god (in some men's eyes) and *should watch his back because that evil bitch will eventually fuck him*.

We are not talking about someone who is much older taking advantage of a party that is much younger. BOTH are on equal footing financially and BOTH are about the same age and have similar life experience (ie previous marriage, a child each who is now mid teens at least).

So WTF is the problem? And who are we to judge?

The way I see it they are two consenting adults that have set up a situation where they are equally dependent on one another. Would it work for all of us? Of course not; different strokes for different folks. I honestly don't understand the hostility directed towards Biteme... unless of course, he may have called some of us kettles in the past when he is now crowing about being a pot.

Just sayin is all.