Ahhhhhh. The retired life is great!

[timtim]

We can agree to disagree. He did just fine supporting himself BEFORE he met her. (They have only been together for a few months). So he will have ZERO TROUBLE finding a job to support himself if she were to leave. It isn't like he was the CEO of a fortune 500 company before and as the wife of a man who is closer t0 60 then he is 50 I see that it ain't easy, but it also ain't all the impossible to find money when you get the rug pulled out from underneath ya unexpectedly.

Men have such a skewed perception of life.

If the woman stays home and takes care of the household (regardless of the number of children) then she is a freeloading whore and waste of human life. I love the one dood who called that station in life *shit* then tried to backpeddle saying he meant nothing negative. Still waiting to hear an intelligent retort but considering the source I know damned well I won't get one.

If the man stays home and takes care of the household (sans children) then he is a god (in some men's eyes) and *should watch his back because that evil bitch will eventually fuck him*.

We are not talking about someone who is much older taking advantage of a party that is much younger. BOTH are on equal footing financially and BOTH are about the same age and have similar life experience (ie previous marriage, a child each who is now mid teens at least).

So WTF is the problem? And who are we to judge?

The way I see it they are two consenting adults that have set up a situation where they are equally dependent on one another. Would it work for all of us? Of course not; different strokes for different folks. I honestly don't understand the hostility directed towards Biteme... unless of course, he may have called some of us kettles in the past when he is now crowing about being a pot.

Just sayin is all.

not judging. just saying, if shes the one making the cash and he left his line of work. he will be the one ass out if she leaves.

and i find nothing wrong with his situation or if a woman stays home. doesnt bother me. i just like ambition in my spouse and she has that so we wont be having this type of situation as she finds too much self worth in earning a solid living.

 

[georgie24]

retired or g-bomed?


lol

 

[Bikini Mod]

not judging. just saying, if shes the one making the cash and he left his line of work. he will be the one ass out if she leaves.

and i find nothing wrong with his situation or if a woman stays home. doesnt bother me. i just like ambition in my spouse and she has that so we wont be having this type of situation as she finds too much self worth in earning a solid living.

So staying home to take care of a household has little to no value is what I am hearing on this thread and most certainly is a large part of the reason (IMHO) why the United States is where it is today... sad, sad, sad.

The house belongs to him. His expenses are low. He has never posted up as being someone who requires a lot of *stuff* to function. He is an able-bodied male who answers to no one but himself who is more than capable of finding any old someodd dollar per/hour job.

She obviously has a position where she makes more than enough to support herself. T'would be a tremendous inconvenience for her to be able to function if she were to suddenly find herself without a place to live.

Both would be screwed to some extent but her life would be far more disrupted if she were to find herself with no place to live than his with a sudden loss of her income. He could walk into any place and by day's end find a position to get by till he finds something better.

I've both been homeless (twice as a matter of fact) and without a job. Trust me when I tell you that the being homeless part sucks way more heavily.

 

[stilleto]

So staying home to take care of a household has little to no value is what I am hearing on this thread and most certainly is a large part of the reason (IMHO) why the United States is where it is today... sad, sad, sad.

The house belongs to him. His expenses are low. He has never posted up as being someone who requires a lot of *stuff* to function. He is an able-bodied male who answers to no one but himself who is more than capable of finding any old someodd dollar per/hour job.

She obviously has a position where she makes more than enough to support herself. T'would be a tremendous inconvenience for her to be able to function if she were to suddenly find herself without a place to live.

Both would be screwed to some extent but her life would be far more disrupted if she were to find herself with no place to live than his with a sudden loss of her income. He could walk into any place and by day's end find a position to get by till he finds something better.

I've both been homeless (twice as a matter of fact) and without a job. Trust me when I tell you that the being homeless part sucks way more heavily.

why is she so helpless that she can't find a place to live other than with a guy who's big ambition is to sleep until 2pm?
if she makes such a good living, can't she find an apartment, if not a small house?
I would think moving to a new place is not nearly as big of a life change as going from a working man to a man that sits on his ass all day and sponges off someone else.

and yes, i'd have the same opinion if this was about a woman who no longer had children in the house and planned on sitting around and doing nothing, although- like it or not- men and women are not equal and there's nothing stopping biteme from contributing to society, other than his immense laziness.

 

[Bikini Mod]

why is she so helpless that she can't find a place to live other than with a guy who's big ambition is to sleep until 2pm?
if she makes such a good living, can't she find an apartment, if not a small house?
I would think moving to a new place is not nearly as big of a life change as going from a working man to a man that sits on his ass all day and sponges off someone else.

and yes, i'd have the same opinion if this was about a woman who no longer had children in the house and planned on sitting around and doing nothing, although- like it or not- men and women are not equal and there's nothing stopping biteme from contributing to society, other than his immense laziness.

Well, since you put it like that... I see your point.

But I still say if THEY are happy then we don't have any room to judge. Let's all recognize that we all want something else out of life and everyone has their own definition of *success*.

It'll be VERY disappointing though if some time down the road I see Biteme posting up about *what a scandalous crazy ho this one turned out to be too* after crowing about how *nice it is to retire on the fruit of aforementioned woman's labor.*

 

[stilleto]

Well, since you put it like that... I see your point.

But I still say if THEY are happy then we don't have any room to judge. Let's all recognize that we all want something else out of life and everyone has their own definition of *success*.

It'll be VERY disappointing though if some time down the road I see Biteme posting up about *what a scandalous crazy ho this one turned out to be too* after crowing about how *nice it is to retire on the fruit of aforementioned woman's labor.*

i'm sure that IS going to happen. and you know who will lose out on that deal? miss wonderful, who has been working and paying the bills, buying the food, paying for the travel, and everything else and when biteme decides she's a 'ho', guess who has NOTHING?

her. no child support, no half a house, no half of the bills she's paid. just her kicked to the curb and wondering what the hell was she thinking hooking up with a man who was perfectly happy being a lazy bum.

so yeah, i hope they are happy now, cause she sure as shit isn't going to be happy when she's crying into her pile of bills.

 

[all the whey]

i'm sure that IS going to happen. and you know who will lose out on that deal? miss wonderful, who has been working and paying the bills, buying the food, paying for the travel, and everything else and when biteme decides she's a 'ho', guess who has NOTHING?

her. no child support, no half a house, no half of the bills she's paid. just her kicked to the curb and wondering what the hell was she thinking hooking up with a man who was perfectly happy being a lazy bum.

so yeah, i hope they are happy now, cause she sure as shit isn't going to be happy when she's crying into her pile of bills.

LOLOLO

Sounds like this hits close to home, or you are delusional.

1. It is his house she is living in. When they break up she will still have a job. He won't but will still have bills for the home. Including Electric. (something you bitches think you don't have to pay)

2. She deserves half house? half bills she has paid? etc? When did a guy ever get the money he paid for? She doesn't deserve shit.

3. Waaaaahhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

4......

 

[Bikini Mod]

Mr All The Whey - it isn't always the man that gets fucked in a divorce. Let us remember that.

I don't think Stiletto was saying that she DESERVES half the house, etc. What I think she was saying is that Biteme's GF is taking a mighty huge risk by supporting Biteme when they are not legally married. If the relationship should end, she will be left standing there with holding herself (and nothing more) for all that she has invested. But then again, she isn't 20 something and has been married before so I would think that she is bright enough to know the score.

 

[all the whey]

Mr All The Whey - it isn't always the man that gets fucked in a divorce. Let us remember that.

I don't think Stiletto was saying that she DESERVES half the house, etc. What I think she was saying is that Biteme's GF is taking a mighty huge risk by supporting Biteme when they are not legally married. If the relationship should end, she will be left standing there with holding herself (and nothing more) for all that she has invested. But then again, she isn't 20 something and has been married before so I would think that she is bright enough to know the score.

Oh it is a risk. That is why I said when did a guy get the money he "invested" get the money back? So, she shouldn't.

She may be doing this whole "retired" thing as a scheme to get married anyways.

So, when it ends, then she gets the house also.



Anyways, when it ends...She will have a job with no bills. He will have bills in his name, and no job!!!!!!





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[Bikini Mod]

Oh it is a risk. That is why I said when did a guy get the money he "invested" get the money back? So, she shouldn't.

She may be doing this whole "retired" thing as a scheme to get married anyways.

So, when it ends, then she gets the house also.



Anyways, when it ends...She will have a job with no bills. He will have bills in his name, and no job!!!!!!






.

LOL But you are forgetting the assets...

All of the assets remain his. So she will be out money and have ZERO assets. Whereas he will only need to get a job. The bills you speak of were his BEFORE they met. He had to make his car payment, mortgage, utilities, etc before she came along to pay them.... right? I mean his ex-wife's support only lasted but so long.

I am telling you all, Biteme needs to write a book educating men. I mean, how hard could it be? I have written a coupla them so any fool could do it.