Hey, I am just calling it like I see it.
Who is the rest of the board to judge you as an individual or couple if this is *working* for BOTH of you?
HeatheRae got railed mad crazy because she didn't return to her law practise after taking care of her mother until she died. She ended up moving in with her fiancee and taking care of the household - that included two children that were not her own. She is STILL called all sorts of ugly names because of it.
Why do you think it is that people are attacked if they *drop* out of main stream society and let their partners take care of the financial aspect of the relationship. I mean, if YOU BOTH want it this way then why do others seem to get so offended?