*~*~*~*After 2 weeks of dating, he tells me he loves me*~*~*~*

[Bikini Mod]

If the "date" was only as friends then it is different, but I hardly doubt this was the case for jen or you.

Did you read the part in my post where I said, "We can laugh, hang out and be GREAT FRIENDS.... if something more develops then great, if not...."

How can you fall in love with ANYONE unless you are THEIR FRIEND FIRST?!

As for the meal? I can COOK MY FUCKING OWN - I HAVE FOUR KIDS!

I don't NEED a man to pay for my meal or anything else for that matter.... ALL MEN KNOW THIS UP FRONT!

....So you were saying?

 

[PinK233]

If I was really into the guy and he told me he wanted to date other girls, then I'd most likely not date him anymore...I mean if I like him after a few dates more than likely I'll just start developing feelings for him, and if he's going to be juggling me with other chicks, then he doesn't deserve my attention...

I know if I'm not really into a person if they tell me they're dating other girls and I really don't care...it just depends on your intentions with the guy you're dating...

 

[jennifer BFL chick]

Jenn, you're what, 23?

You are just experiencing life, don't let anyone make you feel guilty about that. I know when I was that age, I would not limit myself to dating just one girl unless I was serious about her.

You are upfront and honest with them, so I don't understand why anyone should have a problem with it.

Thankyou!

Yes, I'm 23, and I'm not ready to settle down with anyone right now. I want to have fun and experience new people before I tie the knot.....

I see nothing wrong with what I'm doing because I'm upfront about it, and I have never lead any one on. I really like this guy, and yeah, I have told him this, but he also knows that I have desires to date others. Like I said above, if he or any of the guys I'm dating don't like the situation, they can leave. But I do see a future with Jimmy---the "love boy"----but only time will tell

 

[Moronic Goat fucker]

Thankyou!

Yes, I'm 23, and I'm not ready to settle down with anyone right now. I want to have fun and experience new people before I tie the knot.....

I see nothing wrong with what I'm doing because I'm upfront about it, and I have never lead any one on. I really like this guy, and yeah, I have told him this, but he also knows that I have desires to date others. Like I said above, if he or any of the guys I'm dating don't like the situation, they can leave. But I do see a future with Jimmy---the "love boy"----but only time will tell

It could be that the guy is using normal man-strategies.. i.e. tell chick you lover her in order to get laid. It could also be possible that he is a psycho; after all, it just ain't possible to love someone after 2 weeks. Sure tell him your intention to see others; just don't be suprised iff he begins stalking you..

I'll tune in to Jerry Springer to see what happens.....

 

[madbomber31]

just another thing about dating more than one person at a time...


it turns dating into a sort of competition... at least thats how i see it. its like i'm expected to one up the other guys... FUCK THAT! its bad enough that guys already feel the need to "impress" a female, but throw in that extra guy or two and thats a like a challenge.

 

[madbomber31]

and jen.. i know we have never spoken so i dont know you... but just by some of the comments you have made on this thread about "love boy" it seems there is a lack of respect for him.

 

[gwl9dta4]

Yes, I'm 23, and I'm not ready to settle down with anyone right now. I want to have fun and experience new people before I tie the knot.....

Translation:


"Yes i am 23, i used to be fat and insecure but now i am thinner and have newly found self esteem because suddenly white men are interested in me. I want to experience new people (fuck my brains out before settling down), yes i would like to have my cake and eat it too."

Yes you are a typical insecure girl, fearing that she will miss out on life somehow. Oh yeah, i fail to see how a relationship with the right person is viewed as boring, shit you can have a boyfriend and be best friends doing everything together and having a great time.

 

[Bikini Mod]

I bet when he asked you out he didn't think it was only a friend thing.

What part of "ALL MEN KNOW THIS UP FRONT" did you not understand?!

 

[Moronic Goat fucker]

I won't go to bed till I'm legally wed....

i'm just plain jennifer b.f.l.Ceeeee.....

 

[gwl9dta4]

and for bikinimom,


HOE, you need therapy, BAD!!! You have more hangups then anyone i have read here. The attitude you present here about relationships shows your degraded mental state and it's time for you to heal!

You silly woman (girl)