*~*~*~*After 2 weeks of dating, he tells me he loves me*~*~*~*

[madbomber31]

fellas.....

i respect each and every guy on this thread who doesnt believe in dating more than one person and who wouldnt date someone who was dating other guys as well...


amen!!!

see, we aint the dogs.. they are called bitches for a reason!

 

[Bikini Mod]

Have you all taken leave of your senses? WTF?!

You mean to tell me that because I go on a date with a guy ONCE that I am not allowed to spend ANY TIME WITH ANOTHER GUY if I am so inclined?!... that this makes me a whore?!

ARE YOU RETARDED?!

It is called dating for a reason - it is part of the courtship ritual. Until BOTH parties SAY that they want to make it A MUTUALLY EXCLUSIVE RELATIONSHIP then what is the problem? If I want to continue to see a guy, then it will because I am really into him - not because HE FEELS that I shouldn't be allowed to meet and socialize with others. That is INCREDIBLY INSECURE!

Maybe I am just not a high maintenance chick. I DO NOT feel the need to see or talk to a guy EVERY FREAKING DAY no matter HOW MUCH I LIKE HIM or how much he likes me. My life is full of all kinds of wonderful commitments and I would hope that his would be as well.

THE SECOND I hear a guy say, "I am the kind of guy that only dates one girl at a time" I all but turn to the guy and say, "DATE OVER." This to me, says that he is needy and insecure. A secure male would be able to realize that either we will continue to see each because WE BOTH WANT IT or just accept the fact that we were not really meant to click and chalk it up to, "I met another interesting person and spent a few hours..."

I am 100% faithful when I commit myself to a man (had ZERO difficulty with this for 13 years!), but I ain't about to rush into JACK SHIT...

And even before I got married I was the same way. I told every guy UP FRONT - "I don't fuck. Do you still want to go out?" If the answer was yes, then I said, "You date who you want to date because I am dating others also. Keep your dick in your pants 'cause you ain't gettin' none anyways. When I want your dick, there will be no questions asked because I will go and get it myself. Just give me the respect of not taking skank hos to the same places that you take me 'cause I ain't no skank ho. We can be great friends, have laughs and if something more develops - GREAT. If not, oh well."

I am trying to figure out how a girl could say that she is dating a few guys, but sees this guy nearly every day for the past two weeks.... When do you have time for work, school, friends, training, whatever?

 

[satanic goatslayer]

And I just wanted to say that if a woman EVER disrespected me in such a way, what with throwing flaming RAGS at me, I would PERSONALLY shove a plunger up her twat and TEAR out her INTESTINES with my hands.

You see, the NAME of the GAME is RESPECT. How can you love someone else if you don't RESPECT them?

T'is a web of deceit indeed.

To all you folks who think that JUST BECAUSE we are ugly, and perhaps DISFIGURED, that we deserve to be shot with arrows, I have STARTLING news for you.

UGLY people have feelings too.

Sometimes, when I am lonely, I like to get PLASTERED and listen to FOREIGNER.

I want to know what love is.

I WANT YOU TO SHOW ME.

The people living next to me might get ANGRY, but love has no boundaries, so I leap the fence and ram my FIST through their NECKS and CHEW on their INNARDS.

Fool for your loving no more.

 

[jennifer BFL chick]

Not having sex with him or anyone right now.....

For me to have sex with someone, I really have to feel alot for them, and vice versa---of course, at times your physical desires win, but I have only been with 1 guy in 4 years----I'm by far a slut.

I'm totally upfront with every guy I'm dating.....

Dating is fun for me. Its cool to go out with someone and not feel the pressure of making a commitment right then and there---It also makes it alot easier to become friends before anything truly romantic happens......

as for my life right now, I'm out of school for the summer, and I hardly get any sleep---this is how I can have such full social life! lol......

At times, I will go to lunch with one guy, and go to a movie with someone else later that night----I hardly plan out my days, things just come up......

But I spend most of my time with my friends when I'm not working----gotta keep meeting new guys you know! J/k----This is how I met guys. I go out with my friends and I just happen to met people. Its not planned, and I'm not searching to meet anyone. In fact, I don't want a relationship right now with anyone. Maybe in the future.

Just told him today that I'm going on a double date on Sunday------oh he knows the situation.

 

[Bikini Mod]

LOVE AND RESPECT?!

Who THE FUCK said anything about love? THIS IS DATING!! HELLO!!!!!

And as for respect.... if you are TOLD UP FRONT and there IS NO SEX then WHAT THE FUCK?!

Explain to me how that makes me a whore? ARE YOU A PSYCHO?!

IT IS CALLED DATING!.... NOT FUCKING MARRIAGE!

I think that instead of transfering your own feelings of self-loathing onto me, you should just own up to the fact that you are VERY insecure.

 

[satanic goatslayer]

LOVE AND RESPECT?!

The cornerstones of a healthy mind.

I own neither of the two, so I just spout off nonsensical jibberish for my own amusement.

My blood runs cold.

Instead of making love.

Suture dead parts together.

Under mi sensi, bikinimom, mi sensi I say.

 

[danielson]

In fact, I don't want a relationship right now with anyone. Maybe in the future.

Just told the "love boy" today that I'm going on a double date on Sunday------oh he knows the situation, I think he wants to see if he can "get me", likes its a challenge. Not sure.

maybe you should tell lover boy this....i.e. spell it out for him you don't want a relationship. you might be un-intentionally restricting people he can see because he's still holding out on you.

stuff like telling him your going out on double dates etc may fall under head games, especially if he still thinks theres a chance of a solid relationship with you





as for love and respect, he just potentially (if he was telling the truth) opened up his heart to her, so he mentioned love.

respect would be informing him of her opinion without emotionally kicking him in the balls. thats all, nothing OTT

 

[satanic goatslayer]

And whores make good wives, so let's get that straight.

If they begin to make a fuss, and you accidentally shank them seven times with a glass shard, nobody cares about their death, so you get off easy.

 

[jennifer BFL chick]

Yeah, I actually told him to date other girls. I WANT him to go out with others girls----

If we really have something special, then other dating other femals won't affect him----and vice versa with me---

I told him last night and today, that I don't want a relationship, but I want to keep seeing him----if he can't handle that, then hes free to move on. I'm totally honest with him. He knew on our first date that I was dating a bunch of people and that I just got out of a relationship and wanted to be single for while. So, I'm not decieving him at all......

 

[Bikini Mod]

Yea ok, I am insecure ... you caught me.

Lemme guess, you kiss them and give them blow jobs on those "dates" and still there is no sex involved?

This doesn't have to do with me or me being insecure , it is about RESPECT!!!

If you can't show respect then you aren't even human.

Have you read ANYTHING that I've typed these past few weeks? Obviously not! Because I said I do NOT EVEN KISS! There is NEVER a second date... because if I am not interested then I do NOT yank a man's chain!

Where do you get the notion that these men get blowjobs? Oh - because you said it then it MUST be true, because there could NEVER be a woman who could POSSIBLY ACTUALLY respect herself enough to say - I DON'T FUCK and actually MEAN IT.

Did you read the part about how I was faithfull to ONE MAN for 13 years?! Oh, I guess not.

See we are ALL disrespectful whores..... no, you are not insecure AT ALL.