Glad is officially the father

[cindylou]

Stop telling him to marry her guys...He doesn't need to and shouldn't.

oh but he's gonna!

 

[lartinos]

Here comes never ending drama with this whore and a life of being totally totally broke. Not too mention life will not be as fun, but he doesn't know how to enjoy himself maturely so hopefully this make shim grow up quicker. I would have been fucked as well if I had a kid that young. Now I can afford one, but I will pass for a bunch of years myself.

 

[Sub-Zero]

c'mon guys the kid just had a fuckin kid. it doesnt matter who you are this is an event that deserves encouragement and congratulations.

best of luck glad and please be as great of a father as you have been saying you want to be (i dont doubt that you will be). and just because you have a kid with this woman doesnt mean you have to be with her or give it another shot. dont rush into anything dumb with her. work on yourself, being happy, and being strong and successful as a man - for the little one!

 

[DannoMight]

OK glad here is what you need to do.

1. Get child support payments set up immediately wether your with her or not. If you let this slide and give her anything before it is official via the court the court will see it as a gift and you will have to pay all back support from the time the baby was born. Have personally seen this happen 3 times in the last 2 years. Also they can only take so much from you. There should be a cs calculator you can use to estimate your payments.

2. Don't stay with her. You don't get along and its bad for the kid to see you two fighting. Don't put him in an unstable environment. Just be the best dad you can when you're around the little guy.

 

[shirlene29]

c'mon guys the kid just had a fuckin kid. it doesnt matter who you are this is an event that deserves encouragement and congratulations.

best of luck glad and please be as great of a father as you have been saying you want to be (i dont doubt that you will be). and just because you have a kid with this woman doesnt mean you have to be with her or give it another shot. dont rush into anything dumb with her. work on yourself, being happy, and being strong and successful as a man - for the little one!

very sound advice/encouragement indeed


also its rough having a kid when youre younger..but its not the end of the world...

 

[cindylou]

I can't believe nimbus broke the story before glad could ...lmfao...

 

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[musclemom]

Hmmm. I'm really, really interested in hearing how much he loves being a young dad when the mortgage company takes his child support payments into consideration with their calculations.

Remember, owning his own home was part of that five year plan.

 

[musclemom]

I guess it's off to marriage and family life.

But we've been emphasizing the fatherhood aspect of this deal.

We need to explain the marriage part too. That involves her gaining 25 lbs, her mother being in your face 24/7, zero sex and a few oddly-placed towels throughout the trailer that you're not supposed to use (they're for decoration).

Honestly, Plunky, is it necessary to paint such a vivid picture of your home life? Gods, man, have you no pride?!

 

[stevesmi]

as soon as glad confirms this i will settle the bookie event.