Feedback on this situation please

[Rachel...lol]

yeah V - that's what I'm getting. He's almost 35, never married no kids. Apparently when I left the coffee pot out it bothered him. He's so stuck in his box.

 

[shirlene29]

left the coffee pot out...what?


elaborate

 

[cindylou]

pssssh whatever..call me what you want. If he'd rather spend money on HIMSELF and not ME then he can go find someone else. God blesses the obedient.

 

[just...v]

yeah V - that's what I'm getting. He's almost 35, never married no kids. Apparently when I left the coffee pot out it bothered him. He's so stuck in his box.

I'm sorry, girl. If you pull back a bit do you think it can be salvaged? Do you want it to be? He seems to have some control issues.

 

[Rachel...lol]

as in I drink coffee - he doesn't. I bought a coffee maker (small one - like 6 or 8 cups) and when I left it was still on the counter with some left in the "pot"/carafe or whatever it's called. he wasn't a fan. Also, I left his place at 4:30am so I guess I wasn't thinking about putting the coffee pot away.

 

[cindylou]

left the coffee pot out...what?


elaborate

yeah..how do you leave that out?

 

[Rachel...lol]

I'm sorry, girl. If you pull back a bit do you think it can be salvaged? Do you want it to be? He seems to have some control issues.

actually talking to him tonight was good... he's been distant the past couple days, and I had a shitty holiday, spent Christmas by myself - and I think he was trying to make a point and it made it extra hard. He did tell me tonight that he misses me and can't wait to see me (driving there Wed or Thurs). I am acting needy and he's afraid to take down his walls. Whole lots of over thinking is going on.

 

[Rachel...lol]

yeah..how do you leave that out?

as in the thing that plugs into the wall?

 

[cindylou]

as in the thing that plugs into the wall?

I see your other post...I always leave the coffee out.

 

[Rachel...lol]

as do I!