why does he need to know about EF? I'm sure there's other shit he doesn't know about Rachel yet too. It's not like she's supposed to sit him down and tell him every fucking detail about her life. She doesn't owe him that. If she chooses too, fine. At some point, if she marries the guy, he should know she posts on a fitness/bbing board. But he shouldn't be all up in her shit wanting to know all about it and what she posts and who she talks to, etc. (unless she wants to share). He should respect her and what's hers.