A lot of people have it in their heads from their adolescence that you are to "date, marry your own color". My parents were not like this but my grandparents didn't even want me having friends outside of my own ethnicity. Of course you're going to be attracted to a lot of different type of people but when it comes to marrying, settling down if your "thing" is your ethnicity then whatever.... if you're only doing it because in your head you think it's wrong any other way then uh, bummer for you. Marry who you want and don't think about it.... if you love someone then who cares what their color is. You're dwelling on something that doesn't need to be addressed. Not everyone you're attracted to is a potential mate, LOL