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Trust me, she's doing all the talking; half the time she's talking to her fucking kid...yea still on the phone...thinking of a way out
Holy shit, women are a piece of work, I need some excuses!
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Trust me, she's doing all the talking; half the time she's talking to her fucking kid...yea still on the phone...thinking of a way out
Bikini Mod
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Women are *far more fucked up than men*? With all due respect how is the fact that you have a child out of wedlock with a WHITE WOMAN better than the fact that she has a child out of wedlock with a BLACK MAN? I can appreciate your honesty but I want you to think about things logically. You both have had a child out of wedlock so IMHO one sorta cancels the other out.
I once had a man tell me (even though he would NEVER meet my kids nor that I had ANY INTENTIONS of meeting his) that though he found me to be attractive and interesting and charming he did NOT want to go on a date with me because four kids was just too many for him. Wanna know how many he had? You guessed it: FOUR!! This did NOT hurt my feelings. Matter of fact I was appreciative that he didn't waste MY PRECIOUS TIME by taking me out and trying to hit it because he really had NO INTEREST WHATSOEVER in pursuing anything further than *a moment* of my time.
Statistics actually show that women generally far UNDERestimate their physical beauty while men generally OVERestimate their level of attractiveness to the opposite sex, so those statements didn't hold water either.
Bottom line is YES, the woman is actually quite hot and you have EVERY RIGHT to break the date based on the fact that you know in your heart you would have an issue dealing with a bi racial child (should something develop between the two of you) and that is just not something you are prepared to do. IMHO you should be able to tell her this pointblank and call it a day.
As for her having been raped - this is more common than you know. And as for her father living with her, because she is a single mom I don't see the problem. She is lucky to have a parent living with her to pick up the slack.
Just my opinion which is like everybody else's asshole.
FUCKFUCKFUCK, I'm stuck like chuck for tomorrow, shit she's all excited about it too. I tried to make it for just drinks now the bitch wants to eat too. I have some gift certificates to Outback, holy shit would that be tacky...hmmmm.
I already know what's going to happen. I am going to drink entirely way too much in order to cope with her incessant jabbering and then I will invite her back to my place to play a game of scattergorries (who the fuck doesn't love that game?), which will inevitably lead to a game of me punching her guts, then regretting it with a headache the following day....shit, it's too late now, might as well accept it.
KillahBee
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hang the fuck up. or just start screaming at the top of your lungs as if your family just got murdered in front of you. then hang up.
you're establishing yourself 1) as a dude who has 2 hours free to kill on a stupid phone call (not good) and 2) the go-to sounding board for her inane ramblings (also not good).
cut ties now. hang up right now, drive down to the local elementary school, perch your pretty little self up on the monkey ladder, strike a double bi straight into ab/quad pose, spit on the slide and sprint away screaming "the jews are coming!!!!!!!!!!!"
Bikini Mod
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Just text her and say you changed your mind. How hard is that? You don't even have to call. Though, I would just call and say, "Sorry but after I'd thought about it I just don't think that we'd be a match."
Fuck, talk about a fall from grace. What happened to that guy in your avatar? I bet he would never let something like this happen to himself. Is it really so hard to just call her and say "sorry but I dont want to see you". Youre going to hurt her feelings whether its now or later so may as well do it now so its not worse later. This sounds like some shit healother would get himself jammed up in.
EXCELLENT advice!
Bikini Mod
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^^^ What he said.
Truthfully, if the chick would get her feelings hurt by you calling her TODAY and laying it out, "Look after I had the weekend to think it over I realized that though I think you are very attractive we just wouldn't be a match. It's nothing personal I just don't want to waste your time or my time. You're a neat chick and I am sure you won't have any trouble being scooped up by a great guy."
Simple shmimple
And I would have done this last night...however I DO feel a certain obligation to go out with this girl at least once since it was set up by a coworker. We will obviously not click when we go out and not scheduling a second contact will not seem off base and I can still go back to my coworker with the "Well, at least I gave it a shot, thanks anyways! blahblahblah"
