My good buddys wife just gave him the "I'm not happy" line

[lostinfitness]

If this bro's girl went to the point of saying this to him and bringing it up, she hasn't been happy for a while. Things haven't been going good for a long time. Plenty of people jump at the chance to yell at their spouse and impolitely express their feelings without care for how their partner feels. Most women I have met won't just throw the I'm not happy line out there carelessly. Tell him to do his best to move on and find happiness elsewhere.

LosT

 

[SaiBoT]

Oh, I know, lol. I just never understood how some people seem to actually believe that females can not (or innately are not) logical -- especially when they don't seem to be aware of what logic really is.

It's not like I find it offensive or sexist or anything; just that the arguments don't seem to make... well, logical sense.

I guess the guy went through some serious missed attempts... After a few bad relationships it's time to consider that maybe he is the one wrong, not girls. It also could be he has an inclination to fall for bad girls

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

She did this same shiat to him on fathers day June of 07'
They had been workin it out since and it seemed good
she just opened up a salon and that is not doing well
she's also going out drinking
without him

They have four kids
mutha fukka

What a selfish bitch if she's thinking of a divorce....with four kids. God this country is fucked up where people benefit from divorce financially while the family and kids are a mess. Good luck with those future productive members of society America, lolol.
Gotta love the age of instant gratification. Cuz, you know, it's soooo great for everybody after the instant part is over with lol.

 

[Oceano]

tell him to make her jealous with another woman, that'll give her something to think about. He might be surprised how she suddenly decides to stay in instead of going out drinking

 

[goin on 4T]

tell him to make her jealous with another woman, that'll give her something to think about. He might be surprised how she suddenly decides to stay in instead of going out drinking

Nice thought but that will just make the end sooner. I have been through it and the bullshit never ends...

 

[Oceano]

Nice thought but that will just make the end sooner. I have been through it and the bullshit never ends...

not if the chick is better-looking. She be gettin jealoush

 

[cindylou]

true.

that would make her stick around for MAYBE another year?

 

[SaiBoT]

It's interesting the variety of opinions and points of view on this subject... Some of the people posting seem to have had a hard time with past relationships and speak bitterly...

I think this marriage is gonna last... None of them being divorced can take care of 4 children, have a job and a decent personal life... So through my point of view, they should agree being together, being faithfull or not, at least provide for the children until they are old enough to take care of themselves.

 

[samoth]

It's interesting the variety of opinions and points of view on this subject... Some of the people posting seem to have had a hard time with past relationships and speak bitterly...

Agreed. Our past experiences -- especially the long and painful ones -- can really shape our thinking, mindset, and actions. These influences often remain with us for the entirety of our lives, and unfortunetly, no one is completely immune. However, one should always try to remain cognizant of how their own life has affected them. Traumatic events can often cause one to adsorb or imbibe views shrouded by bias and residing near an extremum. These not uncommon opinions of bitter resentment and strong opposition to marriage, children, and committment are a prime example of this.

 

[ortiz34]

When my wife says she ain't happy
I'm gonna look at her and say "WTF took you so long"?