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So I'm doing research on how we make snap decisions based more on things we 'feel' more than the reasons we give ourselves and others as explanations...

For example, there is Vic Braden, a tennis judge for the last 50 years and who is such an expert at calling tennis shots that before the tennis player even hits the ball, tossing it in the air, Braden can with 97% accuracy predict whether or not the player will double fault, at a last tennis match in Russia, he predicted 20 in a row, before the player had even hit the ball, whether or not the player would be long or wide or whatever. There is something in the way the tennis player hold themselves, or the way they toss the ball, or even the fluidity of their motion that triggers something in his unconscious...

Art Historian Bernard Berenson could instantly spot an art fake, but distressed all of his colleagues, because he said that he would get an upset feeling, or a depressed feeling, or a ringing in his ears and instantly knew he was in the presence of something inauthentic...
George Soros, the billionaire investor's, son reported that while his father gave theories on how he invested, it was actually his back spasms that happened a couple of weeks before the market would change...

Anyway I'm doing a research paper on how powerful our subconscious actually really determines the decisions we make because we are basically blocked off from our subconscious through a 'locked door' and there is a mysterious nature behind our snap judgements...

Does anyone notice their ability to make snap judegements based on internal feelings? We give reasons based on logic, but they rarely correlate to the actual mysterious reason in which our subconscious determines our reactions...

Can you 'feel' instantly when someone digs on you? Can you 'feel' when U are being lied to or the situation is not right?
In a related article, our decisions are so much more dependent on our immediate environment, which interacts with our subconscious and determines the relation between feeling and thinking.... and I'm learning that we are much more dependent on how the environment suggests or manipulates our subconscious to feel a certain way...

Anybody good at making snap judgements... can u describe how u feel or what the triggers are?

The only immediate example I can think of is last night I had a date and within 3 minutes I already knew we had a connection... there was like a lighter feeling in the air, and an openness I sensed, I felt an instant, subtle energy in me... and I really can't describe it...

How long does it take u to notice if u have established a connection with someone else, or if u are attracted... My question here is with online dating, u don't have an interpersonal, direct connection, but u share thought patterns... can anyone make a snap judgement based on this form of communication if u are attracted to another person? Has anyone had any good or bad experiences with online dating? Specifically, did the person meet or not meet your preconceived notions of what u expected...
 
I can tell in person when there is a connection, but I have been wrong. I wish i could tap into it at will.
 
I can tell in person when there is a connection, but I have been wrong. I wish i could tap into it at will.
How wrong were u, like u there could have been an inital attraction... and then u may or she may have fucked things up after that... but the thing I've been reading is that in IRL, when u talk to someone or have convo, there is a little dance that happens, and the more charismatic person directs the movements... like u nod, she nods, u smile she smiles and there is a transference of energy from one person to the other... the most persuasive...
 
Maybe, but its only been one date, so we haven't become xclusive, any hawties in your classes?

Women are scandalous, she probably went with another guy the night before or the night after. In college, I went out with two wiminz in the same night. You need to overcome the programming of thinking they are special little creatures and see them as they truly are. Yes, I get flirted with but I see through their bullshit. I'm not their daddy or provider, I want an equal partner and most aren't up to the task....they try to blow bullshit up your ass with old cliche's and stereotypes. I've always considered my wiminz an equal...I give and expect the same in return. That's probably why I always fall for "independent" women....
 
Any time I've had an instant gut feeling that someone would play a large role in my life, I've never been wrong.

Any time i've been sure someone was lying to me, or holding something back, I've never been wrong.
 
Any time I've had an instant gut feeling that someone would play a large role in my life, I've never been wrong.

Any time i've been sure someone was lying to me, or holding something back, I've never been wrong.

You are correct in the fact that if you can read people you need to go with your gut. Melody, true blue..strong values just like me but hers were based on faith in Jesus and mine are based on honor.
 
Over 75% of communication is based on non-verbal communication. People have an innate ability to feel and sense things via their normal senses, just like animals do. It is instinct.
 
Women are scandalous, she probably went with another guy the night before or the night after. In college, I went out with two wiminz in the same night. You need to overcome the programming of thinking they are special little creatures and see them as they truly are. Yes, I get flirted with but I see through their bullshit. I'm not their daddy or provider, I want an equal partner and most aren't up to the task....they try to blow bullshit up your ass with old cliche's and stereotypes. I've always considered my wiminz an equal...I give and expect the same in return. That's probably why I always fall for "independent" women....

Upbeat as always... Do I sound burnt and bitter?
I've only been fucked over once... I think its our patterns that attract people to us, and that if a certain pattern of relationships happens more than once, then one should check themselves...
I'm 30 not jaded about peeps, but not totally ignorant, and yeah cautious...
so I'm okay with my 'programming'
I think you are a special little creature Java... seriously...
 
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