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I kinda agree with her, but not totally. I think if you are knowingly participating in something that is bringing another person harm, you bear part of the responsibility, even if you have no obligation to that person. LESS responsibility, but part of it. That said, I think the simple answer to why women lash out at the other woman is, when you're hurt, it's a lot easier to get angry at the person you don't love initially. The body can only process so much emotion at one time, and when it comes to your S.O., that space is filled with heartbreak/betrayal/hurt etc. The anger needs a place to go, the woman is a convenient outlet.

That makes more sense although still on the side defying logic. Ive never been in the situation so it hard to imagine how i'd react, maybe I'll go Jerry springer loco too. Although if i am unfortunate enough to be in such a situation, the logical thing to do in my mind is to tell him to fuck off and walk away from all that, any lashing out mostly toward him.

Guess I got off topic. Back to blue's EF affair process.
 
That makes more sense although still on the side defying logic. Ive never been in the situation so it hard to imagine how i'd react, maybe I'll go Jerry springer loco too. Although if i am unfortunate enough to be in such a situation, the logical thing to do in my mind is to tell him to fuck off and walk away from all that, any lashing out mostly toward him.

Guess I got off topic. Back to blue's EF affair process.

No doubt defying logic...but who is really going to act logically in that situation when they first get hit with it?

The one time I know for sure of someone cheating on me, I found out months after we broke up. It still hurt like hell, but i was actually glad for the bit of knowledge because it allowed me to let go of whatever feelings I still had for the guy. Doubt she knew, either. I can't say 100% I wouldn't hate the ever living hell out of a woman who knowingly got involved with a bf of mine if I was still in that relationship and fully invested, though. I probably wouldn't lash out because I have this thing about my pride (big emotional scenes are not my deal), but the anger would probably burn a hole in my stomach.


Off topic, yeah, but the thread wasn't exactly going in a cohesive direction anyway :)
 
No doubt defying logic...but who is really going to act logically in that situation when they first get hit with it?

The one time I know for sure of someone cheating on me, I found out months after we broke up. It still hurt like hell, but i was actually glad for the bit of knowledge because it allowed me to let go of whatever feelings I still had for the guy. Doubt she knew, either. I can't say 100% I wouldn't hate the ever living hell out of a woman who knowingly got involved with a bf of mine if I was still in that relationship and fully invested, though. I probably wouldn't lash out because I have this thing about my pride (big emotional scenes are not my deal), but the anger would probably burn a hole in my stomach.


Off topic, yeah, but the thread wasn't exactly going in a cohesive direction anyway :)

That sucks. good ridence to him. ( this is where we toast to having lying, cheating jerks out of ur life). I'm like you with whole big drama scene thing, would probably just hold it all inside so I do understand where ur coming from there. Besides his loss, traded in all the memories and times with you for what, doubt he and the other woman are together.
 
That sucks. good ridence to him. ( this is where we toast to having lying, cheating jerks out of ur life). I'm like you with whole big drama scene thing, would probably just hold it all inside so I do understand where ur coming from there. Besides his loss, traded in all the memories and times with you for what, doubt he and the other woman are together.

lol, definitely his loss, and no, they aren't still together. 100% sure he won't ever find another woman who is willing to hang around through all his ups and downs on the level that I was. I'm glad to be free of that situation, though, and we are cordial and on peaceful terms. I just brought it up as it's my only experience relevant to what we were talking about.
 
lol...when i found out my ex husband was cheating on me...I said, well that makes sense
when I found out with who I literally laughed my ass off...then promptly went and fucked her husband :)
 
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