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Well Im concerned about SB, if he has gotten to this point he needs therapy not strangers taking a stab in the dark potentially giving wrong info, with good intentions but bad info
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Well Im concerned about SB, if he has gotten to this point he needs therapy not strangers taking a stab in the dark potentially giving wrong info, with good intentions but bad info
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What info in here was bad and how could you know it was bad yet? You are invalidating the opinions, feelings and advice of other people with a subtle insult (Freud) who are trying to point him in the direction of getting help. No one in here diagnosed anyone. I don't like that mindset, I'm sorry. Obviously all he has to do is actually walk into a the office and any bad info would be brushed aside but if it would cause him to stop and consider maybe he might have a problem that can be treated, what is the problem? You think that if you heard someone describe the symptoms of a more obvious physical disease and that anyone that offered their opinion of what they thought it was to call them a degrading name of some defunct doctor that no one paid attention to anymore would be appropriate? I just don't understand. Is the only appropriate response "get help" ? That's boring.
Lol, zwhit no catfight.
The fact you're willing to admit that you're sabotaging shit is huge, it's one of the biggest factors to successfully changing behavior.
You've got people saying therapists are shit but honestly, they're like any other healthcare professional, there's good ones and bad ones *shrug* You really have to shop around. The problem is you need a therapist you can talk to easily but by the same token, they have to be able to make you face uncomfortable truths and be willing to help you dig up shit that's ugly and will make you feel worse so you can get better. People who are stubborn hard asses sometimes respond well to a good hard ass cognitive therapist.
Self therapy is extremely hard. Changing the behaviors of a lifetime takes an ENORMOUS amount of objective personal insight and getting realistic with yourself. It helps to have someone guide you in at least learning the process. People lie to themselves all the time, especially about actions that are part of the foundation of their personality.
Congrats on the insight, BTW. Takes balls, seriously.
You've got people saying therapists are shit but honestly, they're like any other healthcare professional, there's good ones and bad ones *shrug* You really have to shop around. The problem is you need a therapist you can talk to easily but by the same token, they have to be able to make you face uncomfortable truths and be willing to help you dig up shit that's ugly and will make you feel worse so you can get better. People who are stubborn hard asses sometimes respond well to a good hard ass cognitive therapist.
Self therapy is extremely hard. Changing the behaviors of a lifetime takes an ENORMOUS amount of objective personal insight and getting realistic with yourself. It helps to have someone guide you in at least learning the process. People lie to themselves all the time, especially about actions that are part of the foundation of their personality.
Congrats on the insight, BTW. Takes balls, seriously.
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lmao, sb is toying with all of you. He doesn't really give a shit about any of these women. If he did care, he wouldn't be fucking around on his poor wife like a dip shit.
SB I still love you though
SB I still love you though
I'll give 1 million karma to the first one who blacks out ER
I'm kind of what you depending on how it's presented. I think it's fine for anybody to discuss his problem, correlate it to their own experiences and knowledge and recommend what worked for them or someone they know. Stuff like that. The point of this board is discussion. SB knows most people here are not therapists or psychologists, he knows these aren't professional opinions.
I'd only have a problem with it really if someone presented the self as a professional an was making careless diagnoses on such little information. That could be harmful.
That being said, I haven't started grad school yet, but I do start my doctoral psychology classes in a couple months, so I'm qualified to take it from here guys, right? Lol
I stopped reading here
this...the other half was similar cuz hes got mommy AND daddy issues that all boiled down to low self esteem
come to think of it...all the men Ive been married to have mommy issues.......fml
wait, wait...
maybe everyone has mommy issues...disregard
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