They have their own way, but is not as cold as "let's go to fuck". I live in South FL, where there's a large gay community, and interact with them all the time. I have no problem with gay guys. They are great people, and so far they have been very respectful. It all comes down to that. You can really tell when a guy is gay by the way he looks at you, his expressions, the laugh, everything. But that is his personal preference, and his private life, like anybody else. They have their own clubs, bars. Most of the male nurses and large portion of doctors are gay here. CEO's, managers, etc.