Dated girl for 4 months, bought her phat diamond earrings for her b-day, chic dumped my ass a month later. Misses her ex, loves me but doesn't want to be with me, etc. Should I get the earrings back? I'm thinking so...
I'd write it off. If you were prepared to spend that kind of $$ on a girl that early in a relationship, you should've been prepared to accept that you'll never see that money again.
The whole "I love you but don't want to be with you" line is horseshit. She wants to either continue fucking her ex or find someone totally new. Say sionora to both her and the earrings.