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How many dudes has she been with? slept with.

Mine had one long term boyfriend who she cheated on when he left to another state for school, cause apparently she was really sad. Same day by the way(one night stand). I don't get that. But she told him about it right away and i guess he understood it or something. So they had a long distance relationship for like a year.
Then she went out with this frat guy for like a month and once that didnt work out she did it with some 30 year old dude. Not a one night stand but they just hooked up I guess. She also made out and stuff with one more guy that blew it with her.

Anyway, I think that's about it, maybe 1 more or so. Her resume bothers me a little.
On another hand, I've been with much bigger sluts but I didnt really care cause I knew it would never go anywhere.
what do you think? slut or not a slut for todays standards?

P.S we really like each other
 
From what I've heard/read. Women lie like crazy about this stuff. You may never know the real number. Women are offered sex all the time....
 
Ulcasterdropout said:
From what I've heard/read. Women lie like crazy about this stuff. You may never know the real number. Women are offered sex all the time....
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word.

but from those numbers, not a slut.

as far as im concerened, both get tested, if ur both clean and really love eachother and are willing to be together then that should be good enough
 
"Forgiveness doesn't change the past, but it does enlarge the future."

What are you worried for? If you two really like each other, then don't let it bother you, just enjoy your time with her. That's just my .02 :)
 
Agathe said:
How many dudes has she been with? slept with.

Mine had one long term boyfriend who she cheated on when he left to another state for school, cause apparently she was really sad. Same day by the way(one night stand). I don't get that. But she told him about it right away and i guess he understood it or something. So they had a long distance relationship for like a year.
Then she went out with this frat guy for like a month and once that didnt work out she did it with some 30 year old dude. Not a one night stand but they just hooked up I guess. She also made out and stuff with one more guy that blew it with her.

Anyway, I think that's about it, maybe 1 more or so. Her resume bothers me a little.
On another hand, I've been with much bigger sluts but I didnt really care cause I knew it would never go anywhere.
what do you think? slut or not a slut for todays standards?

P.S we really like each other
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The problem is that women don't count every time they've had sex as a "sexual encounter". If it was bad sex, they won't count it. If it was fast or traumatic, they don't count it. Women tend to overlook sex in the grand scheme of things, partly because they know it will reflect badly on them should they reveal the exact number of partners, sexual relations they've had. That's understandable, because most guys if told the actual number would probably think differently of a woman. I know I would.

It's true that women are offered the opportunity for sex often, but that's what seperates a woman from a girl. Girls get caught up in that, women don't lay down for every stiff dick that's thrown their way. If it's a relationship, I can't really fault a girl for having sex, regardless of how much, but if it's purely random promiscuity, I would not consider her for a long term relationship.

It's not just the acts themselves, it's the thinking or lack of thinking involved that tends to make me wonder.






DIV
 
DIVISION said:
The problem is that women don't count every time they've had sex as a "sexual encounter". If it was bad sex, they won't count it. If it was fast or traumatic, they don't count it. Women tend to overlook sex in the grand scheme of things, partly because they know it will reflect badly on them should they reveal the exact number of partners, sexual relations they've had. That's understandable, because most guys if told the actual number would probably think differently of a woman. I know I would.

It's true that women are offered the opportunity for sex often, but that's what seperates a woman from a girl. Girls get caught up in that, women don't lay down for every stiff dick that's thrown their way. If it's a relationship, I can't really fault a girl for having sex, regardless of how much, but if it's purely random promiscuity, I would not consider her for a long term relationship.

It's not just the acts themselves, it's the thinking or lack of thinking involved that tends to make me wonder.






DIV
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I'm thinking about the same way you are. As far as the numbers go, they are real, she doesn't lie, brutally honest. Those two random dudes just bother me though. Oh and she's only 20 and very smart, she's gonna be a lawyer. She's just very special and you don't see those everyday. She has a girlfriend who gets around pretty well so I think she dragged her into the second random dude that I mentioned.
 
Who cares. Don't dwell on the past. Live your life. If you enjoy your time together and it works, good. Who cares what she did in the past. You two didn't even know each other. What the hell does it matter.
 
Agathe said:
I'm thinking about the same way you are. As far as the numbers go, they are real, she doesn't lie, brutally honest. Those two random dudes just bother me though. Oh and she's only 20 and very smart, she's gonna be a lawyer. She's just very special and you don't see those everyday. She has a girlfriend who gets around pretty well so I think she dragged her into the second random dude that I mentioned.
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Well, it's a balance then, Agathe.

Balance her positive attributes against the unknown thinking that went behind her boning those two random stiffdicks.

S'all about options. If you don't feel she's worth the commitment you move on, otherwise you give her the benefit of the doubt.

Regardless, you take all the credit or all the blame if shit gets twisted.

I wish you the best.

She doesn't sound like a slut by any means, but you never know.......(booty calls don't reveal themselves)

......nugga!



DIV
 
just go for it, its not like you're getting married to her or anything.

If things dont work out end it and move on.
 
slickdadd said:
Who cares. Don't dwell on the past. Live your life. If you enjoy your time together and it works, good. Who cares what she did in the past. You two didn't even know each other. What the hell does it matter.
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Bro....a female's sexual history is important.

STD's are not something you want to fuck with if you don't have to.

I think every guy's ultimate nightmare is to get in a relationship with a chick who has genital warts and find out after 2 or 3 sexual encounters, when it's too late. :worried:

That's some nasty shit.....




DIV
 
One thing I've learned is that I don't ask questions I don't want to know the answer to. You never want to think about your girl fucking some other dude. Even is you ask her and she says she's fucked 3 other guys you're going to think its too many...just the way it goes. This being the case...I don't ask...cause I don't want to know.
 
I don't know, we're practically living together and it's only been one month. It's a little weird. But I don't mind cause it really doesnt get in my way too much.
 
showtime2004 said:
One thing I've learned is that I don't ask questions I don't want to know the answer to. You never want to think about your girl fucking some other dude. Even is you ask her and she says she's fucked 3 other guys you're going to think its too many...just the way it goes. This being the case...I don't ask...cause I don't want to know.
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I am the total opposite, ShowBro.....

I WANT to know answers, because that will help determine whether she's LTR material.

The fact that you are afraid to ask, tells me that it's something that will be eating at you later.

You're better off knowing one way or another.....that way all the cards are on the table and you won't be folded by a surpise flush later on in the relationship.



DIV
 
DIVISION said:
I am the total opposite, ShowBro.....

I WANT to know answers, because that will help determine whether she's LTR material.

The fact that you are afraid to ask, tells me that it's something that will be eating at you later.

You're better off knowing one way or another.....that way all the cards are on the table and you won't be folded by a surpise flush later on in the relationship.



DIV
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I dunno. I'm of the opinion that if two people are happy together then past shit doesn't matter. I don't want to know who my girl fucked in college etc. Just doesn't have any bearing on anything....at least for me.
 
showtime2004 said:
I dunno. I'm of the opinion that if two people are happy together then past shit doesn't matter. I don't want to know who my girl fucked in college etc. Just doesn't have any bearing on anything....at least for me.
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That's understandable, except for the part about STD's.

Herpes and Genital Warts are not something you want to find out about later after you've been pounding her for a month or so....




DIV
 
If you want to know whether or not she has an STD you ask her to get tested with you. (An understanding adult would not refuse.) You don't ask her how many men she's slept with. :rolleyes: Why the hell does a number matter? People can't change their lives? So what if she had fun when she was younger as long as she was safe? Is she not allowed to want something meaningful out of life because she had sex with one too many men 5 years ago?
 
DIVISION said:
That's understandable, except for the part about STD's.

Herpes and Genital Warts are not something you want to find out about later after you've been pounding her for a month or so....




DIV
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I agree about you with that 100%
 
dirty~d~ said:
If you want to know whether or not she has an STD you ask her to get tested with you. (An understanding adult would not refuse.) You don't ask her how many men she's slept with. :rolleyes: Why the hell does a number matter? People can't change their lives? So what if she had fun when she was younger as long as she was safe? Is she not allowed to want something meaningful out of life because she had sex with one too many men 5 years ago?
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Sounds like this hits close to home, Dee..... :worried:

What number "one too many men" constitutes is different for every guy.

I'm not so concerned with the number, but whether they were in relationships or just alot of one-night stands.






DIV
 
DIVISION said:
Sounds like this hits close to home, Dee..... :worried:
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Not at all. I'm just sick of the double standard that floats through the dating world.
 
dirty~d~ said:
Not at all. I'm just sick of the double standard that floats through the dating world.
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It's not a double standard with me, Dee.

I don't advocate that guys sleep around either.....




DIV
 
dirty~d~ said:
Is she not allowed to want something meaningful out of life because she had sex with one too many men 5 years ago?
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I think it's a case of 'once a whore, always a whore' type philosophy...
 
Ulcasterdropout said:
I think it's a case of 'once a whore, always a whore' type philosophy...
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That's part of it, there will always be a question in his mind whether she'll fall of the wagon and go on a whoring rampage...... :worried:

That's a normal fear, I guess when you're dealing with a girl who's been promiscuous.




DIV
 
She may have been very conservative and safe in her past relationships and still cheats on you

On the other hand she may have had an intense past and now be willing to settle down
 
well she;s 20 so I don't know how much history is behind her, not that much I'll tell you. And no she's not cheating on me considering the fact that we spend most of the day together and sleep together at night. There's no time for it.

She wasnt even really lookin for a relationship, nor was I but we clicked together. Either way, I'll get over it tommorow but this comes up every now and then and I don't wanna waste my time thinking about it. I just don't want one of those girls that get's banged everytime she's not feeling right. But almost every girl that I know has done that so this is not too bad I suppose. At least she's not lying about it. I like honesty.
 
she's a dirty little slut, no wait, she's innoscent as they come. what do you want us to tell you. man am i going nuts here, is this really a thread.
 
Agathe said:
I just wanna know the motive behind this when women do the one nite stand thing and similar shit.
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you wanna know the motive? wtf? im not sure if i was ever told 'the motive'. im not sure if 'the motive' is in a book. im not sure if 'the motive' is written on scrolls somewhere. i just know that i know it. women like a cock in there pussy, is that simple enough for ya.
 
Agathe said:
I just wanna know the motive behind this when women do the one nite stand thing and similar shit.
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cause sex is fun....sometimes people listen to things without using thier minds......thats why pencils have erasers..err...sort of.

but std's are very serious.....doesnt mean anything other than we are organic and biological...

one mistake can get you in a bad way .....so make no judgments about that....

but all things aside....

TALK to her...you might be surprised. :)
 
I tried talking to her, she said she was sad and lonely. And the second time she was on a rebound so she turned down one guy and got with another. Either way, I really don't care anymore when I compare that to myself I guess. I just had too much time on my hands to think about that stupid stuff.
 
Agathe said:
I tried talking to her, she said she was sad and lonely. And the second time she was on a rebound so she turned down one guy and got with another. Either way, I really don't care anymore when I compare that to myself I guess. I just had too much time on my hands to think about that stupid stuff.
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yeah...some times the devil is in the details.....no worries though....if shes clean and your clean....have fun :) be safe and hope for the best .

If you "love" her ..... :qt: pray for love.
 
anyway, when you expect little too much iit's kinda easy to get disapointed so I guess that's what happened. No biggie.
 
whatever number she has said times it by 3 to get the real number, as someone else said, girls ALWAYS lie about this stuff.
 
Ask her if she would look like a porcupine if she had as many poking out as she's had poking in. That should get you an answer.
 
not sure? she was a dyke before i converted her to the cock but we've had time apart so probably no more than 5

it's one of those questions you ask at the beginning of a relationship then don't mention ever again
 
showtime2004 said:
One thing I've learned is that I don't ask questions I don't want to know the answer to. You never want to think about your girl fucking some other dude. Even is you ask her and she says she's fucked 3 other guys you're going to think its too many...just the way it goes. This being the case...I don't ask...cause I don't want to know.
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that's the truth right there. don't ask don't tell, it will save a lot of trouble.
i've learned this the hard way :evil:
 
Gambino said:
that's the truth right there. don't ask don't tell, it will save a lot of trouble.
i've learned this the hard way :evil:
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exactly

the graphic riterations of her shagging one of her ex French boyfriends was a deciding factor in looking for pastures greener
 
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