Things aren't going your way so God isn't there for you? Hmmmmm.
The question is - are you doing things God's way? To be blunt, God doesn't really care HOW *you* want things to go. He wants you to follow the path He has laid out for you and have FAITH that He is fair and just and will provide what you NEED (not want).
You should look at what you are asking from God: is it for the right intentions? are you asking in the right spirit? are you right in your relationship with God? Are you doing what God asks of you before asking God for favors?
We as humans see the 'here and now'. We only have knowledge based on our past and dreams/desires based on our interpretation of how they will help our future. God, in the fullness of His infinite wisdom, knows more than we do about our needs; past, present and future. Sometimes unanswered prayers are God's greatest gift to us.