Would You Want to Know if Your Spouse Cheated on You?

[Mandinka2]

I knew,all the signs were there.I just didn't give a fuck anymore as I had enough of her bullshit.

When I knew for sure I booted her and kept myself from killing the asshole as he did me a favor in hindsight.Thank God I didn't marry her or have kids,then it would have been different as I would have done anything in my power to get my kid or kids from her(She had major bi polar and manic problems).

Would I want to know in the future? I really don't know as it would hurt too much if I was with someone I really cared for.I'm sure I would know though.

Mad

Same for me Bro , all of it , but if ya really love the person it's very hard to let go.

 

[vixenbabe]

Would I want to know? I'd know...He's the type that can NOT lie. I know him too well. I'd feel something was amiss with him.

Would he know if I did something like that? Yep, I'd not be able to look him in the eye ever again.

Break the turst and respect...What do you have left?

 

[WODIN]

I would want to know. Its a sad situation all around.

 

[vinylgroover]

If she was good enough to get away with it, and i was stupid enough not to see any of the signs, then i guess it wouldn't bother me if i didn't know.

The question you asked basically assumes that you live your life on the assumption that your partner is or has cheated and you're waiting to be told the truth.

If you never suspect anything, then how can it hurt you?

 

[atlantabiolab]

Re: Re: Re: Would You Want to Know if Your Spouse Cheated on You?

LOL. And what do you do with a leaking hose or hoe? Replace it.

A better analogy, being that my first dealth with something that has little value, "If a family heirloom, say a diamond ring, had damaged settings, which threatened the loss of the diamond, would you want to know?"

The answer is yes, because you could then take actions to fix that which has personal value. One would be an idiot to not want to be able to save something that he loves.

 

[Baoh]

Of course I'd want to know.

I am consistently amused by those who say they'd rather not know.

 

[chesty]

I would. It is hard enough to trust someone these days without having to worry about your mate. If you can't trust them, harmful jeolousy creeps in, that becomes destructive.

Whether your in the same house or 10 states away, if you don't have trust you have nothing.

Love is based on trust. Start out with trust and honesty and you have a fighting chance. Betray that and it is over. Whether or not you are told, you will know and they will know. If you can't be honest and stay with one person then you shouldn't be with them.

I think there is someone out there that is for me (soul mate if you will) when I find them, my soul/spirit will be tamed and I will no longer feel restless inside. Till then, the test is this:

If you love someone be willing to set them free. If they truly love you they will return. If they do not hunt the bitch down and kill her.