Would You Want to Know if Your Spouse Cheated on You?

[Warik]

Yes I would want to know so that I could kick her the hell out of my house... though I would prefer that she inform me either before we have kids or after they are over 18 years old.

Of course, I'd prefer that she simply not cheat at all. =)

 

[JohnyJuice]

Re: Re: Would You Want to Know if Your Spouse Cheated on You?

Being the rhetorical self that I am, "Would you want to know about the slow leak behind the wall, or not?"

LOL. And what do you do with a leaking hose or hoe? Replace it.

 

[Ceebs]

I'd want to know. A one night stand is a lot shorter than the lie that would live in its wake if he didn't tell me.

 

[Mad4Iron]

I knew,all the signs were there.I just didn't give a fuck anymore as I had enough of her bullshit.

When I knew for sure I booted her and kept myself from killing the asshole as he did me a favor in hindsight.Thank God I didn't marry her or have kids,then it would have been different as I would have done anything in my power to get my kid or kids from her(She had major bi polar and manic problems).

Would I want to know in the future? I really don't know as it would hurt too much if I was with someone I really cared for.I'm sure I would know though.

Mad

 

[wyld1g]

WOW...Ceebs...I like it!!!

 

[CAESAR7]

I'd want to know and then I would kick her the fuck out! I don't give a fuck how it happend...

 

[JohnyJuice]

I'd want to know and then I would kick her the fuck out! I don't give a fuck how it happend...

If i found out my woman was cheating, i would immediatly set out on a mission of grande and divine importance. Operation "Supreme Sodomizer". It would then be my duty to wax the following people in the following order....
1. her freinds : they probably wouldnt tell. Just gotta pick the ones who are slutty enough to do it.
2. Girls she doesnt like: these may tell just to piss her off. If she does find out at this point, you have already nailed her friendsand at least one girl she doesnt like, so it isnt a complete loss.
3. Her sister if she has one.

Upon completion, i would then boot her slutty ass.

 

[40butpumpin]

The real question then is do you mind being lied to? The answer for me is YES. If I'm with a woman that lies to me than she's no woman of mine. I would rather die completely alone than be with a woman that is lying to me. For me it's either real or it just isn't happening.

 

[casualbb]

You'd have to know, so you can leave him/her. For someone to cheat means that his/her interest in you as a partner is past the point of no return. Your relationship will never be good again, because there will never be trust. Even if you stay together, you'll prevent yourself from truly loving the cheater out of a fear you'll be hurt again. Better just to kill it.

-casualbb

 

[PHATchik]

Trust is a huge issue with me. I would want to know whether it hurt me or not. Not knowing is not necessarily better.