Would You Want to Know if Your Spouse Cheated on You?

[curling]

After reading the thead about the dude that got cheated on by his wife got me to thinking. Would I want to know? And to be honest if she just screwed up one time out of town or something like a fling I think I would not want to know. I mean what you don't know don't hurt ya right?

Now if she was running all over town having affairs then that would be a different story.

So what about ya'll? The question is if your spouse had a fling out of town would you rather not know or would you want to know?

 

[Digger Dan]

How about this...

One night stand vs. Relationship?

Cheating in the body or in the heart? Which is worse?

Cheating, to me, is completely unforgivable. PERIOD. Show some self control and take responsibility for your actions.

 

[curling]

What the heck are you talking about? The question is would you want to know if your spouse messed around on a fling out of town or would you rather not know?

 

[Bikini Mod]

No, if it was one of those "He fucked up and realized it" things - No, I would not want to know. HOWEVER, I would not want Glenn Close showing up in my kitchen either! LOL

 

[biteme]

yes.

 

[fogg88]

damned if you know, damned if you don't.

 

[Digger Dan]

What the heck are you talking about? The question is would you want to know if your spouse messed around on a fling out of town or would you rather not know?

I don't know what I was saying.

I'd want to know.

 

[DrBones]

I'd be pretty pissed if the bitch cheated and brought home an STD.... Not only would i serve that bitch papers... I'd throw her in a ravine...

I could forgive her... possibly...... but she would hear it from me and it would take a LONG time to regain ANY trust.... chances are the lack of trust would make the marriage crumble anyyways..

 

[atlantabiolab]

After reading the thead about the dude that got cheated on by his wife got me to thinking. Would I want to know? And to be honest if she just screwed up one time out of town or something like a fling I think I would not want to know. I mean what you don't know don't hurt ya right?

Now if she was running all over town having affairs then that would be a different story.

So what about ya'll? The question is if your spouse had a fling out of town would you rather not know or would you want to know?

Being the rhetorical self that I am, "Would you want to know about the slow leak behind the wall, or not?"

 

[theoak01]

I never thought I would cheat and did once,I felt like ass wont ever do it again.

but if a girl cheated on me I wouldnt want to know,I would figure it out because I read people well but woudnt want to be told because I have a anger problem with these things.so no I dont want to know,but she best just leave and not cheat