I do wish all of you who said 'absolutely not' the best of luck in dealing with this response coming back at you if/when you do catch it.
Personally, I had no problem with having sex with someone I was attracted to, regardless of HIV status, and always played safely and stayed negative. I became positive after I was in a long-term, safe, monogamous relationship with someone who was *supposedly* negative. I found out later (at the funeral) that I was lied to and that my efforts at safety were sabotaged.
Its been hard realizing how many people are willing to blame the victims for getting sick and who are willing to come up with any reason they can for how they are different than 'those people who have it.'
I've also seen that these same people, if they do end up catching it, have been much more likely to lie to their partners - so that they don't have to put up with the discrimination aimed at them that they had aimed at others. Even if they had said felt that people who lied deserved to die.