Would u break up w/super hot chick who has herpes?

[Machiavellian Muscle]

Good friend of mine mentioned to me that his new girl has herpes and has had it for several years. They have been together for less than three months. He asked what he should do and I told him to move on. Here is the hard part. I saw pictures of her a couple of months back and she is really really hot. I would say that this is definitely the hottest chick he ever had and will be hard to top because it cannot get much better - beautiful face, nice boob job slamming abs and bubble butt. This is definitely clouding his vision as it would most men.

Bottom line I told my buddy is that it is ultimately his call and if this relationship don't work then you got the gift that keeps on giving. Now you got to tell other partners about it in the future and be in her boat. Do you really want that risk? He responding by saying that she has to have an outbreak to catch it, but I don't think its worth it no matter how hot the chick.

 

[jackangel]

Definitely move on.

 

[The Republican]

If he likes her its a really stupid reason the break up with her considering 1 in every 3 people has some form of herpes.

 

[Machiavellian Muscle]

That sounds great but imagine going to take a piss and you pull out your tool and it has open sores all over it. Now imagine this occurs a few times a year every year. No way bro, I don't care how hot call me selfish, but I am out. Now if it was a different form of herpes like a cold sore, maybe? But from my conversation with my boy I realized people think differently about this.

 

[The Republican]

That sounds great but imagine going to take a piss and you pull out your tool and it has open sores all over it. Now imagine this occurs a few times a year every year. No way bro, I don't care how hot call me selfish, but I am out. Now if it was a different form of herpes like a cold sore, maybe? But from my conversation with my boy I realized people think differently about this.

There are medicines available so that you can live basically symptom free and keep the virus from spreading. Whats taking one pill a day in the grand scheme of things?

 

[The Republican]

Just remember that if you have kissed more than 2 people in your lifetime then chances are good that you have herpes.

 

[jayjay24]

About 1 in 4 people has herpes Simples 2 in some form (Oral or genital). About 70-90% percent of the population has also has some form of Herpes simplex 1. The truth of it is, it is not that bad. Most people don't even experience anything aafter the initial outbreak. For those who do, it usually only happens about 2-3 times a year. If he likes her, there is no reason to let her go.

 

[BigBazooka]

He responding by saying that she has to have an outbreak to catch it, but I don't think its worth it no matter how hot the chick.

That's actually true.

 

[casavant]

Damn, this would be a no-brainer. He needs to get the fuck out.

 

[Machiavellian Muscle]

I can tell who has the herpes by their responses.....j/k

 

[ffknight84]

umm unless she is "The One" id say drop that bitch like a bad habit =))

no seriously, thats just something you dont want, and if hes not going to make a life commitment with her and just wants to have fun, dont bother.

 

[THeMaCHinE]

Yeah, it'd probably bug me. Especially since I like going down.

 

[***]

can you contract herpes from anal sex?

 

[Tiervexx]

can you contract herpes from anal sex?

I've only heard of genital and oral herpes so i don't think so, but i don't know for sure, does anyone?

 

[the nature boy]

I'd do it, I need more STD's to add to my arsenal.

 

[casavant]

can you contract herpes from anal sex?

Absolutely.

 

[casavant]

I wouldn't willingly accept an STD for even the most beautiful woman on earth.

Unless she was the last beautiful woman on earth...then it's negotiable.

 

[gettinlarger]

can you contract herpes from anal sex?

Indubitably.

 

[jackangel]

From what you've said so far, it's only her beauty that makes this difficult. Physical attraction is a strong reason to do a lot of things, but not this. If he had fallen madly in love and had forged some deep spiritual bond with her, maybe. But if not, it doesn't make sense to me. Despite the medication available to control outbreaks, there's no guarantee. Unless I'm mistaken, those who have herpes can still (possibly) spread the disease, even when they're not experiencing an outbreak. I wouldn't willingly accept an STD for even the most beautiful woman on earth.

 

[BigBazooka]

What the

Lol. I can't believe you guys! :loam:

I dated a girl w/ herpes for 2 years back in my early 20's. Just no sex when the herpes is "on" and you're all good. The herpes break-out usually lasted for 3 or 4 days and after that we fucked like wabbits. And yes, I've been tested after that and I'm clean as DUSTY's user account.

 

[***]

to all the guys who would leave the girl:

what if you truly loved her?

 

[THeMaCHinE]

Does true love come in 3 months?

 

[THeMaCHinE]

What the

Lol. I can't believe you guys! :loam:

I dated a girl w/ herpes for 2 years back in my early 20's. Just no sex when the herpes is "on" and you're all good. The herpes break-out usually lasted for 3 or 4 days and after that we fucked like wabbits. And yes, I've been tested after that and I'm clean as DUSTY's user account.

How long were you into the relationship before she told you?

 

[ZKaudio]

dude... for all you guys trying to say it's no big deal... 1/4?? wtf did you get this stat? It's more like 9/10 HAVE HAD some form of herpes. This includes shingles, chx pox, smallpox, cold sores, etc. BUT remember, 1/4 do NOT have genital herpes. It is serious.. one of the only 4 viral std's. Right now it's time to decide. Can you see yourself being with this girl for the rest of your life? If so, go for it; if not, it's not worth jeopardizing the rest of your dating future for her. Remember, you CAN still spread herpes even when there is not a breakout. Obviously chances are slimmer but it can happen. Take a BIG step back to think about this one before you continue. Don't be a fool, wrap your tool.

 

[Devastation]

Dump her now. Hopefully your friend doesn't already have "it".

Stay away from the "crotch of danger"

 

[BigBazooka]

How long were you into the relationship before she told you?

Hmmm, maybe a month or so? I don't remember very well, 'cause it was like 5 years ago.


"Back in the days the venerial diseases were simple. You got gonorhea, you went to doctor, get a shot that cleared it right up. Then they came up with herpes. You keep that shit forever like luggage. I say what's next? You put your dick in and it explodes?
... yeah, and the girl will be lying on the bed going: maybe I should see a doctor about this?"

 

[curling]

You must REALLY love a chick if you're willing to also take a disease for her.

F-

Exactly. Does the dude love her. Sheesh I wouldn't dump my ole lady just because of herpes. I mean if she had been treating me right I might even take a bullet for her.

 

[Mr. Black]

can you contract herpes from anal sex?

Some women are suseptible to a herpes outbreak that can go all the way down right to the asshole. So yes, it is possible to get herpes from anal sex.

 

[Lift Chief]

And yes, I've been tested after that and I'm clean as DUSTY's user account.

Best simile ever.

 

[THeMaCHinE]

Exactly. Does the dude love her. Sheesh I wouldn't dump my ole lady just because of herpes. I mean if she had been treating me right I might even take a bullet for her.

What do you mean "might" -- you'd have to think about taking a bullet for your wife?

 

[curling]

What do you mean "might" -- you'd have to think about taking a bullet for your wife?

Well it would depend on how she had been treating me. If she had been treating me good yes and if not I would have to think about it. I mean there would be no half then right. Oh I am terrible huh?

 

[Taps]

There's a lot of contradictory info in this thread. I'd tell your friend to talk to a health professional, and get ALL the facts. Then make a decision when he's completely informed.

 

[THeMaCHinE]

Well it would depend on how she had been treating me. If she had been treating me good yes and if not I would have to think about it. I mean there would be no half then right. Oh I am terrible huh?

lol ...

 

[ZenMachine]

I don't know, I have seen those chicks in the herpes medication commercials. They are hot and seem to be doing fun, exciting things all the time. I am thinking about getting herpes just so I can have that cool of a social life, and meet the hot chicks.

 

[the nature boy]

I don't know, I have seen those chicks in the herpes medication commercials. They are hot and seem to be doing fun, exciting things all the time. I am thinking about getting herpes just so I can have that cool of a social life, and meet the hot chicks.

bahahahahahahaah.

herpes does look fun.

 

[ZenMachine]

bahahahahahahaah.

herpes does look fun.

Exactly. I mean, I have always wanted to go kayaking, but never had the opportunity.

Apparently you get herpes and you can do that shit all the time.

 

[the nature boy]

Exactly. I mean, I have always wanted to go kayaking, but never had the opportunity.

Apparently you get herpes and you can do that shit all the time.

what's with the kayaking? all the herpes commercials have people doing kayaking or they're near the water. what if you have herpes and can't swim. then I don't think herpes would be so fun anymore.

 

[casavant]

what's with the kayaking? all the herpes commercials have people doing kayaking or they're near the water. what if you have herpes and can't swim. then I don't think herpes would be so fun anymore.

Attractive people doing sporty things in and around a clear, flowing body of water has a very "clean" look to it. That's why; it's all about psychology.

 

[danielson]

herpes increases the risk of contracting other STD's i think, to what degree im not sure

butn like big bazooka said u just gotta watch fir when there is an active outbreak. and if there is just get her on some meds

plus....is she just a fuck toy to him? and its pretty shitty breaking up with a girl just for that reason....depending on how serious they are of course

 

[casavant]

thanks smarty pants

 

[the nature boy]

Attractive people doing sporty things in and around a clear, flowing body of water has a very "clean" look to it. That's why; it's all about psychology.

thanks smarty pants

 

[ZKaudio]

herpes increases the risk of contracting other STD's i think, to what degree im not sure

... generally, a gaping open sore will increase your chances of fluid transfer... lol

 

[danielson]

... generally, a gaping open sore will increase your chances of fluid transfer... lol

lol, yeah thats true....im just not sure to what extent since the sore is 'weeping'....

 

[KA-BAR]

The gift that keep on giving. I would prolly leave her.

 

[Jimsbbc]

Not worth it. One of my best friends did this exact same thing, took herpes to have sex with her and they were over in 4 months. Then he gave it to every girl after he had sex with after, who then in turn gave it to other people. There's no telling how many people have it now bc of him. 2 girls he had sex with after he got herpes got it and sleep around a lot of guys without using anything. That's fucked up, those girls don't even care.

 

[-SD-]

I was with a really hot chick a couple years ago who had this exact thing and she ended up telling me in dramitic fashion. It hurt a lot but I ended up staying until we broke up later on for other reasons. Top shelf pussy can cloud the judgement facilities bruhs.

 

[KO-KAYNE]

If he likes her its a really stupid reason the break up with her considering 1 in every 3 people has some form of herpes.

ACTUALLY, ITS 1 IN EVERY 5. AND NO, THATS NOT A STUPID REASON TO BREAK UP WITH HER CONSIDERING YOU CANT GET RID OF HERPES......EVER. SO IF HE DOESNT HAVE THEM, AND HASNT HAD SEX WITH HER YET......FIRE HER ASS.

IF HE HAS HAD SEX WITH HER, HE HAS THEM. IT MAY NOT SHOW YET, BUT HE HAS THEM.

 

[Clomid_ia]

that's only one of the reasons that people should wait till they're married

 

[KO-KAYNE]

I MAKE IT CLEAR THAT IF A GIRL EVER GIVES ME A V.D., I WILL PROBABLY KILL HER. END OF STORY.

 

[gtrcivic]

fuck that, time to catch the next train that comes by!!

 

[KO-KAYNE]

GET RID OF THE GIRL LARRY. EASY AS THAT.

 

[Alucard]

In your friend's situation, he should be gone already.

The course of action depends completely upon the individual situation.

 

[chanmanfoo]

ACTUALLY, ITS 1 IN EVERY 5. AND NO, THATS NOT A STUPID REASON TO BREAK UP WITH HER CONSIDERING YOU CANT GET RID OF HERPES......EVER. SO IF HE DOESNT HAVE THEM, AND HASNT HAD SEX WITH HER YET......FIRE HER ASS.

IF HE HAS HAD SEX WITH HER, HE HAS THEM. IT MAY NOT SHOW YET, BUT HE HAS THEM.

that is not true. you can do an infected chick repeatedly and contract nothing. this is not something i would reccomend but its the truth. half the people on this board have probably been with someone thats infected and dont even know it.
foo

 

[KO-KAYNE]

AN UNINFECTED INDIVIDUAL HAS A 75% CHANCE OF CONTRACTING THE VIRUS IF THEY COME IN CONTACT WITH SOMEONE WHO HAS HERPES.

3 OUT OF 4 IS A PRETTY HIGH PERCENTAGE. I WAS WRONG ABOUT HIM 100% HAVING IT BUT 75% ISNT MUCH LOWER THAN 100%. CHANCES ARE......HE'S GOT IT. HE WAS WITH THE GIRL FOR MONTHS AND PROBABLY HAD SEX WITH HER REPEATEDLY.

THE GIRL SHOULD HAVE TOLD HIM BEFORE SHE HAD SEX WITH HIM THAT SHE HAD IT (ASSUMING SHE DIDNT).

 

[XBiker]

AN UNINFECTED INDIVIDUAL HAS A 75% CHANCE OF CONTRACTING THE VIRUS IF THEY COME IN CONTACT WITH SOMEONE WHO HAS HERPES.

3 OUT OF 4 IS A PRETTY HIGH PERCENTAGE. I WAS WRONG ABOUT HIM 100% HAVING IT BUT 75% ISNT MUCH LOWER THAN 100%. CHANCES ARE......HE'S GOT IT. HE WAS WITH THE GIRL FOR MONTHS AND PROBABLY HAD SEX WITH HER REPEATEDLY.

THE GIRL SHOULD HAVE TOLD HIM BEFORE SHE HAD SEX WITH HIM THAT SHE HAD IT (ASSUMING SHE DIDNT).

You are presuming that he had unprotected sex here. Did I miss something?

 

[b fold the truth]

Lots of good looking women have herpes...

You just need to decide if you really want to take that chance. Just be glad that she told you she had herpes before you did anythying...she could have lied to you.

I found it funny that a female friend of mine told me that she had herpes and had had it for years... Turned out she had only had it for a VERY short period of time and had lied where and when she had gotten it.

Be careful...it put a big strain on OUR friendship for sure...

B True

 

[easy]

Can he stay with her and just bagg it up before they fuck?? I don't know anything about std but I am under the impresion they don't penetrate latex. I'm so glad i'm married.

 

[buddy28]

Ive read gential herpes can be contracted during the asymptomatic 'shedding' phase. Translation: even when no physical symptoms of the gential herpes virus appear, the virus can still be sexually transmitted and contracted.

Estimates of the duration of asymptomatic shedding phase are around 5% of the year, or around 18 days.

 

[Machiavellian Muscle]

It would be different if I was told up front before any sexual activity. It would really piss me the f*ck off it after a couple of months she told me while she was cying to make me not want to get angry. At this point this person would have had lack of disrespect for my general well being and put their selfishness in front of the relationship. This would bother me just as much as the fact that she had this shit...

 

[Mr. Black]

Another point to consider is that even if protected (with a condom) it is still possible to receive/transmit herpes. Think about it, the condom doesn't cover the whole shaft, nor the scortum which most times would come into contact with some part of an infected pussy. There is no safe sex when it comes down to herpes.

 

[anabolicmd]

What the

Lol. I can't believe you guys! :loam:

I dated a girl w/ herpes for 2 years back in my early 20's. Just no sex when the herpes is "on" and you're all good. The herpes break-out usually lasted for 3 or 4 days and after that we fucked like wabbits. And yes, I've been tested after that and I'm clean as DUSTY's user account.

Damn thats crazy bro. I almost broke up with a girl when she told me her best friend had the herps. Cant be too careful these days.