I think the whole idea of women liking big men is just retarded.I dont think it matters either way to them and when they ask these poll questions most women are picturing Ronnie Coleman , so of course there gonna say they dont like it..... Do they like u in shape? Sure....do u need to be Ronnie Coleman?...NO.......... Of course, I know plenty of dumpy men who are pimps too, so go figure.lol. ........I mean sure if ur good looking and in shape ur gonna do better with the ladies. Thats just common sense.