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Utah, and I have sole physical and joint legal.

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I had a buddy who's wife wanted to move their kids. He and her live California it came down to him having less than 30% physical custody, The courts let her move. I would imagine Utah law can't be too much different; so I would say you have a solid request.
Good luck bro!
 
Utah to PA is a long move.

- Sole custody helps a lot. Really anything over 50% helps a lot.

- If you're moving closer to family and a better support system, that helps. Especially if Q has been around those family members before.

- If you're moving for a good job opportunity, that helps

- If you offer a generous visitation plan (i.e. summers with her mom), that helps -- and chances are, the mother won't take you up on that.

- Courts don't like moves driven by romance (moving for a GF)

- Courts haaaaaaate moves for "getting away from so-and-so"... not a legitimate reason.

So stick to the catchphrases. You're moving to make a better life for your daughter. You're moving so she can experience a larger family support structure. You're moving so you can make more money to make sure her financial needs are met -- college is coming. You don't seriously date right now because you know these are formative years for your daughter and you want to focus on her right now. You hate to put any physical distance between her and her mother, but you know it will be the best for her long-term, because she'll have a better life. You are completely flexible on making sure she spends time with her mother over holidays and the summer because you know having a healthy relationship with her mother will be good for her over the long term.

Good luck today!
 
Plunkey nailed it. Remember I have been through this same scenario. Difference is, i had my ex intimidated into not showing up for the court hearing lol.

I'll be thinking of you today
 
Got the mediation thing tomorrow. Fired off my email with my intent to relocate (this is acceptable in UT, before you armchair attorneys get all riled up) a little earlier, and haven't heard anything back so far. Jngr is stressed, has body aches from said stress, is shaking, and on about 4 hrs of sleep in the last 3 days. Blow some smoke up my ass and tell me everything will be ok.

Yours in sport..

I guess I haven't been following your personal aspirations on the board. I wish you the best of luck in any endevours you choose to partake. Some background in what you're referring to (such as threads) I would certainly read
 
Well that sucked. We didn't come to agreement, which wasn't a surprise to me. Now what the bitch is going to do is have me served so she can try for sole custody. Since I've been generous with the time I've let her have Q, it's close enough for them to say she's had time equal to joint custody (which she hasn't), and that it's in Q's best interest that her mom has her full time. So, I get to go to a pretrial, they're going to order a custody evaluation that they want me to pay for, and they're going to slap some kind of restraining order on me saying I can't leave Utah.

The mediator was very cool and told me that I have all of the leverage here, and that I need to hire my attorney again so things go the way I need them to, which just sucks. I need to get some of these damn deals funded.

Funny how she's doing all of this "in the best interest of the child" and then just turning around and using her to hurt me.
 
Yes you need to hire and attorney and file to have the right to move with the child before she files for custody.
That is another thing my friend tried to do but they gave her the right to move before he got more than 30% physical custody.
 
Well in UT all I have to do is give 60 days and if she doesn't stop it within that time frame I'm free to go. I could always be called back for court, but whatever. See, I try to be nice and it fucks me. Help a guy out... break my wrist. Try to be a good dad and let my ex see her child... fuck you nev, she's going to try to take her.

FML
 
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