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solidspine said:
you do.
here's something to help you do it.
i want you to think about something... I want you to imagine that your wife finds out and leaves you (or kicks you out, whatever).
how bad will you feel?
if the answer is "its about time" or "YAY, i'm free!", then you do have a hard decision. If your answer is that you'll feel terrible and that you lost something so great... then what you have to do should be easy.
solidspine
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This is not a justification or edification; just it helps to spill my guts even anonymously.
We got together again, because her lover was dying of cancer, it wasn’t and isn’t pretty. She called and I was the willing shoulder, you know the rest.
Well the lover with cancer is still alive, and we have developed another disease, called an affair, and it is as fatal as the cancer, only difference it can be cured,
I just have to administer and take the medicine.
We got together again, because her lover was dying of cancer, it wasn’t and isn’t pretty. She called and I was the willing shoulder, you know the rest.
Well the lover with cancer is still alive, and we have developed another disease, called an affair, and it is as fatal as the cancer, only difference it can be cured,
I just have to administer and take the medicine.
solidspine
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I would feel terrible, broken hearted, and turn inside out.
solidspine said:
i would make you a bet- a large one- that if that happened, you'd feel way worse than you even think.
keep that in mind when you do what you have to do.
I'm not telling you all of this to be the moral police, cause i sure as shit ain't them... i'm telling you because you knew what you needed to hear and you know what you need to do- you just need some help doing it and even though i don't know you, it would suck to see you back here wanting to die because your marriage ended over something stupid you did.
solidspine
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I appreciate your advice, I solicited your advice and need the statements of a mature woman,
I can honestly say as a man we stop maturing at 6 or 7..
I called her, that’s all the guts I had, to say we need to meet in the morning.
That gives me 10-12 hours to develop some character and guts.
seaking420
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Wow stilleto you make alot of sense on this. You must have gone through this before because you know exactly what is/would happen.
Solid spine I know of someone that was in your situation and the longer it went on the harder it was for him to make a discision. He ended up staying with his wife, but worried for a while that his g/f might call or email his wife, or if they saw each other would she say something to his wife.
Good luck with this. I hope you make the right choice. You cant go on like this forever, Im sure it was fun in the beginning, but then emotions came into play and you probably have been thinking about what to do for a while now.
Solid spine I know of someone that was in your situation and the longer it went on the harder it was for him to make a discision. He ended up staying with his wife, but worried for a while that his g/f might call or email his wife, or if they saw each other would she say something to his wife.
Good luck with this. I hope you make the right choice. You cant go on like this forever, Im sure it was fun in the beginning, but then emotions came into play and you probably have been thinking about what to do for a while now.
