Having been happily single since November I have realized there are no secrets to having a good relationship with anyone as we are all different and have our little likes and quirks.
I do notice alot of annoying things when it comes to relationships and people such as....
1. How people are so afraid to be alone that they "settle" for less of as person then they deserve.
2. The use of the phrases "I am in a long term/casual relationship". This phrase annoys the shit out of me. We are either in a relationship or not. When people use that phrase they sound more like they are describing a prison sentence then a relationship.
3. Men and Women becoming too content and getting lazy when they are in a relationship. How many of us have used the words "I really took you for granted". Relationships are like saving money in the bank. You have to work hard and deposit some good into them at all times.
4.People not being themselves at the beginning of the relationships then "really" being themselves later on.
5. Men are men,not women. Women are women not, men. Yes we should be equals in alot of things. But we are different creatures period. JUst seems lately that men are being pushed to get in touch with our feminine side and be sensitive, blah blah blah. Same with women being encouraged to be tough like men, blah blah blah. Well fuck off! I am a guy, I grunt, scratch myself, work hard ,respect women and yes think with my dick and about sex 24/7. Get over it. As long as I am nice to you and others I should have every right to be a full blown male.
6. Whenever somone uses the term "I would not let my other half do that". Fuck you. As long as your other half is not hurting anyone they can make up their own mind. They dont need your permission to do everything.
7. People in relationships not having outside interests, friends etc outside the relationship, ie the latching on phenonema.Us guys dont want to hang around with other couples all the time, we want to hang out with our guy friends "without you" and do guy things. And I am not talking about cheating or anything. And I would think the girls would like to hang out with thier girl buddies and do chick stuff "without us" too.
8. People ananlyzing what the other half in the realtionship is thinking. That and bitching about them to other people all the time looking for advise. This one really pisses me off. If you have a problem with me or the relationship tell me, not you little girlfriends. Especially since none of them are experts on relationships. Nothing more frustrating then a girlfriend taking relationship advice from people who can't even keep a relationship together themselves and never learn either.
9.The use of the words "he/she is not my type" I laugh my ass off when I hear that. Sorry people but it seems your type hasn't exactly worked for you. I don't have a type really. My type of women is the one I am happy to be with, the one I am attracted to on all levels period. So if you want to stop dating "jerks,assholes, bastards and bitches" maybe you should get over the part about what your type is which leads me to....
10. "I always end up with jerks, assholes, bastards and bitches". Did you ever think that maybe you are the problem and not them? Everytime I listen to a friend or family who just broke up in a relationship I have to hear about how bad the person was, how much it was this other persons fault. Well there are 2 sides to a story and then there is the truth, so instead of wallowing about how you always end up with the wrong person why not figure out how you should make some changes to yourself for the better so you can attract that right person instead. Negativity attracts negativity, and positive attracts positive. So if you end up with the wrong people all the time it's probably your own fault if you don't do anything to change that.
I have babbled enough here.
I'm Jerry Springer, and until next time folks, take care of yourselves, and each other.
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