Why was the "Punching Bitches in the Face" thread locked?

[ladymacbeth]

Re: Post workout ramblings

Stop fucking whining, start fucking changing.

a. I wasn't doing any whining.
b. I don't understand what you think I need to change.

I am a stable and caring person. I don't hurt people. I don't cheat on people. I don't hate my body and I if something is wrong with my life, then I work to change it. I appreciate the same qualities in other people. I've pretty much taken care of myself for a very long time, and I don't complain.

Not one of my girlfriends cares about guys with money. We like getting gifts, but are very often embarrassed to get them, as it feels strange having money spent on us because we are used to taking care of ourselves. We are intelligent, and not afraid to express intelligence. We are respectful of other people's opinions unless those opinions are and we never get catty with one another, because we care for one another. My guy friend's are the same.

My point is that I think you are just straight up wrong about women. What you say is hurtful, and as long as you go into your relationships this way, you're not going to get anything out of them. If you are waiting for women to hurt you, then you will alienate them, making you think that they are hurting you, and the cycle continues. If you think of yourself as a good person, surround yourself with the same. It is not difficult to do.

I have never, in my entire life, heard a woman say that she wanted a guy for his money, or even that she liked the fact that he had money. NEVER IN MY LIFE, except for on television. And if you say that I just haven't met the kind of women that you're talking about, then MAYBE THE MAJORITY OF WOMEN AREN'T REALLY "BITCHES".

I have great relationships with people and am very satisfied with my life thus far. It has nothing to do with age, but everything to do with maturity and understanding. Instead of blowing up when you see a girl or woman doing something you don't like, ask her why she's doing it.

For example, I for one hate to shop, but when I have a good day, I like to buy myself a gift. It's also nice to get away from people and spend a little money on myself for awhile. I recently applied for graduation, and went out and bought myself some typical-girly lotion stuff and nail polish. I imagine (and this is soooo hypothetical) you would have been "disgusted" at me as I went through all of the samples of smelly lotion before I finally picked out the one I wanted, then spent $10 on it, "wasting my time on petty things". I don't "assume" what you're going through, but don't suppose what every woman is going through either.

 

[danielson]

Re: Re: Post workout ramblings

For example, I for one hate to shop, but when I have a good day, I like to buy myself a gift. It's also nice to get away from people and spend a little money on myself for awhile. I recently applied for graduation, and went out and bought myself some typical-girly lotion stuff and nail polish. I imagine (and this is soooo hypothetical) you would have been "disgusted" at me as I went through all of the samples of smelly lotion before I finally picked out the one I wanted, then spent $10 on it, "wasting my time on petty things". I don't "assume" what you're going through, but don't suppose what every woman is going through either.

i have a feeling you might be getting the wrong end of the stick of frackals point of view

i 'think' (he talks for himself im just guessing) he's frustrated at the fact that women are essentially able to manipulate men so easily in todays society. if i go on a date with a women, there are certain ways i am expected to act (i.e. chivalry yada yada yada), which is seemingly required of the male part of our population. meanwhile the 'rules' for females have chenaged, they aren;t the dosile creatures men used to fawn over (this is good), but there isnt a 'code of conduct' so sternly enforced in womens actions towards men.

for instance if a women was to suddenly lash out at a man, many would lookm, maybe wince, but generally not care and possibly even findit funny. whereas if a man was to do the same, in about 20 seconds i would imagine he would be the focus of some negative attenton by passers-by.

and possibly the fact that this social change has altered male-female interaction. most men find it easy to socially interact with men. if we do something right, we smile, we laugh we joke, if something is done wrong the threat of a beating is there, and as such a mutual respect is built up where men will act politely/courteously to one another due to the fact that (IMHO) ifthings go badly both could inflict a lot of damage on each other. in friendships, a camraderie builds up and this respect is built up upon.

it may be sexist of me to say this, but in the vast majority of females i've met, i dont see this. im not saying it doesnt exist. but it doesnt in male-female interactions. as such, men find it very hard (again from my point of view) to interact with women in the same way they interact with men. and since this camaraderie isnt installed in women, it allows them to manipulate men, and men are seemingly powerless to stop them in the way they are used to

so when men get hurt, they look at them meda and see this 24 hr torrent of anti men material they tend to feel a little hard done by (i was watchig heartbreak ridge (clint eastwood flick) recently....his ex takes him back even though shes engaged and shes brought him nothing but heartache, yet we're made to feel sorry for HER?!?)

maybe everything i just typed out is total bull, ive had very little sleep, been working like a dog for the last 2 days and just made this entire post up as a was writing it so its probably a whole of load of horse shit. but its my opinion



(btw its great you have such a close knit group of friends. shopping does not make you petty, and if yu hold yourself to the tenants you state, it will make you a very attractive person and not just sexually )

 

[Lao Tzu]

I locked it. It was tasteless and more to the point there IS ABSOLUTLEY NO REASON ON THIS EARTH TO HIT A WOMAN. PERIOD!!!

Unless it is a woman hitting another woman, and not a man hitting a woman. Then it isn't a crime against humanity, it is an entertaining catfight.

if women can withstand the psychological violence to conform to unrealistic standards that cause low self worth, self hate & depression a slap in the face isn't the end of humanity.

 

[JohnyJuice]

First:

You have no class if you call women "bitches". That is pimp-talk. Pimps are pieces of shit. It is a real sad commentary on our culture that "pimp" mannerisms are celebrated. Think about it: How would you like somebody calling your Mom, your sister, or your lady "bitch"?

Second:

Any man who feels the need to beat on a lady is a serious punk. Personally, when I see a guy slap a lady around, I slap him around and call him my "bitch". Who the fuck needs to resort to violence to handle a disagreement with a woman? Pathetic.

Third:

I know porno makes it look cool to treat women like garbage, but you need to think about the consequences of these attitudes. I don't want to live in a culture where women are reduced to sexual commodities.

Thats the end of my preaching.
The Aryan Soldat

Agreed.

 

[ladymacbeth]

Re: Re: Re: Post workout ramblings

i 'think' (he talks for himself im just guessing) he's frustrated at the fact that women are essentially able to manipulate men so easily in todays society. if i go on a date with a women, there are certain ways i am expected to act (i.e.

Then it is not women who are manipulating you, it is society. That is what gets me all mad. We're not doing anything bad to you. Maybe one woman did something bad, but we don't have meetings discussing just how to extract so much money from you on a date. If you want to change the status quo, then do it and just don't sit around and talk about how much it sucks.

And thanks...sometimes I think that I like to go shopping just to get away from the guys for awhile.

 

[dballer]

Re: Post workout ramblings

Things such as leaving a good, nice and decent man for a man who treats her like shit....their obsession with money, and though they all screamed and bitched for equal rights, (which I think they deserve 100%), still expect men to pay for dates, etc etc..the illogical way they justify cheating and other actions by blaming it on their boyfriend/husband (no honor) rather than accepting responsibility for their actions.....these are just a very few examples of the way the MAJORITY of (particularly western/american) women act.

and

I have been severly hurt in the past, many on this board know that...an experience that has so shook me to my core that I still dream about it, feel it, and fear it often, though it's been many many months. At the same time I was going through this I supported friends such as High Intensity who were going through something even more horrible. I am generally not a very emotional person, but I have felt what it is like to be so hurt, and so sick, to just puke and puke and hyperventilate in a non-comprehending panic with the phone that brought you the bad news tightly clutched in your hand. That is the shock of pure betrayal. NO FUCKING HONOR.

Frackal... I know this feeling.. you are not alone.

 

[AAP]

Can you imagine walking into a department store and seeing a disheveled, disoriented woman stumble by. Then spot a pissed off shoe clerk rubbing his knuckles. Bitch tried on too many pairs of pumps....

 

[polarpixie]

Re: Post workout ramblings

Stop fucking whining, start fucking changing.

That's directed at all PREDATORAY-type women in general, who are generally the perpetrators of my grievances with females.

I'll tell you why that statement can be interepreted as mildly offensive. You say that is directed at that specific group of women, but I ask you, who reads these boards? As far as I can tell, many, if not all the women who would have come across that post on this board, do not fall under that category.

I try not to get into these discussions because I know that you are all very stubborn people, who are deadset in your views. But, maybe I can help you be less offensive to us women who do not fit into that category. Frackal, Danielson, and any one else with similar experiences with women. I think it is that 'them' vs. 'us' attitude that gets a few of us women so riled up. I think that as intelligent, thinking, people, you must realize that we are all individuals, each one with different dispositions and personalities. I'm sympathetic to your pain. However, it is your personal experience, and the women whom you have crossed paths with in your life that have done you wrong. A handful of women, who have hurt you, does not constitute ALL or even MOST women. My actions, viewpoints, and experiences are similar to LadyMacbeth's in that neither myself, nor any of my female friends behave anything like how tend tp describe women. If we do comment about how a guy has money, it is made in jest and with sarcasm. You know that song, "Even though we ain't got money, I'm so in love with ya honey..."? That is the kind of love and relationship I want to have with a guy.

My point is, I think that many women, consisting of the women who peruse these boards, and the women in your life, would greatly appreciate it, if you would address your rants to and about those indivduals who have caused you such great pain, rather than addressing your negative comments to 50% of the human population.

Just to give you an example:

FALSE STATEMENT:

Things such as leaving a good, nice and decent man for a man who treats her like shit....their obsession with money, and though they all screamed and bitched for equal rights, (which I think they deserve 100%), still expect men to pay for dates, etc etc..the illogical way they justify cheating and other actions by blaming it on their boyfriend/husband (no honor) rather than accepting responsibility for their actions.....these are just a very few examples of the way the MAJORITY of (particularly western/american) women act.

TRUE STATEMENT:

Things such as leaving a good, nice and decent man for a man who treats her like shit....The women whom I, Frackal have encountered's obsession with money, and though ....they fought for equal rights, (which I think they deserve 100%), still expect men to pay for dates, etc etc..the illogical way ....The women whom I, Frackal have encountered justify cheating and other actions by blaming it on their boyfriend/husband (no honor) rather than accepting responsibility for their actions.....these are just a very few examples of the way the MAJORITY of (particularly western/american) ....the women whom I, Frackal have encountered's act.

I understand that you will feel how you feel. You are hurt and angry and you feel the need to lash out and unleash that anger, but you're going about it in an unproductive manner that is only going to help perpetuate your negative view rather than help to dispel it.

I promise, keep your heart, mind, and your eyes open to the truth and you will find someone who would never ever even entertain the thought of causing you pain, or take advantage of you in any way.

 

[Sebass67]

Hmmm...i think you are really on to something with looking at people as individuals...

Even though i still maintain that women are the devil!!!

I just found out one of my buds got cheated on by his gf of four months on his best friend.

But, i think also that women also generalize men to a certain extent as well.

Ie. I heard of a girl that thought i was some big tough big shot kinda guy and when she found out what i am really like apparently she was disappointed. Some things make you wonder sometimes.

Regardless, there are differences between men and women. This complicates the issue further.

Well, there ends another rant.

 

[polarpixie]

Hmmm...i think you are really on to something with looking at people as individuals...

haha....Sometimes it's necessary to point out the obvious!

But, i think also that women also generalize men to a certain extent as well.

True. Some women do. It's a bad practce to generalize, about anything. So why be part of the pack who do it? If everyone was gonna jump off the bridge, should you wanna do it too?