Ken I don't want to sound like an asshole but it's about time someone gave you a different opinion rather than a shoulder to cry on. So I will be the asshole on this thread.
For the past 3 weeks or so you have been crying the blues over this guy, now GET THE FUCK OVER IT AND MOVE ON!
You mentioned him being abusive or something I believe. Enough already. Stop whining and find someone else to fuck or go out with. Your wasting valuable time you could be putting into flirting dating and screwing.
Time does heal wounds but 3 weeks is too much time. I can understand mourning a dead relative but this is ridiculous.
"I'm Jerry Springer, until next time, take care folks, and take care of each other....."