WHY DOES LOVE HURT SOMETIMES, Pls someone tell me

[ken343]

I have just moved out of the flat I once shared with my BF, even duo I know it is for the best but a part of me just feels like dying, I really wanted him to be d one, how can everything that was soo good become so bad and u can't even bear to talk to each other, Relationships are never easy, we go into them with the chances that this person is right for us, but only to find out a couple of months down d line that they are not.

it is going to hurt like hell when I see him happy with another doing the things we once did and how they are building there future together, even duo deep down inside I know this is d right decision, it is just always hard letting go.

 

[WODIN]

You and madbomber31 should get together over a few beers and discuss this in great detail. Maybe you can bring him over to your team? U see, he thinks love stinks too right now.

Just give it time, you'll find someone else...

 

[havoc]

Time Heals all wounds. its a learning experience, peace

 

[ken343]

it is easier said that done, i know time heals d pain, i just can't wait

 

[~~~SlickassBiatch~~~]

Love SUCKS

i've been through this more than once. It sucks. I choose not to go through it again. Love sucks, relationships sucks, i'm better off alone. It will get better with time....sometimes it takes a long time.

 

[ken343]

SlickassBiatch

I know what u mean sometimes i just feel like dieing, i was better on my own until he came along and now look at me, a complete reck

 

[~~~SlickassBiatch~~~]

Ken

its hard...but time does heal all pain.
Once you get use to being alone again , i recommend you spend time getting to know yourself and making YOURSELF happy. you cant let another person control how you feel about yourself. you cant allow another person to control your happiness.

 

[Cleaner]

Mental Note:

Never come to this bunch for relationship info!

 

[HappyScrappy]

why does love hurt sometimes?

hmm, not enough lube?

 

[ken343]

Thanks Guys

i know what u are saying is right, but just does'nt get any easier, u love some-one build a home and some sort of foundation only for it to be broken down in pieces, i know time is a great healer and it will hurt when i see him happy with another and not with me.

But oh well what does not kill u makes u only stronger

 

[ken343]

bump

 

[WODIN]

ken in all seriousness... It is not love that hurts, it is lose the lose of love that you feel that hurts. Change your perception of this lose to one of newly gained freedom for self expression and your pain will go away.

 

[Slice of Peach2]

Re: Re: Love SUCKS

RIGHT ON!!! Love is for tiny people with tiny lives.

There is room for love, you just have to find the right person. I'm sorry you have been hurt. I know how you feel. It does suck.

 

[May1010]

Ken,

Quit being such a fag. Move on.

 

[Milhouse]

Ken I don't want to sound like an asshole but it's about time someone gave you a different opinion rather than a shoulder to cry on. So I will be the asshole on this thread.
For the past 3 weeks or so you have been crying the blues over this guy, now GET THE FUCK OVER IT AND MOVE ON!
You mentioned him being abusive or something I believe. Enough already. Stop whining and find someone else to fuck or go out with. Your wasting valuable time you could be putting into flirting dating and screwing.

Time does heal wounds but 3 weeks is too much time. I can understand mourning a dead relative but this is ridiculous.

"I'm Jerry Springer, until next time, take care folks, and take care of each other....."

 

[Slice of Peach2]

Milhouse!!!

Bad, Milhouse. Have some sympathy.

Ken needs hugs and love right now. Let's support him people.

 

[Milhouse]

Sorry Peach but he doesn't get anymore sympathy from Milhouse. He got it from me 3 weeks ago and since then out of his 40 odd posts, 40 have been 'poor me poor me" so it's time someone gave him some tough love and told him to get off his ass and be an adult and stop being a whiny crybaby.

IF you don't believe me look up on the thread he is bumping the damn thing. Thats pathetic.

 

[X.X]

I'm not making light of this, but have you thought of seeing a counselor? I have been to a few of them in my life because of painful experiences that I couldn't get through by myself. It sounds like you're going in circles right now. You could talk to someone who can actually help you through this. And when you do get through this (and YOU WILL), you will be stronger for it.

X.X

 

[satanic goatslayer]

Heroin.

 

[Slice of Peach2]

Heroin.

That won't help, he'll just want more. He needs a valium, lots of valium.

Go to sleep for a week, that always helps.


Milhouse, if you must feel that way then by all means, but Peach is still gonna hand out the love.

 

[8pack]

Smoke BUD

 

[Slice of Peach2]

Or you can just take a bite of peach.

If I show you where, will you bite me there?

 

[Milhouse]

No probs peach.
I just felt he needed a different opinion then a pat on the back.

But sonce your passing out loving send some my way hun, just kidding.