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[habitualhealth]

Re: geigh

Keys to the kingdom? Quite the over estimation I'd say.

And who's going to fund your 10-date insecurity issue?

A guy. Not a smart one though. Just a desperate one

IMO

Well done, you got in a 3-for-1 jab session. Nice.

Wow, dont recall listing my 10-date prerequisite anywhere on EF but would I love to poll up the "who's gonna fund..blah blah." We can all have sex and it be horrible or it can be complete euphoria. What identifies that with each of us is our own personal preference. For me, I want to know what you have to offer outside of the bed? Be deeper than the condom you're working with. Impress me with that...then you'll get laid. Otherwise, I don't need a meal ticket...I have no problem reaching for my cash (i am aware of the times ya know)...but dont do me a favor because you're "expecting" sex after. You want to buy dinner because you're interested/want to do something nice...great, I will shower you with appreciation. I dont go to dinner with a guy "expecting" him to pay so why would you expect that after one meal you should get laid? *shrugs*

If there's an understanding going into it that you're both free spirited and neither person has a prob with plutonic sex...go for it!! Let me be your personal cheerleader. But to say I have insecurities or to insult me because my morals and beliefs exist and or/are different from yours....pretty close minded and ignorant if you ask me.

But, by all means, continue...i do appreciate your input.

 

[alien amp pharm]

From the ATL meetup, I know for fact that HH does not sleep around on the first date





















.....it took me until Saturday.












j/k

 

[The Shadow]

Dead Man Typing

 

[habitualhealth]

From the ATL meetup, I know for fact that HH does not sleep around on the first date

.....it took me until Saturday.

j/k

This post is not even worth responding to.

 

[strangebrew]

LOL @ all the people who live by a pre-defined "checklist" of rules.

It's not a matter of first date, tenth date, marriage or never. It's a matter of doing what one feels is right FOR THAT SITUATION and not being so closed minded because of a set of previously established universal rules. Whatever the chemistry dictates is ultimately what is "right". If the moment calls for a first date fuck, then so be it. If the moment calls for a few dates (days, weeks, months) then intimacy, then so be it. There is no right or wrong so long as the person does as the 'gods have laid forth'.

All these people who live through a set checklist and concrete mindset are fools. No sex until date #5 after having went on 3.5 dates racking up 17.5 hours worth of my time and spending $267.35 on me. Fool. Likewise, she's toast right away if she doesn't have sex with me on the very first date and give me what I want. Fool as well. Someone who goes with the moment and situation at hand (which varies from one person to another) is ultimately the wise one.

I have went out on dates where I waited a few days, weeks, and even months before having sex because it just felt "right". Likewise, I have went out on dates where I had sex on the very first date. Does this take away from my self-respect? Hell fuckin NO! I have my self-respect because I don't live by a narrow minded ridged way of thinking.

So please people, stop watching and living through Oprah, Dr. Phill and all those self-help relationship books.

Yep.

All these rediculous dating "rules" make absolutely no sense to me. That's just not how I think.

 

[AristotleBC]

respones to habitual health

"You know, enough to show that your interest in her is more than what's behind the panties? Say 2nd date, third date, god forbid 4th date?

Of course, if you're dating a prude like me....could be endless amount of time before you get the keys to the kingdom."

Sounds like longer than 5, 6 + dates to me


I don't understand why you emphasize sex so much. And why you constantly refer to your vagina as "a kingdom" and as prize to be won.


You seem to seperate it from the entire dating process while I don't see why that is necessary.

To me dating inolves sex, doing fun activities, enjoying each other's company, etc...



You keep acting as if you're vagina is some prize.

"Impress me, then you'll get laid."


No thank you. I don't go on a date to "impress" a woman so she can "reward me" with something we both enjoy.

Any woman with your attitude towards dating equals a shitty date in my experience.


You're constantly focused on whether the guy has "earned" the right to "fuck you" when I am more interested in enjoying a woman's company in all the aspects of a date; good food, fun things to do, great sex, etc...


And again, you (like all women) claim you "come prepared to pay" but you're not fooling anyone.


I've heard you say this "keys to the kingdom" phrase a few times and its a real indicator of someone who views dating as an audition for a prize (not a very valuable one, no more than a dick would be) rather than a non-issue-ridden way to enjoy life and the company of another.

I'm not interested in "earning" anything from you and any guy who attempts this has my sympathy.

 

[velvett]

Dead Man Typing

HAHAHAA

 

[ChefWide]

... there is a strange foretelling of asswhooping in the air, aap... i am too far away to help you now, Leah, you must look to your brother, Luke Friskwalker....

 

[artrius]

Shut yer pie hole. I see you couldn't live without my posts huh? (pfft "ignore"....my ass )


I guess "making whoopie" does take away from the "sexy" factor of doing it huh?

If a woman said she wanted to make whoopie with me on a date, it would be over right then and there. WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY too redneck for me....

 

[rnch]

There is no right and wrong here hero morality is subjective. You can agree with her or not doesn't make her view right or wrong just her view.

you are SO correct, dawlin' !