why do woman believe we lose respect if

[patsfan1379]

this thread makes me want to kill a puppy.

 

[seizer]

Years ago i was "dating" (job interview) this chick for awhile. Of course paying her way all the way through.

Typical "no no not into that" line everytime i got her somehow to the couch and made the move. But of course wanted to keep dating. Continualyl holding up that pootang as some holy grail reward that i should strive for.

Whatever. Finally i guess i "met HER qualifications" and being used to being in control all her life, _decided_ that it was now time for _us_ to finally have sex. Thanks for the decision-making honey.

Whatever. That boat has left the dock ages ago. I OWNED her. I said i wasn't interested.

Of course _she_ flipped. "I can't believe this!" blah blah.

Funny, shoe, other, foot.

Date a chick long enough without sex, and eventually u become desensitized with the rejeections and just plain "don't care anymore".

Hope she was happy. She wasted many many hours with me only for me to bail at the end. Well done Sally.

Can I shake your hand?

 

[awittyusername]

Shut yer pie hole. I see you couldn't live without my posts huh? (pfft "ignore"....my ass )


I guess "making whoopie" does take away from the "sexy" factor of doing it huh?

I never said i had you on ignore...I just joked that some of the guys that may want you....may have changed their mind.

lol. I have a vision of you on the 4.532 date (or whatever is mathematically appropriate for sex) Saying in you sexy voice. "Well, we have went on 4.532 dates, you have bought me 2.5 meals, you walked me in the park, met my parents, my dog likes you, and you signed the appropriate paper work. Sooooooo, Leeettss mmmaaakke whoooopie. :QT:

 

[superqt4u2nv]

Feel me?

I wouldn't mind feeling you but that goes against your morals.

 

[AristotleBC]

geigh

Question, how many women have you slept with on the 1st or 2nd date who are still around today? (not current flings)

The consensus is that men typically are out for sex. (which more often than not is true...more power to them) Bottom line is anyone, male/female can have sex at any given time with someone. Women want to feel respect and reassurance that you see more to her than just a piece of meat. If you dont see her with any other aspect....then you probably should lower your standards to that of "easy-mode". (so you can get laid on the first date of course ) If you're really into a chic, wouldn't you want her to see you respect her for more than a lay? You know, enough to show that your interest in her is more than what's behind the panties? Say 2nd date, third date, god forbid 4th date?

Of course, if you're dating a prude like me....could be endless amount of time before you get the keys to the kingdom. For me, sex is sex. What makes it better or worse is the connection/chemistry I have with a guy. The more he knows about me (and I him) the better it will be. I'm not doing the walk of shame the next morning b/c I wake up next to a dude that I could barely tell you his last name.


Let the flaming begin....

Keys to the kingdom? Quite the over estimation I'd say.

And who's going to fund your 10-date insecurity issue?

A guy. Not a smart one though. Just a desperate one

IMO

 

[habitualhealth]

I never said i had you on ignore...I just joked that some of the guys that may want you....may have changed their mind.

lol. I have a vision of you on the 4.532 date (or whatever is mathematically appropriate for sex) Saying in you sexy voice. "Well, we have went on 4.532 dates, you have bought me 2.5 meals, you walked me in the park, met my parents, my dog likes you, and you signed the appropriate paper work. Sooooooo, Leeettss mmmaaakke whoooopie. :QT:

LMAO!! Hahahahaha


Dame it, I'm not June Cleaver!

 

[nycgirl]

I wouldn't mind feeling you but that goes against your morals.

LOL!! We will have to take him out on a few dates (appetizer or dessert - not both. I'm on a budget). Maybe by the 3rd date, he will let us feel him up.

 

[alien amp pharm]

LOL!! We will have to take him out on a few dates (appetizer or dessert - not both. I'm on a budget). Maybe by the 3rd date, he will let us feel him up.

Losers.

It only took me a handshake and a wink.

 

[The Shadow]

I wouldn't mind feeling you but that goes against your morals.

Where did that come form?

I got felt up in Atlanta - didnt bother me at all.....


nyc - you missed you chance when Jen patted my pec...


oh...and my booty too


damn Jen.....

 

[The Shadow]

Losers.

It only took me a handshake and a wink.

STFU CUDDLE BOY