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CENTURION44
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do it but lie to me...tell me its the first time youve ever done anyting like that...
satchboogie said:
K! to you too QT!!
If I sleep with someone on a first date, I lie down on that bed with total respect for myself and I wake up with that same amount of respect for myself. The term "walk of shame" isn't in my vocab. It was my decision, and there is nothing shameful about it. No regrets.
If you wait a few weeks to sleep with him, and he doesn't want to see you again - does that make it any better? If a guy doesn't call back (whether I slept with him or not on the first date), it's his lost.
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alien amp pharm
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I don't think I've ever had a girl make me wait over 2 dates, but that was probably due to them not being able to control themselves around my hot self.
ok ok, fine. You caught me. Remember I dated that 20 yr old virgin for 5 weeks and still didn't get any, so apparently I am capable of waiting.
ok ok, fine. You caught me. Remember I dated that 20 yr old virgin for 5 weeks and still didn't get any, so apparently I am capable of waiting.
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satchboogie
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the way i see it...
a woman who fukcs me on the first date is just my type!
seriously, i totally dont lose respect.
in fact, i have more respect for her as i believe in free spirits.. do whatever the fuck makes you happy.
those girls who think they'll 'dry' me out for a few dates are tripping.
those are the ones i usually hit and revenge run.. lol
a woman who fukcs me on the first date is just my type!
seriously, i totally dont lose respect.
in fact, i have more respect for her as i believe in free spirits.. do whatever the fuck makes you happy.
those girls who think they'll 'dry' me out for a few dates are tripping.
those are the ones i usually hit and revenge run.. lol
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satchboogie
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alien amp pharm said:
id NEVER EVER date a virgin..
seems like a total waste of time.
i mean.. who wants to wait wait and wait and still maybe not get shit.
and even if you hit that, sex aint gonna be all that great til you properly train her.
and even then, she probably wont know how to treat a man like a man.
milo hobgoblin
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The difference between a good girl and a bad girl.. a bottle of tequila and no one she knows is watching.
More power to you too. "Walk of shame" is something I personally came up with (i tend to create my own guide to communication) after seeing dozens of friends both male AND female bitch and complain because either:nycgirl said:
A. They woke up and wanted to chew their own arm off because "i cant believe i slept with him/her"
B. i hear the "i KNEW that's all they were after"
C. "i should've waited to get to know them more"
Most people have either been there or know someone who has.
In my world, it's about morals. I am a self respecting lady regardless of who's bed I lie down in or wake up in. That certainly won't change. But I know how I (<~~ME personally) view random sex. That's what I hold on to. Morals, beliefs, respect, a more than standard for life. As well, I am a mother of a little girl who one day will be in my shoes.....or standing next to the guy who is trying to bed her on the first date. I can not possibly see myself telling her at 15 or 16 (hell, 12 & 13 these days) "oh honey, it's ok to sleep with whomever you want just as long the respect you have for yourself when you lie down with him...you have when you wake...regardless if he respects you or not....he's just a guy...oh, so don't you worry." Hell, effin, no. I feel (<~~~ME, dang why do I feel I have to reiterate that everytime i post on the boards these days...lol) a woman who is confident, secure, self respecting, and intuitive can make the judgement call on when the right time is to get it on in the relationship. Let's face it, until we (women) are butt ergly, smell funny, have funky a$$ breath, etc....a man is not going to turn down sex.
Fact is, our reputation it typically defined by our character.
If a guy/girl doesn't call back because you DONT sleep with him...what do conclude from it? I agree with the "who gives a flying f**k what anyone thinks of me" idea....but truth be told in MY world....I do care to an extent. I think we all do. For instance, some people were insecure about posting up their pics on EF because they didn't want anyone to say they were ugly or what have you.....why? Because they care that others think. I may not care what anyone on EF thinks (although, i love you all
)....in my own personal world....the world that plays a role in my daughter's life....u better believe i do. I respect everyone's opinion on this for sure. And it's good to get insight on how other people view the subject.
That's good though, that's what works for you and what you're looking for.satchboogie said:
wnt2bBeast
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I like what HH said and what QT said..
just remember there are some guys that really do respect a complete and total slut in the bedroom..
I think it matters more the next morning or the next few days if that guy or girl says hey lets go get something to eat or watch a flick or whatever
just remember there are some guys that really do respect a complete and total slut in the bedroom..
I think it matters more the next morning or the next few days if that guy or girl says hey lets go get something to eat or watch a flick or whatever
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*MissFit*
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Depends what your talking about.. lie down have sex get kicked outta bed.. then nope i'm not sure i'm digging it.
But i find more and more now a days first, second and third dates aren't lasting a few hours = sometimes they are lasting days.. as weird as that sounds..
Sex is sometimes the perfect ending for these types of connections. For the people that have had these types of dates, you know what i am talking about. And for the ones that haven't, then maybe your not comfortable enough with yourself, and your sexuality, in order to express yourself in this way.
But i find more and more now a days first, second and third dates aren't lasting a few hours = sometimes they are lasting days.. as weird as that sounds..
Sex is sometimes the perfect ending for these types of connections. For the people that have had these types of dates, you know what i am talking about. And for the ones that haven't, then maybe your not comfortable enough with yourself, and your sexuality, in order to express yourself in this way.
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