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why do woman believe we lose respect if

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wnt2bBeast said:
I like what HH said and what QT said..
just remember there are some guys that really do respect a complete and total slut in the bedroom..

I think it matters more the next morning or the next few days if that guy or girl says hey lets go get something to eat or watch a flick or whatever
When the timing is right, I respect a complete and total slut in the bedroom too. ;)

Your last line is right on the money too.
 
this thread makes about as much sense as a priest handing out marital advice.
 
habitualhealth said:
A. They woke up and wanted to chew their own arm off because "i cant believe i slept with him/her"
B. i hear the "i KNEW that's all they were after"
C. "i should've waited to get to know them more"
I have never once thought any of these things. Just cause I will sleep with someone on the first date doesn't mean I am still not picky about who that someone is.
 
Years ago i was "dating" (job interview) this chick for awhile. Of course paying her way all the way through.

Typical "no no not into that" line everytime i got her somehow to the couch and made the move. But of course wanted to keep dating. Continualyl holding up that pootang as some holy grail reward that i should strive for.

Whatever. Finally i guess i "met HER qualifications" and being used to being in control all her life, _decided_ that it was now time for _us_ to finally have sex. Thanks for the decision-making honey.

Whatever. That boat has left the dock ages ago. I OWNED her. I said i wasn't interested.

Of course _she_ flipped. "I can't believe this!" blah blah.

Funny, shoe, other, foot.

Date a chick long enough without sex, and eventually u become desensitized with the rejeections and just plain "don't care anymore".

Hope she was happy. She wasted many many hours with me only for me to bail at the end. Well done Sally.
 
as long as you have your own set of personal morals and you stick to themm.. you'll always have respect.. even from people who may not agree with those morals
 
CanadianCutie said:
Sex is sometimes the perfect ending for these types of connections. For the people that have had these types of dates, you know what i am talking about. And for the ones that haven't, then maybe your not comfortable enough with yourself, and your sexuality, in order to express yourself in this way.

:P

Exactly, there is nothing wrong with a woman that is comfortable with her sexuality and desires. I don't see how it is 2005, and women can demand equals rights yet they are uncomfortable and ashamed of their sexual needs.

Furthermore, I agree with QT. Just because you sleep with someone on the first date does not mean that the girl was not picky.
 
I think it all depends on the person.

There really isn't any reason why two people shouldn't be able to have sex on the 1st or 2nd date, if you are feeling horny, attracted to the person, then why not?

Society has taught us that sex is something more then it really is. Reality check ladies, its only what you make of it.

Sure, chicks are scared that they will have sex with a dude and he's gonna blow her off shortly after. But reality check here, if he's gonna do that on the 1st date, he'll do it on the 10th date. So you are doing yourself a favore by figuring shit out sooner rather then later.

The fact is, most relationships DO NOT work out. You will ended up dating FAR more people then you actually have a real relationship with, let alone marry. Sex is part of dating, its part of getting to know someone, its part of figuring out compatibility and chemistry.


Sure you want to get to know someone before being completely intimate with someone, so I'm not saying skip the conversation and get straight to the fucking, but jesus, don't be so uptight about it. Its only pussy, not some holy kingdom.
 
Lestat said:
Sure, chicks are scared that they will have sex with a dude and he's gonna blow her off shortly after. But reality check here, if he's gonna do that on the 1st date, he'll do it on the 10th date. So you are doing yourself a favore by figuring shit out sooner rather then later.

LOL... shameless plug for my sex on the first date
 
superqt4u2nv said:
I have never once thought any of these things. Just cause I will sleep with someone on the first date doesn't mean I am still not picky about who that someone is.
Well that's good you haven't dollface. I will assume you don't incorporate the "walk of shame" either into your vocab. I'm not suggesting that because you make the decision to sleep with someone on a first date you are either right or wrong. To each their own. My posts/feelings on the subject are a mirror if my own rhyme and reason in life. Everything in my life is encompassed by my own experiences. Be it, personal or watching/learning from a distance. That's all. ;)
 
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