why do wimminez want props for squeezing out kids?

[Bikini Mod]

all i'm claiming is that if you claim southern morals and traditions you should live it.
doesn't make sense to claim to live a certain type of lifestyle that you don't really live

Darlin - I hear you. But as I said - life happens. One day you will become a parent if you are lucky enough and/or have desire too and you will see very quickly how FALLIBLE you are. Now go ahead and tell your 11 year old that you NEVER smoked pot or had premarital sex. It might fly when they are 5 or even 11 but you know damned well that shit will not fly when they are 14 and above. So how do YOU handle it then?

Rememeber what I told you about our circumstances and character.

Ms Pregorae isn't the first woman who became pregnant out of wedlock and she certainly won't be the last. I have yet to hear her crow about how her current circumstance was her FIRST CHOICE.

How bout this - we all have life happen. What separates the wheat from the chaff is how we react in the course of those happenstances.

 

[Gambino]

Darlin - I hear you. But as I said - life happens. One day you will become a parent if you are lucky enough and/or have desire too and you will see very quickly how FALLIBLE you are. Now go ahead and tell your 11 year old that you NEVER smoked pot or had premarital sex. It might fly when they are 5 or even 11 but you know damned well that shit will not fly when they are 14 and above. So how do YOU handle it then?

Rememeber what I told you about our circumstances and character.

Ms Pregorae isn't the first woman who became pregnant out of wedlock and she certainly won't be the last. I have yet to hear her crow about how her current circumstance was her FIRST CHOICE.

How bout this - we all have life happen. What separates the wheat from the chaff is how we react in the course of those happenstances.

i agree and i'm not knocking single moms or out of wedlock sechs
and i'm gonna have a hard time about the pot thing with my kidddos, fug i'm a high-on
the whole christian morals and traditions i really don't care about, but if you are gonna preach it you should live it, or else change your morality and beliefs

 

[Bikini Mod]

i agree and i'm not knocking single moms or out of wedlock sechs
and i'm gonna have a hard time about the pot thing with my kidddos, fug i'm a high-on
the whole christian morals and traditions i really don't care about, but if you are gonna preach it you should live it, or else change your morality and beliefs

So then in keeping with your arguement what should a woman in Ms Pregorae's situation have done that would have been more in alignment with Southern morals?

 

[KillahBee]

BM, I'll say this, while your "life happens, we need to deal with it" is a great while to look at things, it doesn't take into consideration that a LOT of those "life" issues don't just "happen" - they are direct results of one's actions, mindset, and lack of both.

I know, responsibility sucks. So let's just blame some cosmic force called "life".

 

[Gambino]

So then in keeping with your arguement what should a woman in Ms Pregorae's situation have done that would have been more in alignment with Southern morals?

not had sexytime before marriage, in keeping with morals and tradition of southern conservatism

 

[needtogetaas]

BM, I'll say this, while your "life happens, we need to deal with it" is a great while to look at things, it doesn't take into consideration that a LOT of those "life" issues don't just "happen" - they are direct results of one's actions, mindset, and lack of both.

I know, responsibility sucks. So let's just blame some cosmic force called "life".

hmmm fuck this I am going to go get some free karma

 

[Bikini Mod]

BM, I'll say this, while your "life happens, we need to deal with it" is a great while to look at things, it doesn't take into consideration that a LOT of those "life" issues don't just "happen" - they are direct results of one's actions, mindset, and lack of both.

I know, responsibility sucks. So let's just blame some cosmic force called "life".

Darlin I am not removing personal responsibility from the equation AT ALL. What I am saying is to focus strictly on blaming the end result is not helpfull to anyone. Yes, precautions can be taken so as to avoid an unplanned and potentially unwanted pregnancy. What if the birth control failed? Then what? The only 100% reliable method of birthcontrol is abstinence. How many do you know live a chaste life but for marriage?

Come on.... get real.

And even if there was no birthcontrol used how is it helpfull to anyone in the circumstance at the moment to ride their ass and make them feel like they are somehow less than human?

EVERYBODY MAKES MISTAKES and EVERYBODY has shit happen to them that there is NO WAY they could have prevented but to have not gotten out of bed that day.

The only people that I know who never make mistakes are those that dont do a goddamned thing in life.

.... just sayin.

 

[KillahBee]

hmmm fuck this I am going to go get some free karma

lolololoooooll the simple things in life....

 

[Bikini Mod]

not had sexytime before marriage, in keeping with morals and tradition of southern conservatism

Now you are being silly.

That isn't Southern conservatism. That is RELIGION.

You should stop being so literal. It will make you a much better debater.

 

[Gambino]

Now you are being silly.

That isn't Southern conservatism. That is RELIGION.

You should stop being so literal. It will make you a much better debater.

don't think you can seperate southern conservatism from religion, the two go hand in hand