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why do people call it a breakup

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when really it is just an opportunity to build or form a different relationship with that person. so obviously you are not getting what you want/need or expect out of your current relationship so why not just try a different path instead of "break up" and deal with guilt, resentment, anger, betrayal, blah blah blah. it is just another experience. why lose someone you invited into your life, afterall you did so for a reason at one time.
 
Sometimes though you invited that person into your life for the wrong reason. Even if at the time it seemed right later on you need to break it off for your own good.

Cheers,
Scotsman
 
women are scandalous = and men like to punish them and the only way we know how is to take all that they want.. which is us...
 
ebonycurves said:
when really it is just an opportunity to build or form a different relationship with that person. so obviously you are not getting what you want/need or expect out of your current relationship so why not just try a different path instead of "break up" and deal with guilt, resentment, anger, betrayal, blah blah blah. it is just another experience. why lose someone you invited into your life, afterall you did so for a reason at one time.
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Because sometime's the other person is 'not' okay with breaking up, and staying friends with them is impossible. They'll always be tryinhg to get back together. Or perhaps you breakup with them cuz they're a jerk, or violent, or a creep.

and stop making oprah type threads! talk about boobs.

r
 
Smurfy said:
dont call it a comeback, i been here for years
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well, my point was that alot of people destroy what could be becuase of what was. what was will always be what was so why not just let it go and build on what is. it really is too bad how people hold on to resentment and anger and guilt and stuff when in the end it only hurts you. you are the one tormented with those feelings, not the person those feelings are the source of. so in truth you are really doing a favor to yourself in not casting them out of your life. think of it as therapy. as a time to help remember the good time, let the bad go and ultimately forgive them or yourself. when you forgive you can move on with your life....or you can hold on to the past and stay at that moment in your life. and unless one likes feeling like crap, i see no reason to feel like crap.
 
ebonycurves said:
well, my point was that alot of people destroy what could be becuase of what was. what was will always be what was so why not just let it go and build on what is.
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You talk like that again, and risk making my brain spontaneously imploding onto itself - you and I are having words.

r
 
Razorguns said:
Because sometime's the other person is 'not' okay with breaking up, and staying friends with them is impossible. They'll always be tryinhg to get back together. Or perhaps you breakup with them cuz they're a jerk, or violent, or a creep.

and stop making oprah type threads! talk about boobs.

r
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OMG lmao! Oprah is the awesomeness BTW. and to address your statement it could just be you own perspective of them at that exact moment and that is the only way you can see them.....at that moment when you are clouded negative emotions.

P.S i love my boobies. is that enough boob talk.
 
chris302001 said:
you sound like the person doing the breaking up, not being broken up with.
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you are right. i'm doing the "breaking up" right now. but i have also been the person being broken up with before. it does not make a difference. it is a matter of healing.
 
ebonycurves said:
when really it is just an opportunity to build or form a different relationship with that person. so obviously you are not getting what you want/need or expect out of your current relationship so why not just try a different path instead of "break up" and deal with guilt, resentment, anger, betrayal, blah blah blah. it is just another experience. why lose someone you invited into your life, afterall you did so for a reason at one time.
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Because it ain't fun being friends with most chicks. Once you remove the poon from the equation it's just a chore befriending the average wiminz.
 
ebonycurves said:
when really it is just an opportunity to build or form a different relationship with that person. so obviously you are not getting what you want/need or expect out of your current relationship so why not just try a different path instead of "break up" and deal with guilt, resentment, anger, betrayal, blah blah blah. it is just another experience. why lose someone you invited into your life, afterall you did so for a reason at one time.
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What sort of relationship do you supposed to build with someone that says, "drop dead you fucking loser ... the very sight on you makes my skin crawl" :confused:
 
javaguru said:
Because it ain't fun being friends with most chicks. Once you remove the poon from the equation it's just a chore befriending the average wiminz.
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something is only a chore if you see it as such. and you sir are incorrect. as an average woman, I'm extremely easy to befriend.

PICK3 said:
What sort of relationship do you supposed to build with someone that says, "drop dead you fucking loser ... the very sight on you makes my skin crawl" :confused:
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one that doesn't make them wish you dead and make their skin crawl. and you know or have an inclination of what prompted that statement, so now you know what not to do.:)
 
Razorguns said:
You talk like that again, and risk making my brain spontaneously imploding onto itself - you and I are having words.

r
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wha? just from those few flimsy words? now imagine a whole hour with me and my positiveness, and probably me smiling 80% of that time and laughing 90% of that 80%. i know the horror! now you can have a nightmare tonight.lol

good-nite all, my bed and fat pillows are calling my name.:yawn:
 
ebonycurves said:
something is only a chore if you see it as such. and you sir are incorrect. as an average woman, I'm extremely easy to befriend.



one that doesn't make them wish you dead and make their skin crawl. and you know or have an inclination of what prompted that statement, so now you know what not to do.:)
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If by befriend you mean being the first one she asks to help her move and listen to her go on and on about the asshole boyfriends you alerted her too...I e-love my female friends but I have to remind them I'm not the douche bag that puts up her shit hoping to hit it...
 
I would just call it Mitosis...
That wouldn't be weird no would it.
A sexual cell division...
LOL

Tatayana would be laughing...LOL
 
I don't get caught up with terms or labels. Call it what u want really.

Rock
Ca
ll it what u want really. I don't really get caught up with all these terms. I hate putting labels too- like dating or in a relationship that's crap now days.
 
I don't feel you on this one ebonycurves...I always feel best when I make a person I break up with dead to me from that moment on. It's just easier (for me) that way.
 
ebonycurves said:
when really it is just an opportunity to build or form a different relationship with that person. so obviously you are not getting what you want/need or expect out of your current relationship so why not just try a different path instead of "break up" and deal with guilt, resentment, anger, betrayal, blah blah blah. it is just another experience. why lose someone you invited into your life, afterall you did so for a reason at one time.
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what you say is ideal, however most relationships do not end "mutually" and people are too fucking retarded to recognize that ending a relationship with someone honestly would hurt them less, and on the other end of it, people are too retarded to accept that their s'o' has fallen out of love/lust with them
 
Relationship + Sex = Death of Friendship
Friendship + Sex = Happiness
 
i wonder how many of you altered a relationship this way. i accept the possibility of it working out or not. why leave myself only one option(just end everything). maybe you'll be surprised by the outcome, but you'll never know until you try.
 
ebonycurves said:
i wonder how many of you altered a relationship this way. i accept the possibility of it working out or not. why leave myself only one option(just end everything). maybe you'll be surprised by the outcome, but you'll never know until you try.
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I'm sorry............what did you say after boobies?
 
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