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today a friend called said her and her roomie were up to nothing tonight and they wanted me to come over,Im thinking cool,might get laid.

anyway I show up,only my friend no roomie,my friend says she told her roomie she wanted to spend the night alone with me,Im thinking cool as I was kinda into this girl, we grab some thai take out,and rent a movie,shes all cuddly and flirty, then some dude fucking calls,she is gone for like 15 mins on the phone while im chillin watching a movie,then she comes back and starts hinting about when Im gonna leave, now Im a nice guy but im not a fucking idiot,or maybe I am whatever I know the deal so I bounce, and quite frankly Im pissed about it. Im tired of being girls cuddle buddy and my kindness being taken advantage of,what the fuck is with girls these days? just a few weeks ago she was bitching how this guy never called her and she was done with him because he is a skeeze,then she pulls this after Im a gentleman and buy dinner and rent a movie.

fuck this,Im back to bachelorhood for good
 
Girls categorize guys into "buddies" and "dates". My advice would be arrogant (but funny arrogant, not dark arrogant) the next time you're around that girl.

The moment she hinted about you leaving, you probably should have said "good deal. I need to meet somebody at 11:15 anyway". If she asks further, just say you have a friend coming-off work about then and want to "just go hang out with her". Nobody hangs-out at 11:15... that's booty-call on a waitress all the way.
 
nycgirl said:
Don't blame the girl. Take a look in the mirror and point the finger at who is standing there.

Find yourself a girl that is totally unavailable. Someone that is not hanging on and going back and forth over a guy.
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i was lead to believe otherwise or id take the fall
 
nycgirl said:
Don't blame the girl. Take a look in the mirror and point the finger at who is standing there.

Find yourself a girl that is totally unavailable. Someone that is not hanging on and going back and forth over a guy.
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NYC is right. You should lust after her.
 
mrplunkey said:
Girls categorize guys into "buddies" and "dates". My advice would be arrogant (but funny arrogant, not dark arrogant) the next time you're around that girl.

The moment she hinted about you leaving, you probably should have said "good deal. I need to meet somebody at 11:15 anyway". If she asks further, just say you have a friend coming-off work about then and want to "just go hang out with her". Nobody hangs-out at 11:15... that's booty-call on a waitress all the way.
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smooth i like that
 
theoak01 said:
i was lead to believe otherwise or id take the fall
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I wouldn't pursue her anymore. Move on to something unavailable. And don't look back (i.e., don't give her another chance when she sees you have moved on and all of sudden the bf is gone again).

Plenty of females out there to drive you crazy. Don't waste your time on this one.
 
mrplunkey said:
Girls categorize guys into "buddies" and "dates". My advice would be arrogant (but funny arrogant, not dark arrogant) the next time you're around that girl.

The moment she hinted about you leaving, you probably should have said "good deal. I need to meet somebody at 11:15 anyway". If she asks further, just say you have a friend coming-off work about then and want to "just go hang out with her". Nobody hangs-out at 11:15... that's booty-call on a waitress all the way.
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exactly!


Oak, I would not be surprised if she used you as a bargaining chip. She wants to see the guy she likes that doesn't call her or see her enough. So, she calls up nice young oak for companionship. But, I bet she called the other guy, or left him a message that you were coming over...to get him to make a move.

Or, the guy who plunky described correctly is the arrogant/funny/wild guy called by coincidence.

Either way...Never see her again. She is not your friend. Don't give her the pleasure of letting her know you were upset. Just tell her you are busy when she wants you to fill her void next time
 
awittyusername said:
exactly!


Oak, I would not be surprised if she used you as a bargaining chip. She wants to see the guy she likes that doesn't call her or see her enough. So, she calls up nice young oak for companionship. But, I bet she called the other guy, or left him a message that you were coming over...to get him to make a move.

Or, the guy who plunky described correctly is the arrogant/funny/wild guy called by coincidence.

Either way...Never see her again. She is not your friend. Don't give her the pleasure of letting her know you were upset. Just tell her you are busy when she wants you to fill her void next time
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im betting thats the case,life goes on im not to worried about it i just prefer honesty,its how I am and dont think its to much to ask in return
 
monstermmf said:
Rule #1: Just say Fuck It man and move on, there's plenty of puss out there to last you the rest of your life. Who need's a long term relationship. Do em all!
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nah not my style dude nut thanks for the advice, im happy single its really not bad at all
 
theoak01 said:
im betting thats the case,life goes on im not to worried about it i just prefer honesty,its how I am and dont think its to much to ask in return
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Good Job!

You are an honest guy. Women are just different. I guarantee the girl could justify to herself what she did tonight was not wrong at all...then sleep like a baby. (after she bangs the guy she used the nice guy to get)
 
If a girl so much as answers the phone when I'm with her, I get up and walk out. I've done it more than once. I left a girl at the movies once....I figured whoever she was talking to could pick her up and give her a ride home.
 
jack_schitt said:
If a girl so much as answers the phone when I'm with her, I get up and walk out. I've done it more than once. I left a girl at the movies once....I figured whoever she was talking to could pick her up and give her a ride home.
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i like your style dude thats something id love to have the balls to do
 
jack_schitt said:
If a girl so much as answers the phone when I'm with her, I get up and walk out. I've done it more than once. I left a girl at the movies once....I figured whoever she was talking to could pick her up and give her a ride home.
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lol

I used to hate when chicks talk/flirt with other guys on the phone...or hang on other guys right in front of me to make me jealous...or ??

I used to wait and make sure they got home ok. :rainbow:

Now, I just roll

(I am not talking about a little flirting or joking around...Just the shit where they are doing it for a reason)
 
Don't play the nice guy. First date, grab the tits. If she's into you, she's yours.
 
awittyusername said:
lol

I used to hate when chicks talk/flirt with other guys on the phone...or hang on other guys right in front of me to make me jealous...or ??

I used to wait and make sure they got home ok. :rainbow:

Now, I just roll
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Exactly. Dressing up like a hussy and going out with her 'girlfriends' is another one. Dont get me wrong...nothing wrong with a night out with the girls, but I can tell when it's engineered to make me jealous, and I'm just not that type. I've been accused of not caring, and maybe thats true to an extent. But bullshit isn't my game, and thats HELLA true.

Go out dressed like a hooker if you want...then take a look behind you and behold the bridge engulfed in flames.

Take no shit.
 
Good luck, bro. I'm sure that a good women is out there. Too bad that you have to go through these bitches to get to her. Hopefully, you don't swear off women altogether.

But if you do, you can still get married.
 
EnderJE said:
Good luck, bro. I'm sure that a good women is out there. Too bad that you have to go through these bitches to get to her. Hopefully, you don't swear off women altogether.

But if you do, you can still get married.
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IM str8
 
theoak01 said:
today a friend called said her and her roomie were up to nothing tonight and they wanted me to come over,Im thinking cool,might get laid.

anyway I show up,only my friend no roomie,my friend says she told her roomie she wanted to spend the night alone with me,Im thinking cool as I was kinda into this girl, we grab some thai take out,and rent a movie,shes all cuddly and flirty, then some dude fucking calls,she is gone for like 15 mins on the phone while im chillin watching a movie,then she comes back and starts hinting about when Im gonna leave, now Im a nice guy but im not a fucking idiot,or maybe I am whatever I know the deal so I bounce, and quite frankly Im pissed about it. Im tired of being girls cuddle buddy and my kindness being taken advantage of,what the fuck is with girls these days? just a few weeks ago she was bitching how this guy never called her and she was done with him because he is a skeeze,then she pulls this after Im a gentleman and buy dinner and rent a movie.

fuck this,Im back to bachelorhood for good
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You already lost your chance with this one. After the phone call when she started hinting about you leaving, and you knew what was up, did you confront her on it or did you just say OK cya buh-bye?

Call her on the disrespect, and 9 out of 10 times it will impress the shit out of her, at the minimum it will get her thinking about you long after you are gone. Let her walk over and use you like that to get to another guy, well then you are just a tool for her to use.

Do you want to be someone special or just a tool? :D
 
biteme said:
Don't play the nice guy. First date, grab the tits. If she's into you, she's yours.
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I went out with this girl Sunday.
I played the funny/cocky guy.
I told her on the phone that she was going to come over and blow me this weekend.
She said she is coming over Thursday.

:)
 
Oak, you are officially the only member of the SWV left.
Enjoy Captain.
 
You'll have that.

Next time slip her a roofie

Whiskey
 
theoak01 said:
today a friend called said her and her roomie were up to nothing tonight and they wanted me to come over,Im thinking cool,might get laid.

anyway I show up,only my friend no roomie,my friend says she told her roomie she wanted to spend the night alone with me,Im thinking cool as I was kinda into this girl, we grab some thai take out,and rent a movie,shes all cuddly and flirty, then some dude fucking calls,she is gone for like 15 mins on the phone while im chillin watching a movie,then she comes back and starts hinting about when Im gonna leave, now Im a nice guy but im not a fucking idiot,or maybe I am whatever I know the deal so I bounce, and quite frankly Im pissed about it. Im tired of being girls cuddle buddy and my kindness being taken advantage of,what the fuck is with girls these days? just a few weeks ago she was bitching how this guy never called her and she was done with him because he is a skeeze,then she pulls this after Im a gentleman and buy dinner and rent a movie.

fuck this,Im back to bachelorhood for good
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Nobody's fault but your own. Learn to read women, speak your mind, don't take any shit. Your only the 'cuddly' guy because you let yourself be, if you want to be happy like that then fair enough, but it's obvious that you're pretty pissed about this, so live and learn.
 
damn oak, i hate to be blunt but here it 'tis.
your skin needs to be thicker, you are letting some dumb slute dictate your feelings. and frankly that just ain't manly whatsoever. r
 
theoak01 said:
i think I am to nice bro,things are going to change
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It'll make life a lot more fun trust me....and it's not about being nice or not being nice, it's just learning to do back to a girl what they do to you.

Go and read those internet 'how to be a jerk to women' e-books. If you're intelligent you'll realise that it's not being a 'jerk' and it's about picking out the good information in them that allows you to have control over the girls. That way you can fuck the bitchy ones (much more fun!) and when you find a nice one who isn't a bitch then you can be happy with her and keep things going well by knowing how to bring control to the relationship.
 
Forge said:
Call her on the disrespect, and 9 out of 10 times it will impress the shit out of her, at the minimum it will get her thinking about you long after you are gone. Let her walk over and use you like that to get to another guy, well then you are just a tool for her to use.
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100% correct, always call them on the disrespect. This stuff infuriates me lol.
 
theoak01 said:
i think I am to nice bro,things are going to change
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You've been saying that forever.

Don't worry one day you will snap for good. Then like magic you will be a total jerk.

It happened to me thru numerous attempts to be nice, only to get shit on by a female. The 25 yr old virgin who thought she was too good was the last straw for me.

Now I get called an asshole by girls, esp ones I don't know well.
....and it makes me smile. :) because they don't leave me alone despite their words.
 
theoak01 said:
today a friend called said her and her roomie were up to nothing tonight and they wanted me to come over,Im thinking cool,might get laid.

anyway I show up,only my friend no roomie,my friend says she told her roomie she wanted to spend the night alone with me,Im thinking cool as I was kinda into this girl, we grab some thai take out,and rent a movie,shes all cuddly and flirty, then some dude fucking calls,she is gone for like 15 mins on the phone while im chillin watching a movie,then she comes back and starts hinting about when Im gonna leave, now Im a nice guy but im not a fucking idiot,or maybe I am whatever I know the deal so I bounce, and quite frankly Im pissed about it. Im tired of being girls cuddle buddy and my kindness being taken advantage of,what the fuck is with girls these days? just a few weeks ago she was bitching how this guy never called her and she was done with him because he is a skeeze,then she pulls this after Im a gentleman and buy dinner and rent a movie.

fuck this,Im back to bachelorhood for good
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chicks like a dick

meant in multiple ways
 
theoak01 said:
today a friend called said her and her roomie were up to nothing tonight and they wanted me to come over,Im thinking cool,might get laid.

anyway I show up,only my friend no roomie,my friend says she told her roomie she wanted to spend the night alone with me,Im thinking cool as I was kinda into this girl, we grab some thai take out,and rent a movie,shes all cuddly and flirty, then some dude fucking calls,she is gone for like 15 mins on the phone while im chillin watching a movie,then she comes back and starts hinting about when Im gonna leave, now Im a nice guy but im not a fucking idiot,or maybe I am whatever I know the deal so I bounce, and quite frankly Im pissed about it. Im tired of being girls cuddle buddy and my kindness being taken advantage of,what the fuck is with girls these days? just a few weeks ago she was bitching how this guy never called her and she was done with him because he is a skeeze,then she pulls this after Im a gentleman and buy dinner and rent a movie.

fuck this,Im back to bachelorhood for good
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You need some balls man, balls.
 
deco said:
You need some balls man, balls.
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Tommy2tone has a pair he can give Oak




....if he will spit them out of his mouth that is.
 
when she was on the phone you should have walked up and said loudly

BABY ARE YOU READY TO FUCK?????????

and if she got pissed off.... just walk out, otherwise ur tappin booty and she learned a lesson about answering the phone and talking forever on it with you there.

had a girl once answer her cell during sex, she leaned over the bed to get her phone well i don't have that so i banged her real hard doggy style when she went for the phone... she luved it but i think the other person only heard oooooo ooooooo ooooh god... and i hope it was her bf on the other end :p
 
theoak01 said:
today a friend called said her and her roomie were up to nothing tonight and they wanted me to come over,Im thinking cool,might get laid.

anyway I show up,only my friend no roomie,my friend says she told her roomie she wanted to spend the night alone with me,Im thinking cool as I was kinda into this girl, we grab some thai take out,and rent a movie,shes all cuddly and flirty, then some dude fucking calls,she is gone for like 15 mins on the phone while im chillin watching a movie,then she comes back and starts hinting about when Im gonna leave, now Im a nice guy but im not a fucking idiot,or maybe I am whatever I know the deal so I bounce, and quite frankly Im pissed about it. Im tired of being girls cuddle buddy and my kindness being taken advantage of,what the fuck is with girls these days? just a few weeks ago she was bitching how this guy never called her and she was done with him because he is a skeeze,then she pulls this after Im a gentleman and buy dinner and rent a movie.

fuck this,Im back to bachelorhood for good
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GOD girls are stupid....
:rolleyes:

NYCGirl is right though - if someone isn't completely absolutely available it is best not to give them the time of day if it is beyond basic friendship.
 
jack_schitt said:
If a girl so much as answers the phone when I'm with her, I get up and walk out. I've done it more than once. I left a girl at the movies once....I figured whoever she was talking to could pick her up and give her a ride home.
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I would do the same thing - it's totally disrepectful.
 
ya it seems I sunk my own ship here,meh life goes on,I can still get fucks whenever I want thats no issues,im just relationship impaired lol
 
You can use some of these methods.

In the car: turn up the music all the way up.
In the movie: say you're gettin some coke, don't come back
During dinner: Leave, let her pay
During sex: even if you're a slouch, try to fuck her as hard as you can and call her either a slut, whore, or the combination of two. You can also use phrases like I'm about to cum on your face, How do you like that dick up your ass. Now if she made your night a misery you can always stick it in the backdoor for ultimate revenge.
 
dude,... i gotta give ya some tips... first of all... cut the nice guy bullshit... compeltely!!...but not 100%, keep a little of it, and know when to use it...

in that situation... u shoulda moved faster and prolly eliminated the possibility of u getting jacked...
or... seeing as u knew what was to come...prolong it... play stupid.. and remain cuddly...bla bla bla whatever... basically stiff her back u'll feel better after lol
 
GrandMaster said:
dude,... i gotta give ya some tips... first of all... cut the nice guy bullshit... compeltely!!...but not 100%, keep a little of it, and know when to use it...

in that situation... u shoulda moved faster and prolly eliminated the possibility of u getting jacked...
or... seeing as u knew what was to come...prolong it... play stupid.. and remain cuddly...bla bla bla whatever... basically stiff her back u'll feel better after lol
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i like your advice dude and you do well with the women,so Ill give this a go.

as for girl in question Im not even pissed at her as much as I now am at me for constantly letting this happen
 
You should call her up and ask for her rommie's number ;)
 
GrandMaster said:
dude,... i gotta give ya some tips... first of all... cut the nice guy bullshit... compeltely!!...but not 100%, keep a little of it, and know when to use it...

in that situation... u shoulda moved faster and prolly eliminated the possibility of u getting jacked...
or... seeing as u knew what was to come...prolong it... play stupid.. and remain cuddly...bla bla bla whatever... basically stiff her back u'll feel better after lol
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push the limits oak if u don't know how she'll act try it... come on firm, not strong, or too friendly... let he know you want to be more than a teddy bear
 
Looks like he didn't call before hand so she thought she was gonna be dateless and then he did call and she wanted ya out of there.....SO I think Erzulie is right call her and tell her that you are really interested in her friend and was looking to forward to seeing her but only she came....and ask for her number...that should burst her bubble
 
I agree with Erzulie and Gymgirl



but only because I'm trying to get in their pants.
 
I say don't bother, find a chick that's way hotter then her and walk by her. That will show that you don't bullshit around or waste time.
 
deco said:
I say don't bother, find a chick that's way hotter then her and walk by her. That will show that you don't bullshit around or waste time.
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You are assuming here.

Oak may have about as much game as an upside down monopoly board.
 
alien amp pharm said:
You are assuming here.

Oak may have about as much game as an upside down monopoly board.
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funny thing with me is it goes in phases my ass will be single for a long time,but the girls I date are always much better looking then me
 
shoulda left opened condom wrappers outside, and a condom with spit in it hanging on the door handle, she wouldnt have seen it and the other guy would havge when knocking on the door. should scare off the other guy, unless he dont mind seconds.

OR

Do the same to her. Invite her over, then get a call and make her piss off. Knowing she isnt #1 should get her on her knees to pleasure you.
 
Saintinistic said:
shoulda left opened condom wrappers outside, and a condom with spit in it hanging on the door handle, she wouldnt have seen it and the other guy would havge when knocking on the door. should scare off the other guy, unless he dont mind seconds.

OR

Do the same to her. Invite her over, then get a call and make her piss off. Knowing she isnt #1 should get her on her knees to pleasure you.
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and then let the other girl in during the middle of it
 
alien amp pharm said:
I agree with Erzulie and Gymgirl



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I thought you quit wearing womens clothing?
 
honestly the best thing to do is ignore the biatch completely. She'll be calling you again, trust me. And when she does just don't answer, she'll get so damn frustrated because she expects for you to be at her beckn'call. You take the most beautiful chick, hottest damn thing ever and put her in a room full of men... you wanna crush her ego? Have not a damn one of them notice her... not even the geeks. That will bring her down a level or two.

Don't give her the time of day, if you run into her don't even make eye contact with her. Just keep on walking like she doesn't even exist.. like she's some nobody. You will have her mind fucked and wondering what is so wrong with her that you aren't falling at her feet and running when she calls.
 
you said to yourself "cool, I might get laid"

is this the way you would approach a job interview? Like, hm, they might like me, i'll let them do all the work and if they don't like me then I have the worst luck ever, and i can't believe they hired that other guy.

No, you'd find out more about the company, look your best, and 'flirt' with the interviewee...not flirt in that sence, but i mean, a little bit of sucking up, you know, whatever you can do impress the interviewee.

Maybe you are taking this girl too lightly.... like, if you really liked her, you would have made more of an effort to be more intimate with her (or sexual). I don't know how you acted, because you didn't describe it...all you said was how she was acting "cuddling and flirty", but how were you acting?

So maybe you don't like her very much anyway, you think of her as so-so, in which case...why does it matter?!?

you've got to tell a girl how you feel, she can't read your mind.

If youve given this girl all your effort then I take this back.
 
Erzulie said:
honestly the best thing to do is ignore the biatch completely. She'll be calling you again, trust me. And when she does just don't answer, she'll get so damn frustrated because she expects for you to be at her beckn'call. You take the most beautiful chick, hottest damn thing ever and put her in a room full of men... you wanna crush her ego? Have not a damn one of them notice her... not even the geeks. That will bring her down a level or two.

Don't give her the time of day, if you run into her don't even make eye contact with her. Just keep on walking like she doesn't even exist.. like she's some nobody. You will have her mind fucked and wondering what is so wrong with her that you aren't falling at her feet and running when she calls.
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lol thats what i did to an ex of mine. i was at a restaurant and she was there with her new bf. she was eyeballing me and wanted me to say hi. i just drank a beer ate some food. about 15 mins into the meal she walked out with the new guy shortly behind, their meal wasn't finished. she went outside and he had to ask for the bill and boxes. the girl had to be crying.
 
rocky_road said:
you said to yourself "cool, I might get laid"

is this the way you would approach a job interview? Like, hm, they might like me, i'll let them do all the work and if they don't like me then I have the worst luck ever, and i can't believe they hired that other guy.

No, you'd find out more about the company, look your best, and 'flirt' with the interviewee...not flirt in that sence, but i mean, a little bit of sucking up, you know, whatever you can do impress the interviewee.

Maybe you are taking this girl too lightly.... like, if you really liked her, you would have made more of an effort to be more intimate with her (or sexual). I don't know how you acted, because you didn't describe it...all you said was how she was acting "cuddling and flirty", but how were you acting?

So maybe you don't like her very much anyway, you think of her as so-so, in which case...why does it matter?!?

you've got to tell a girl how you feel, she can't read your mind.

If youve given this girl all your effort then I take this back.
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:lmao: at ^^^

Aren't you like 16 years old?
 
tommy2tone said:
lol thats what i did to an ex of mine. i was at a restaurant and she was there with her new bf. she was eyeballing me and wanted me to say hi. i just drank a beer ate some food. about 15 mins into the meal she walked out with the new guy shortly behind, their meal wasn't finished. she went outside and he had to ask for the bill and boxes. the girl had to be crying.
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lol

some women think the world revolves around them
 
EnderJE said:
AAP, you should ask Frisky out so I can call you Stick2.
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Im too old and wise for aap, besides... I'm not good at lying to make the poor fella feel good.
 
Erzulie said:
Im too old and wise for aap, besides... I'm not good at lying to make the poor fella feel good.
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Good point.

I need them real young and gullible.
 
rocky_road said:
you said to yourself "cool, I might get laid"

is this the way you would approach a job interview? Like, hm, they might like me, i'll let them do all the work and if they don't like me then I have the worst luck ever, and i can't believe they hired that other guy.

No, you'd find out more about the company, look your best, and 'flirt' with the interviewee...not flirt in that sence, but i mean, a little bit of sucking up, you know, whatever you can do impress the interviewee.

Maybe you are taking this girl too lightly.... like, if you really liked her, you would have made more of an effort to be more intimate with her (or sexual). I don't know how you acted, because you didn't describe it...all you said was how she was acting "cuddling and flirty", but how were you acting?

So maybe you don't like her very much anyway, you think of her as so-so, in which case...why does it matter?!?

you've got to tell a girl how you feel, she can't read your mind.

If youve given this girl all your effort then I take this back.
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thanks for the response, I think I acted flirty,but hell its been so long since I had to try and impress a girl that I think I forgot lol,I dated my ex for 3.5yrs and havented dated since I broke it off, this girl def knew I was into her,I made it clear recently,so I dunno what the deal is.

Im thinking my lack of confidence going into these settings with girls fucks me, with a job I know the shit and can walk into any interview for my field and nail the job hands down,and I know it, as for women,pfft Im like stevie wonder judging a beauty contest,I dont know what the fuck is going on.

I was just out running errands and the girl who took my passport photos was hitting on my large,im an idiot and I recognized it,yet I didnt ask her out for coffee or whatever,I smiled said have a nice day and split like a pussy,and she was fucking gorgeous. I need to MAN the fuck up
 
theoak01 said:
I need to MAN the fuck up
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Oh, don't be so hard on yourself.

Preety woman are all around, they are for you to ENJOY--not stress over!

You seem to be well on your feet and therefore you know how well you can get along without a girl. Realizing that you don't need one is important, because you can be more relaxed about dating.

However, if finding a girl is important to you at all you need to make an effort. Don't be scared--that's pointless--just set goals for yourself on how to "dick up" (opposite of "pussy up"?) Flirt with that waitress, make yourself do it! Soon your actions will make your conscience realize that this IS important to you, and before you know it you'll have a handful of women you're chasing--with confidence!

I know I sound like a self help book or something :-)

You're such an awesome person, give lucky girls to have that chance to not only know you but be CHASED by you, ... tip: only fall for the ones who chase back! lol, if only that could be helped.

good luck!
<3 Jessica
 
rocky_road said:
Oh, don't be so hard on yourself.

Preety woman are all around, they are for you to ENJOY--not stress over!

You seem to be well on your feet and therefore you know how well you can get along without a girl. Realizing that you don't need one is important, because you can be more relaxed about dating.

However, if finding a girl is important to you at all you need to make an effort. Don't be scared--that's pointless--just set goals for yourself on how to "dick up" (opposite of "pussy up"?) Flirt with that waitress, make yourself do it! Soon your actions will make your conscience realize that this IS important to you, and before you know it you'll have a handful of women you're chasing--with confidence!

I know I sound like a self help book or something :-)

You're such an awesome person, give lucky girls to have that chance to not only know you but be CHASED by you, ... tip: only fall for the ones who chase back! lol, if only that could be helped.

good luck!
<3 Jessica
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Holy Crap. You could give Paris Hilton a run for her money.
 
Lestat said:
jessica is always so sweet (and wise
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hey!!!

You called me by my real name!!!!

:-D You're the first person to do that, I think, I like it when people say it online.. Yay!

And about being sweet and wise and beautiful, amazing, hilarious, fascinating, cunning...


Thanks!

jk <3 (hey, that's my initials)
 
rocky_road said:
hey!!!

You called me by my real name!!!!

:-D You're the first person to do that, I think, I like it.. Yay!

And about being sweet and wise and beautiful, amazing, hilarious, marvelous, cunning...


Thanks!

jk <3
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you're welcome.. anytime.


I have this friend you'd be perfect for come August.. you may have seen him around, his name is Samote.
 
rocky_road said:
Oh, don't be so hard on yourself.

Preety woman are all around, they are for you to ENJOY--not stress over!

You seem to be well on your feet and therefore you know how well you can get along without a girl. Realizing that you don't need one is important, because you can be more relaxed about dating.

However, if finding a girl is important to you at all you need to make an effort. Don't be scared--that's pointless--just set goals for yourself on how to "dick up" (opposite of "pussy up"?) Flirt with that waitress, make yourself do it! Soon your actions will make your conscience realize that this IS important to you, and before you know it you'll have a handful of women you're chasing--with confidence!

I know I sound like a self help book or something :-)

You're such an awesome person, give lucky girls to have that chance to not only know you but be CHASED by you, ... tip: only fall for the ones who chase back! lol, if only that could be helped.

good luck!
<3 Jessica
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im takin your advice,your a girl in my age group,kinda im 21 so Ill listen to you.

thanks for the advices,I think I knew it all,I just need a kick in the ass every now and then
 
Lestat said:
you're welcome.. anytime.


I have this friend you'd be perfect for come August.. you may have seen him around, his name is Samote.
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Haha, awesome, Ohhhhhh trust me....we've met ;-)

----j
 
rocky_road said:
Haha, awesome, Ohhhhhh trust me....we've met ;-)

----j
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yeah I bet you have!!!!

fuckin samote, i KNEW he was all over that shit!!!
 
Guys, their is a lot of post whoaring on this forum. I'd really appreciate it if you stopped (and talked to me).

Sincerely,
R_R

.......


Signed,
<3 Jessica
 
rocky_road said:
Guys, their is a lot of post whoaring on this forum. I'd really appreciate it if you stopped (and talked to me).

Sincerely,
R_R

.......


Signed,
<3 Jessica
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I can't believe you have almost as much karma as I do after only 200 posts.

I want some tits.
 
strangebrew said:
I can't believe you have almost as much karma as I do after only 200 posts.

I want some tits.
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you can buy them bro, wish I could help ya out but I only have a dick for sale
 
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