why do I even bother?

[EnderJE]

AAP, you should ask Frisky out so I can call you Stick2.

 

[Frisky]

AAP, you should ask Frisky out so I can call you Stick2.

Im too old and wise for aap, besides... I'm not good at lying to make the poor fella feel good.

 

[EnderJE]

Im too old and wise for aap, besides... I'm not good at lying to make the poor fella feel good.

You forgot wrinkled and saggy.

 

[alien amp pharm]

Im too old and wise for aap, besides... I'm not good at lying to make the poor fella feel good.

Good point.

I need them real young and gullible.

 

[Frisky]

Good point.

I need them real young and gullible.

I'm not either one of those.

I'd be more like your mother.

 

[EnderJE]

Good point.

I need them real young and gullible.

What about old and gullible?

 

[Frisky]

What about old and gullible?

I don't think he's geigh Ender, so you should just quit trying to get the lad to ask you out.

 

[EnderJE]

I don't think he's geigh Ender, so you should just quit trying to get the lad to ask you out.

lmao...touche...

<fucking bitch!>

 

[theoak01]

you said to yourself "cool, I might get laid"

is this the way you would approach a job interview? Like, hm, they might like me, i'll let them do all the work and if they don't like me then I have the worst luck ever, and i can't believe they hired that other guy.

No, you'd find out more about the company, look your best, and 'flirt' with the interviewee...not flirt in that sence, but i mean, a little bit of sucking up, you know, whatever you can do impress the interviewee.

Maybe you are taking this girl too lightly.... like, if you really liked her, you would have made more of an effort to be more intimate with her (or sexual). I don't know how you acted, because you didn't describe it...all you said was how she was acting "cuddling and flirty", but how were you acting?

So maybe you don't like her very much anyway, you think of her as so-so, in which case...why does it matter?!?

you've got to tell a girl how you feel, she can't read your mind.

If youve given this girl all your effort then I take this back.

thanks for the response, I think I acted flirty,but hell its been so long since I had to try and impress a girl that I think I forgot lol,I dated my ex for 3.5yrs and havented dated since I broke it off, this girl def knew I was into her,I made it clear recently,so I dunno what the deal is.

Im thinking my lack of confidence going into these settings with girls fucks me, with a job I know the shit and can walk into any interview for my field and nail the job hands down,and I know it, as for women,pfft Im like stevie wonder judging a beauty contest,I dont know what the fuck is going on.

I was just out running errands and the girl who took my passport photos was hitting on my large,im an idiot and I recognized it,yet I didnt ask her out for coffee or whatever,I smiled said have a nice day and split like a pussy,and she was fucking gorgeous. I need to MAN the fuck up

 

[rocky_road]

I need to MAN the fuck up

Oh, don't be so hard on yourself.

Preety woman are all around, they are for you to ENJOY--not stress over!

You seem to be well on your feet and therefore you know how well you can get along without a girl. Realizing that you don't need one is important, because you can be more relaxed about dating.

However, if finding a girl is important to you at all you need to make an effort. Don't be scared--that's pointless--just set goals for yourself on how to "dick up" (opposite of "pussy up"?) Flirt with that waitress, make yourself do it! Soon your actions will make your conscience realize that this IS important to you, and before you know it you'll have a handful of women you're chasing--with confidence!

I know I sound like a self help book or something

You're such an awesome person, give lucky girls to have that chance to not only know you but be CHASED by you, ... tip: only fall for the ones who chase back! lol, if only that could be helped.

good luck!
<3 Jessica