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Why do guys....

Its simple. they get like 10 numbers and each of them has to stay an option. so of course they have to tell each one they will call to make each think they are his choice.
 
Maybe has a girlfriend. Or waiting a few days first. Maybe he lost ur #. Odr doesn't think you were really interested in him. How long ago did he say he'd call?
 
Because talking sucks.

A little less talk and a lot more action
 
He is an ex bf actually I expected this bs from him. He is playing games. It has not been that long just gave a specife time etc.

Whatever I give up on men...
 
Well to be honest with you girls do the same thing. I've done it to girls and they've done it to me, tit for tat, you don't hear me whining do you? Now get over here so I can bury my face in your boobs.
 
I know how the ex game works. He's probably just trying to keep you in check. Make sure he's still got it/ya. Keep you in his stabe, if you will. Shitty thing to do, but I too have been guilty of this.
 
Yeah I was playing some games when I was out with him on Saturday night teasing the shit out of him:D Maybe dats why...
 
Just leave him a note in his locker and and tell all the other girls in the caf that he has a small pee pee.
 
Has it been 3 days? Ya gotta rent Swingers.
(I lost the number)
 
CipherLock :p not in High School all though this game crap probably does seem like it.

DT seen Swingers I don't think that rule applies with exs.
 
CipherLock :lmao:

Yeah I just have this theory that if someone is your ex and you end on so so terms you should respect each other enough to be honest with one another.
 
a) He's gotta let you know that you wanna hit it more than he does
or
b) he got drunk and forget
or
c) he got a better offer

I'm going with A cuz B is lame and C isn't possible.
 
I think it is A....

I do agree with Hardrock about the keeping me on the line thing. This is not the first time he and I have played this game with one another.
 
dayna4u2nv said:
Why do guys say they will call and then don't?

Because its just a phone call, we use the phone thousands of time every month, its not that big a deal. Its like saying, "see you later", its just a possibility, not a contract. I always tell my friends "yeah, Ill call you later" or "I gotta go, Ill call you back tomorrow" or whatever but no one even notices if we dont. Why do women sit by the phone waiting for it to ring, and then blame men for it?
 
Dude I wasn't waiting for him to call I was waiting for him not to call... Which he did in perfect form.
Guys don't care about guys calling them cause most of you hate the phone. If he would have said I will talk to you later rather then I will call you Sunday night. I would not be bitch about it.
 
dayna4u2nv said:
I just have this theory that if someone is your ex and you end on so so terms you should respect each other enough and BLAH BLAH BLAH....

I always had this theory that ex's are ex's for a reason, and not to waste any of the limited minutes in my life on them.... except/expecially if they were giving out free sex, (which is always a judgement call), and make sure to make it clear that I had no obligation to them (as they are an ex for a reason), and would waste no time thinking about them later...

I suggest adopting a similar approach...
 
I was usually the dumpee so I was always up for some reunion sex.
 
dayna4u2nv said:
Becoming good theory hard practice at times.

you got to have will power... and BTW nailing the ex's was the exception rather than the rule.... if you can follow to the tee, you always own the ex's, rather than the other way around (cause you don't care)
 
DT I never had sex with this guy I was a lot younger when we went out my waiting period for sex was a lot longer back then. This is the second time we have hooked up in the past 4 years just fool around a bit.
 
Oh, I thought this was the quickie guy you've mentioned recently.
 
I'm not a man but I will tell you that some people just do phone badly. (I should know I'm one of them.)

That said - when a guy is totally into you he'll be calling you before you expect it. If he wants to be with you he'll let you know crystal clear - it's when they're all wishy washy that they're either not interested or balancing a few women at a time.
 
Guys that say they will call when they know they wont call, are usually trying to find something "nice" to say before the "scram". Better you find out early on instead of 6 months later...
 
velvett said:
I'm not a man but I will tell you that some people just do phone badly. (I should know I'm one of them.)


Same here. I rock at phonesex but I'm terrible at chit chat.
 
velvett said:
I'm not a man but I will tell you that some people just do phone badly. (I should know I'm one of them.)

That said - when a guy is totally into you he'll be calling you before you expect it. If he wants to be with you he'll let you know crystal clear - it's when they're all wishy washy that they're either not interested or balancing a few women at a time.

Wisdom
 
Velvett is a smart lady.

If I like a girl, I'll actually have to remind myself _not_ to call too often (or before she expects me to). But you can bet your ass I will be making that phone call.

I'm also guilty of saying I'll call and not doing so, although it's been a while. I'm working on it though...
 
Re: ............

Milo Hobgoblin said:
with tits like that any guy who wouldnt call you is either gay or retarded.

truest statement yet- have you not yet considered the dude is just a loser?

my wife has a sister who is late teens/early twenties... has this guy that does not call her, asks her to meet him out, etc... it is like- "yo that dude is a loser".... chicks are dumb....
 
dayna4u2nv said:
DT I never had sex with this guy I was a lot younger when we went out my waiting period for sex was a lot longer back then. This is the second time we have hooked up in the past 4 years just fool around a bit.

Sounds like its time for you to move on...permanently (no further contact). Plenty of fish out there for a nice-boobied Canadian like yourself.
 
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