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jennifer BFL chick
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vinylgroover said:
Each guy become my "ex" for a different reason.........all the assholes are gone as well as the nice guys that I dated
I wasn't in love with any of them and thats the main reason
why do dudes think insulting chicks is going to turn them on?
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Each guy become my "ex" for a different reason.........all the assholes are gone as well as the nice guys that I dated
I wasn't in love with any of them and thats the main reason
naturally anabolic
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jennifer said:
the best reason of all.
can't make yourself love someone if its just not there.
vinylgroover
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Jen,
Sorry, i meant it as a rhetorical question, i wasn't looking for an answer because it's none of my business.
But do you agree with the rest of my argument? I have not gone out with a girl yet who hasn't looked for attention through conflict and drama, which is why they are attracted to assholes in the first place.
Sorry, i meant it as a rhetorical question, i wasn't looking for an answer because it's none of my business.
But do you agree with the rest of my argument? I have not gone out with a girl yet who hasn't looked for attention through conflict and drama, which is why they are attracted to assholes in the first place.
rippedtrojan
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naturally anabolic said:
i wanna read it. be interesting to see how you pass it off.
smallmovesal
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i caught your comment pigginsly
natty i'd love to read your paper! how are ya feeling?
natty i'd love to read your paper! how are ya feeling?
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KAYNE
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SMALLS
YOUR SO IGNORANT. WHAT ARE YOU DOING WITH THOSE THREE BRAIN CELLS YOU HAVE UP THERE???
BTW....CHECK YOUR PM
KAYNE
YOUR SO IGNORANT. WHAT ARE YOU DOING WITH THOSE THREE BRAIN CELLS YOU HAVE UP THERE???
BTW....CHECK YOUR PM
KAYNE
smallmovesal
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assclown!
you're dreamy... let's get to know one another better.......... thanks for the pm baby
you're dreamy... let's get to know one another better.......... thanks for the pm baby
Oke first:
O shit that is funny. Never heard that expression before! Smalls your hilarious.
Sexy back too! Meeouw. 
I think i may have a different view point of this then other women who have posted.
There IS some truth in what the men are saying. I have seen that straight women sometimes do seem to go with men who treat them badly. But i think it is a matter of poor self esteem in these woman who do this. They feel they should have no better treatment then this.
However, women with better feelings about themselves will soon tell you how you can bloody well fuck off if you treat them "like shit". I think we see a lot of couples where the women get treated badly and stay because the men and women who want this sort of relationship look for each other.
This same sort of thing happens with lesbians too. Not so much as with hetero couples but it does happen.
O shit that is funny. Never heard that expression before! Smalls your hilarious.
Sexy back too! Meeouw. I think i may have a different view point of this then other women who have posted.
There IS some truth in what the men are saying. I have seen that straight women sometimes do seem to go with men who treat them badly. But i think it is a matter of poor self esteem in these woman who do this. They feel they should have no better treatment then this.
However, women with better feelings about themselves will soon tell you how you can bloody well fuck off if you treat them "like shit". I think we see a lot of couples where the women get treated badly and stay because the men and women who want this sort of relationship look for each other.
This same sort of thing happens with lesbians too. Not so much as with hetero couples but it does happen.
circusgirl
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I dated assholes for years before I met my husband. He is everything they were not (nice, caring, kind, considerate, as well as being MAJORLY hot ). There were various reasons I dated assholes.
Firstly, for reasons I don't want to go into involving family situation and the way others (won't say "friends") treated me all ym life it never occurred to me that being trated like shit was in any way abnormal. I had never had anyone in my life - family, acquaintances, classmates - other than my gran - who did NOT treat me like absolute shit most of the time. I thought being manipulated, emotionally abused, screamed at, and expected to spend all my time ministering to other people (because they mattered and I did not) was normal and that I was a bad person. Heck, everyone kept telling me I was, that was all I heard until I was around 15.
So when assholes treated me like shit, I didn't realise that I shouldn't have to put up with this kind of thing. I had the lowest self esteem you could imagine and didn't realise I was reasonably hot and could date lots of guys if I wanted. I felt that if someone was interested, I had to go out with them, and do everything they said, and if I didn't like that, I was a bad person.
Eventually I had a nervous breakdown and ended up in hospital due to one asshole I was dating being such an utter dickhead to me and constantly getting into arguments with me and putting me down because he didn't like what I had said/done/tone of voice/something I was wearing/I disagreed with him etc etc around 10 times a day. And I started to recover some self-esteem, or develop some, I ditched the guy and vowed I would NEVER date another asshole.
And I never did. Bottom line, a lot of women learn at home from their familes that they aren't worth shit, so they take all the crap that is dished out. There are plenty of nice guys going out with absolute bitches as well, works both ways.
circusgirl
). There were various reasons I dated assholes.Firstly, for reasons I don't want to go into involving family situation and the way others (won't say "friends") treated me all ym life it never occurred to me that being trated like shit was in any way abnormal. I had never had anyone in my life - family, acquaintances, classmates - other than my gran - who did NOT treat me like absolute shit most of the time. I thought being manipulated, emotionally abused, screamed at, and expected to spend all my time ministering to other people (because they mattered and I did not) was normal and that I was a bad person. Heck, everyone kept telling me I was, that was all I heard until I was around 15.
So when assholes treated me like shit, I didn't realise that I shouldn't have to put up with this kind of thing. I had the lowest self esteem you could imagine and didn't realise I was reasonably hot and could date lots of guys if I wanted. I felt that if someone was interested, I had to go out with them, and do everything they said, and if I didn't like that, I was a bad person.
Eventually I had a nervous breakdown and ended up in hospital due to one asshole I was dating being such an utter dickhead to me and constantly getting into arguments with me and putting me down because he didn't like what I had said/done/tone of voice/something I was wearing/I disagreed with him etc etc around 10 times a day. And I started to recover some self-esteem, or develop some, I ditched the guy and vowed I would NEVER date another asshole.
And I never did. Bottom line, a lot of women learn at home from their familes that they aren't worth shit, so they take all the crap that is dished out. There are plenty of nice guys going out with absolute bitches as well, works both ways.
circusgirl
