Who's in a long term relationship that started on lust?

[hanselthecaretaker]

Does giving up the goods to each other so soon sabotage any long term prospects? Is courtship a thing of the past? Does this sexual "liberation" have something to do with the fact that there's so many failed relationships today?

Just wondering.

 

[georgie24]

unless your a serious player who knows how to handle women, i beleieve all guys relationships bloom from lust

 

[Dial_tone]

I have been

 

[georgie24]

me too

now its a selective process!!!

 

[puddlemonkey]

Wait, so there are other reasons to put up with the BS of a relationship besides lust?


EXPLAIN!

 

[digimon7068]

almost 18 years (15+ married). . .course it took me like months to get in her pants. . .

 

[puddlemonkey]

. . .course it took me like months to get in her pants. . .

That doesn't happen now days, 15 minutes tops.

 

[digimon7068]

That doesn't happen now days, 15 minutes tops.

meh. . .it was worth the wait. . .best fuggin' years of my life since then and they continue to get better. . .

 

[puddlemonkey]

meh. . .

I wasn't saying it as a bad thing, I'd love to find a girl worth taking home to mom. Just not many around these days. Bunch of hookers.

 

[Jon79]

That doesn't happen now days, 15 minutes tops.

 

[puddlemonkey]

What are you rolling your eyes at? I didn't say shit about men, this is a thread about male/female relations, who let you in?

 

[Jon79]

What are you rolling your eyes at? I didn't say shit about men, this is a thread about male/female relations, who let you in?

you are always braggin about how many bitches u bang and about how easy it is

 

[puddlemonkey]

you are always braggin about how many bitches u bang and about how easy it is

Come to the west coast son, sluts galore!

 

[captainahole]

Once you get over putting pussy on a petestal and realize she's not perfect and neither are you and you both realize that then you can go forward in a relationship.

 

[biteme]

meh. . .it was worth the wait. . .best fuggin' years of my life since then and they continue to get better. . .

Shut up. Noone wants to hear that crap. You may be singing a different song next week.

 

[thelion2005]

Does giving up the goods to each other so soon sabotage any long term prospects? Is courtship a thing of the past? Does this sexual "liberation" have something to do with the fact that there's so many failed relationships today?

Just wondering.

I don't have time to waste. I'll too old. So I get to know her very causually with nothing going on like a "date" (gag). She then becomes an object of lust or a person I keep at a distance.

From the first moment I am with her, the foundation is lust. I take her. She knows this or wouldn't be there anyway.

 

[biteme]

I don't have time to waste. I'll too old. So I get to know her very causually with nothing going on like a "date" (gag). She then becomes an object of lust or a person I keep at a distance.

From the first moment I am with her, the foundation is lust. I take her. She knows this or wouldn't be there anyway.

Your perspective changes when you're shorter on time.

 

[georgie24]

i agree with the puddle's, u can bang em out relativley quick, just go out and try and see for yourself

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

almost 18 years (15+ married). . .course it took me like months to get in her pants. . .

So that doesn't count because she made you wait for it (ie courtship). I'm talking when she's willing to let you in right away.

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

meh. . .it was worth the wait. . .best fuggin' years of my life since then and they continue to get better. . .

This is probably the closest to perfect answer I'm looking for.

 

[digimon7068]

Shut up. Noone wants to hear that crap. You may be singing a different song next week.

not bloody likely mate!

to have a successful long-term relationship you have to have the mind like a defensive back. . .shit's gonna happen once in a while and you gotta be able to forget about it and get ready for the next play. . .a short memory is one of the keys to a happy long-term relationship. . .

 

[digimon7068]

So that doesn't count because she made you wait for it (ie courtship). I'm talking when she's willing to let you in right away.

it was still completely based on lust. . .she had a beautiful face, i thought she was hawt, i wanted to get in her pants, i asked her out. . .there was no more thought put into it than that. . .

 

[H_T_]

nothing worthwhile comes easy....

 

[Mickey36]

My marriage started fully on lust. We were married after knowing each other for only 2 months and we are going on 14 years. Don't get married if the sex is not great. I think we just got lucky and found each other's best friend.

 

[yonkers weights]

My wife and I started out in lust and end up in love.