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who 'wants' a friend? and what if a girl starts being wayy more friendly?
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casavant
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danielson said:ok....so Casavant....assuming the bait and switch is on the cards, i dont really have a choice do i, other than to let the flirting continue, and try and escalate it myself and see if she responds
i could ask her friend to find out why she got much more friendly with me...im just afraid that might frighten her away
I've been using this line lately:
"Hey, we should get together and have some sex sometime."
No takers yet, but usually a hug and a giggle. I deadpan it though...only do it if you can deadpan. It'll all come around. Yep, it'll ALL come around.
well thing is because there are so many of us she will assume we are all going....
making one on one seem weird. she invited me out with her cousin but then she invited others....
she;s invited me to a bar as well and had that whole 'u don;t have to go if u dont want to, i might not even go' but was then ready ti when i said yes.
i think i will not show my hand just yet, see how far she takes it, hope this other guy doesnt make a move and either get my friend to ask or ask her out during the holidays. i think thats all i can do
maybe i;ll offer to massage her if she recipocates. im good at that and it should give her an idea i like her
karma to all you, some of u i already hit sohavent recharged
making one on one seem weird. she invited me out with her cousin but then she invited others....
she;s invited me to a bar as well and had that whole 'u don;t have to go if u dont want to, i might not even go' but was then ready ti when i said yes.
i think i will not show my hand just yet, see how far she takes it, hope this other guy doesnt make a move and either get my friend to ask or ask her out during the holidays. i think thats all i can do
maybe i;ll offer to massage her if she recipocates. im good at that and it should give her an idea i like her
karma to all you, some of u i already hit sohavent recharged
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danielson said:well thing is because there are so many of us she will assume we are all going....
making one on one seem weird. she invited me out with her cousin but then she invited others....
she;s invited me to a bar as well and had that whole 'u don;t have to go if u dont want to, i might not even go' but was then ready ti when i said yes.
i think i will not show my hand just yet, see how far she takes it, hope this other guy doesnt make a move and either get my friend to ask or ask her out during the holidays. i think thats all i can do
maybe i;ll offer to massage her if she recipocates. im good at that and it should give her an idea i like her
karma to all you, some of u i already hit sohavent recharged
IMO if you leave it any longer without taking it to the next level, you're definately gonna be 'Lets just be friends'd'.
NeverHugeEnough
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There are some women, and men who are just overly flirty and touchy feely. It doesn't have to mean that there are feelings between the two of you even if it is more playful etc. than you'd think is normal. As an example I am exactly this way with a friend of mine. She's engaged, I will be as soon as I get my financial shit together. There's nothing between us and never has or will be, even though we've been asked several times if there was something between us because of the way we act. What you need to do is find a way to find out if she's generally a flirty/open type of person, and then make the decision of what you want to do.
variation
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well, even though I don't practice this alot, every time that I have it's worked well.. I think women like confidence, so don't over complicate things.. be confident in your choices and words.. if you do ask her out.. do it with confidence.. simple confidence.. non complicated.
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