I was seeing this girl that i really liked. To me it seemed like we fit well togheter. We laughed and played alot. We could talk all night, or just sit there without saying anything and it wouldnt be uncomfertable.
Then my birthday came and went without her even wishing me a happy birthday. So i asked her why, and she was "oh i was sick and couldnt be bothered" (??). And i kinda got the message right then and there hehe. The a week after i got the "cant we just be friends speech". But being how i am, i cant really be around people who break my heart. So i havent talked to her since.
I was on the "all men suck train" for a while after the end of my 11 yr and 2 yr relationships. In between these two relationships, I met a bevy of total losers and did not like men for a long time.
Then I met my current boyfriend over a year ago and realized not all men are jerks. When I changed, my choice in men changed
Don't stress QT, there are some good amazing men out there.
I had my heart ripped out last Feb. Had my girl of 6 years (on and off) just stop talking to me one night...didn't pick up my calls. Next night she fuckin IM's me (of all things) and says shes unhappy and needs to take some time.
Two days later I get an email at work saying shes gone for good. I have to admit at first I was numb to it, now she is happily with someone but I take comfort in the fact that I am much better looking , bigger, tougher, make more money and much more accomplished. Even so, he gets to hit it.
The hard thing for me has been assimilating to "career" social life. It's not like my fraternity days or my HS days where so many girls knew me and it wasn't any work. Now I am the head of NJ Sales, buying a house, starting an LLC and a complete fitness/fighting freak and I figured the women would come to me, but they don't.
I'm getting ready to take the mentality that I should work on myself and my accomplishments and let the rest fall into place. Still think about her EVERY single day and hope one day she will make that call...but even then how could I trust a no good whore like that?
The smartest thing you can do for yourself. When you work on yourself, you know what you really want.
Sorry for your heartbreak, but it does get better. Life is lessons
Come on lets here your dam sob stories. I am hoping someone has a stroy far worse then my recent one. Lets just say I got played and here I thought I was too old for that shit yeah right live and learn.
P.S. I really hate men right now like really hate them.
dated girl for 6 years, planned on getting married,she was about to graduate college.
went through all the motions of planning a life together, she was getting this awesome really high paying job after she graduated(I paid for virtually everything the whole time we lived together and racked up a huge debt that she was supposed to help pay off).
We decide to move to another city, she moved first, it was right before christmas. the day before christmas eve she tells me she that she doesnt want to be with me anymore, no explanation no trying to work it out(I had no Idea this was coming).
BTW I have no family(her family had become mine) and she(or them) left me alone over the holidays and never so much as called me.
This is why 99% of women are fuckin worthless cunts as far as I'm concerned.
Come on lets here your dam sob stories. I am hoping someone has a stroy far worse then my recent one. Lets just say I got played and here I thought I was too old for that shit yeah right live and learn.
P.S. I really hate men right now like really hate them.